Sa Beining spits out "foreign wives" to adopt children in a free-range way: How big is the difference between Chinese and foreign parenting concepts?

It is said that love is regardless of age and national boundaries. In today's society, there are many foreign marriages, but families with foreign backgrounds generally have two problems: one is cultural differences, and the other is education for future generations.

From psychological analysis, it is concluded that in different cultural atmosphere, there are great differences in the way of expressing emotion, behavior and understanding ability. Because of these differences, there will be many contradictions between men and women.

Therefore, the maintenance of transnational marriage should start with understanding the cultures of both sides and master the cultural differences.

Sa Beining, a famous host in China, and his wife Li Bai are a foreign couple. Li Bai, a Canadian, studied western culture since childhood. Because of their different culture and education, the two have different educational concepts for future generations.

How big is the difference between Chinese and foreign parenting concepts?

Sa Beining's talent is obvious to all. The college entrance examination entered Peking University, a graduate student of Peking University. Since he entered CCTV, he has achieved very high results in the hosting industry.

As a high-profile public figure, when the news of Sa Beining and Li Bai's love and marriage was announced, it caused quite a stir and was also blessed by the people of the whole country. After marriage, they gave birth to twins together.

In fact, foreign marriage is difficult to maintain, because of cultural differences, there will be more contradictions between husband and wife than at home.

They are a pair of "model couples" in the circle, and they have good feelings, but like normal couples, they will have contradictions and sometimes disagree on the issue of educating their children.

Sa Beining once talked about his wife Li Bai's concept of parenting in the program, and he was blunt: the other party broke up the children and let the twins chew slippers, which made him unacceptable.

He once came home from work, and when he entered the door, he saw two children with slippers in their mouths. After seeing them, he immediately took the slippers out of the children's mouths and asked his wife why she didn't stop them.

At this time, the wife said, "The slippers at home are all right." In the wife's mind, everything at home is clean, and it's okay to chew.

Sa Beining's helplessness to his wife's ideas reflects their ideological differences. His wife thought it was ok, but Sa Beining couldn't understand his wife's thoughts, so when he talked about it on the show, Sa Beining was surprised.

Li Bai's concept of parenting is because of his western education and let children grow up independently. Sa Beining, who received Chinese education since childhood, is meticulous in China, so they have different views on parenting.

Therefore, in the education of children, husbands care too much about the details of children's growth and will be rejected by their wives; The wife's laissez-faire education will be vomited by her husband. However, the couple also added a lot of fun to their lives because of cultural differences.

Sa Beining said with a smile that the story happened in his life with his wife: once, Li Bai wanted to say "I killed you", but because he was used to inversion, he said "I killed you".

This unintentional joke made the two people who were quarreling never fight again. Every time two people have a contradiction, they will communicate with each other and finally reach an agreement to solve it together.

What deserves more attention than nationality differences is the conflict of ideas.

It can also be seen from Sa Beining's husband and wife that the conflict of parenting ideas has little to do with nationality.

The contradiction between husband and wife is mostly due to the contradiction in concept, especially the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is also very unfavorable to the growth of children. To deal with the conflict of parenting concepts, we must first do not quarrel in front of children.

Family quarrels can't solve the fundamental problem. Endless quarrels will only increase family conflicts. Quarrel in front of children will leave a bad impression on children and even affect their lives.

Secondly, from the perspective of improving relationships, many people understand that if family members have bad relationships, it is easy to have conflicts. Therefore, the quality of relationship management directly affects the conflict of parenting concepts.

If there is business and quantity between husband and wife, and everything is based on communication, it is easy to resolve contradictions and reach a consistent view of parenting. On the other hand, it is impossible to deal with the differences in parenting concepts.