"Parents' Love" Jiang Defu and An Jie have walked hand in hand through their lives. What is the way to get along?

1. Husband and wife can only change a part of each other, but never completely change a person

Jiang Defu and An Jie have many problems. First of all, they grew up in different environments, and there is a big gap in their family education. This means that there are many things they don't like about each other, and these problems appear after they get married.

After marriage, Angie couldn't stand Jiang Defu's habit of not brushing his teeth in the morning, washing his hands before meals and washing before going to bed. For the sake of their lives, Angie forced Jiang Defu to start to pay attention to hygiene. Under the supervision of Anjie, Jiang Defu changed his living habits, for which he was laughed at by other officers in the army.

Angie not only changed Jiang Defu's hygiene habits, but also wanted to change Jiang Defu's wearing habits. She bought a suit for Jiang Defu, but Jiang Defu was really not used to it. This white suit was worn only once at the family dinner, and was hardly worn after that. After all, Jiang Defu was still not used to wearing a suit.

Angie didn't force Jiang Defu to get used to it. In the end, Jiang Defu still kept his own dress characteristics. Angie changed Jiang Defu's hygiene habits, but she can't change anything else. Jiang Defu is Jiang Defu, and marriage can only change part of him, but it can't completely turn him into another person.

This is Angie's cleverness. Although she thinks Jiang Defu is better in a suit, she also respects Jiang Defu. At this point, she is more reasonable than many women. She knows that she can't turn Jiang Defu into a gentle, gentle and reasonable person.

However, some people always think that marriage can completely change a person. It is impossible to expect a philanderer to keep his mind and a frivolous person to become calm after marriage. No one will be completely changed because of a marriage.

The so-called marriage is not about transforming the other person into what you expect, but about two people adapting to the imperfect one, which is the essence of marriage. Second, respect each other's hobbies

Jiang Defu and An Jie have a garden in their home. Jiang Defu likes to grow vegetables, and An Jie likes to grow flowers. They don't stipulate that this garden can only grow flowers or vegetables, but two people are busy in the yard. An Jie grows flowers, Jiang Defu grows vegetables, and keeps a small garden in good order, which is really beautiful.

Some people praised this small garden for its beauty, and Anjie introduced it to them. We both do our own things and don't bother each other.

It seems simple, but many people can't do it. People always pursue profitable things. For the sake of their families, many people are forced to give up their hobbies, which is a very painful thing.

Marriage should be a place where two people can live and relax. There is absolutely no need to deprive each other of their behaviors and hobbies. Third, learn to communicate and learn to make concessions

The best thing about Jiang Defu is that he doesn't have those boring male chauvinism. Without a fixed family, he must be the master and all family members must listen to his ideas.

on the contrary, he is gentle. He is doing the most masculine job in the world, and he is the strongest man, but when he comes home, he will become soft and will not bring home the imperative tone in the army. At home, he takes a back seat and listens to Angie in everything. If there is a problem, then two people can solve it through consultation.

Their marriage has always carried out a saying, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon". They usually listen to Anjie, and if they disagree, they can settle it through consultation.

The result of negotiation means that one person always has to make concessions. Concessions in marriage are not as simple as "losing money" and "taking advantage". They are all family members, and every concession is for this family. Fourth, the advantages are assured, and the disadvantages are in the eyes < P > Many marriages are unhappy, mostly because husband and wife put each other's disadvantages in their hearts, and put each other's goodness in their eyes, but they always remember what they have in their hearts. This kind of life will become very difficult, and marriage will not last long. In the end, there is no kindness between husband and wife, and all that is left is resentment, which makes them a pair of bitter couples.

The best way to get along in marriage is to keep in mind how nice the other person is to you.

There is love, warmth and kindness in the marriage between Jiang Defu and Anjie, and every couple who stay with them until the end always has complicated emotional reactions. Between husband and wife, you endure each other's shortcomings, and the other side also endures your shortcomings. No one is perfect, so it is fair.

Therefore, both husband and wife should not cling to other people's shortcomings and ignore their advantages.

The marriage of Jiang Defu and An Jie is the mark of an era and the representative of the marriage of their fathers. Compared with the marriage of young people in modern society, their marriage is longer, which sets an example for young people in modern society and brings us different experiences.

Their way of getting along with husband and wife is worth learning.