What about the girl who got married regardless of her family feelings?

Xiao y is a good girl, and in the eyes of adults, other people's children. Growing up, she never said no to her parents and never had to worry about studying for exams. Xiao Y's father is a businessman, trying to meet all the material needs of Xiao Y. Xiao Y's mother is a perfect housewife, and she is very strict with Xiao Y. Almost everything Xiao Y does will be accused by her mother.

Little y, who is very good, often falls into inferiority complex and cries inexplicably. Every time she goes to a new environment, she often spends the first few days in tears.

After graduating from college, Xiao Y got an offer from a foreign company that everyone envied. His job looks tall, he goes in and out of high-end office buildings, speaks a few words of English from time to time, travels frequently and lives in five-star hotels.

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Little y is not a big beauty when she grows up, but her skin is fair, which can cover up the influence of freckles and acne on her face. Thick eyebrows, a little trim is the appearance of fine eyes; Put on a pair of glasses, it looks quiet and deep. Xiao y only talked about love once after work, but she was lovelorn because her boyfriend cheated. After being lovelorn, she traveled around China for a month. She watched the stars in the crescent spring, ate roast whole sheep in the grassland, meditated in Ta 'er Temple, had a night outing in the Pearl River, and listened to the sea in Gulangyu Island ... Great rivers and mountains of the motherland and cheerful and interesting donkey friends along the way cured her.

Single again, she was introduced. Turtle, rich second generation, official second generation, all kinds of outstanding young men, after not being together for a long time or meeting for the first time, all ended up with Xiao Y's "no feeling".

Mr. g's appearance was an accident. That afternoon, Xiao Y invited a friend to play board games, and the friend took Mr. G with him. Mr. G is wearing a gray wool coat, with an angular face and a charming smile on his mouth. That smile is like the sunshine in winter, and Xiao Y feels very warm.

After that, the two added WeChat to each other and got together after a while.

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Mr. G is a single parent, has no family background, has a low academic background, and is not right with Xiao Y. When Xiao Y's parents know about it, they naturally strongly oppose it, but they can't resist the joy of their baby daughter and have no choice but to associate with it.

The warm feeling in my heart when I first met you will continue in future contacts. Because of work, Mr. G is always very busy, but no matter how busy, as long as Little Y says a word, he will immediately appear beside Little Y; Xiao Y said that she missed the authentic hairy crabs she had eaten two years ago, and the next day she received the hairy crabs sent by Mr. G by downwind express. Mr. G will suddenly appear in the downstairs of Xiao Y company, and when he learns that Xiao Y is working overtime, he will wait for her silently for three hours until she gets off work, without urging.

Little y still cried inexplicably as when she was a child. Mr. G didn't speak when he saw her, so he stayed with her, gave her a hug and helped her wipe her tears. This is what little y has been looking forward to. As soon as Xiao Y's parents saw the tears, they accused Xiao Y of being weak and incompetent. Xiao y's ex-boyfriend defended his behavior as soon as he saw the tears.

Mr. G's optimism and freedom have always infected Xiao Y. Xiao Y is always serious, and so is chatting. Mr. g will suddenly pop out a sentence to make her laugh. No matter how busy he is at work, Mr. G never complains about things at work with Xiao Y, but only silently finishes things before teasing Xiao Y. For so many years, Xiao Y has been living like a bird in a cage, and Mr. G has shown her the freedom that truly belongs to her heart.

After Mr. G gave up smoking for Xiao Y for three months and eight days, Xiao Y agreed to his proposal. Many relatives and friends of Xiao Y feel that this marriage is inappropriate and pessimistic. They even once doubted whether Xiao Y was married by a child. And Xiao Y knows that only Mr. G can endure her tears and cure her pessimism.

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One year after marriage, little G arrived. Considering that Mr. G's mother is very old and her mother is in poor health, Xiao Y decides to take care of the baby by herself.

Mr. g is under increasing economic pressure. He quit his job with only 4000 yuan a month and started a business with Xiao Y's dowry money. A family of three has entered the most difficult stage. Xiao y takes care of the baby at home every day. Life with her baby is extremely difficult. She cooks, does housework, plays with the baby and prepares complementary food for the baby. She is often very busy, and life is much more difficult than before. Mr. G goes out at 8 o'clock every day and often doesn't come back until one or two in the evening. Sometimes Xiao Y is very upset, can't handle Xiao G, and has to come back from the company to help Xiao G sleep.

Sensitive little y is always easy to fall into a state of anxiety and helplessness. Mr g can always comfort little y after his busy work. Whenever Xiao Y complains, he always has a way to help her recover. This may be a joke, or it may be to find her right away. Little y recovered well after delivery, and showed no signs of depression. Probably thanks to Mr. G for his understanding and appeasement.

Indeed, for Xiao Y, the life after marriage is very hard, but the thought that Mr. G is busy outside every day, transferring every penny he earns to her Alipay, and attaching a sentence "Money for baby's milk powder" or "You can buy a square meter house" makes her feel warm, just like the warm feeling when I first met Mr. G.

Thinking of them working hard together and moving towards a goal together, Xiao Y gradually became less anxious. After all, the process of creation is far more meaningful than creating results.

In the old days, when I walked in and out of the office building on high heels, outsiders looked glamorous, but I felt that my life was boring and meaningless, and I often fell into the anxiety of interrogating "the meaning of life." In those days when we struggled together, we did housework and played with our baby every day. Outsiders look bored, but every minute feels happy and satisfied because it has been given meaning.

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After three years of hard work by Mr. G and careful calculation by Mr. Y, they finally have their own warm cabin.

Seeing that Xiao G's social needs are getting stronger and stronger, Xiao Y sent him to the nursery, and he is ready to come back.

The three-year parenting experience is extremely hard, but it also brings Xiao Y the capital to change careers. She eats, drinks and sleeps within one year old, educates and guides after one year old, and takes every step with great care. Every problem she encounters on the way of blaming and upgrading will consult various materials and accumulate a lot of parenting knowledge and psychological knowledge. Most importantly, she also realized her own value in this process, which she felt was far more meaningful than making screws in the office. After being introduced, she easily went to the local early education institution as a teacher and transferred to her favorite industry.

On the first Saturday night of Xiao G's shift, a family of three walked in the shopping mall and passed by the small shop where Xiao Y and Mr. G first met. Xiao Y turned to look at Mr. G holding the baby, and his expression changed a lot, but the smile on his lips was still so warm.