"Her City"

Chi Li writes about Wuhan, different people, different stories, real life, unlike Zhang Xiaoxian’s novels about urban women, where the stories are all melancholic fairy tales, different People, the same story, are always a little different from life.

? The real understanding of Wuhan started from Chi Li’s book. In the past, I only heard some superficial words, such as Wuhan’s dirty and crowded, Wuhan people’s fierceness, and the pride of Wuhan dialect. Or an inexplicable pride and boast! In short, for many people who don’t really understand Wuhan and just pass by Wuhan like a dragonfly, this is what Wuhan looks like. Chi Li's novel truly explains what Wuhan is and the characteristics of Wuhan people. In my opinion, Wuhan people have an inner magnanimity. They have a temperament that is no worse than any other city in the country. They enjoy their own life, love everything about this old city, and live enthusiastically. There is a different kind of temperament. I think that after staying in Wuhan for a long time and getting to know Wuhan, everyone will fall in love with this city. Although it is a bit noisy, this is a really suitable place to live.

? "Her City" tells the story of authentic Wuhan women, who meet, quarrel, and get to know each other. Friendship between same-sex people is extremely precious. Only women understand women's problems. This story is about "tongwives", and the wives of gay men are simply called "tongwives". This is a term I saw on Li Yinhe’s Weibo after reading. Then I carried forward the style of asking questions when I don't understand, and checked a lot of online information, and found such a group of miserable women. As a woman, I can only say that I really hate their husbands, not because they are gay. I have always believed that everyone can have their own hobbies and interests, and you can do whatever you like as long as it does not break the law. But one thing is that Be sure not to hinder others and do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you - this is basic human morality. Although they may face various pressures from parents and society, everyone must pay for their own hobbies and interests. Sacrificing an innocent woman and the accompanying poor children is extremely selfish, conscienceless and inferior to animals. In today's China, the number of "same wives" is no less than 10 million. These tens of millions of women should have a happy life, but they can only be in an embarrassing situation. They use their great maternal love to wrong themselves, Taking care of the children, I was under tremendous mental pressure. However, in this novel, under her guidance, she finally walked out of that grave marriage and began to look for her own happiness - I hope it's not a fairy tale!

? I hope these thousands of co-wives or co-husbands will come out, unite, and sue the so-called husbands or wives, asking them to compensate for tens of millions of mental losses! If the law does not allow it, it means there are loopholes in the law and it needs to be improved. I remember reading an article when I was in middle school. My daughter was walking on the sidewalk and was killed by a drunk driver. According to the law at the time, the perpetrator was unharmed, so she started a lawsuit that lasted nearly twenty years until the law was improved. , she said - I will not let my daughter die in vain (similar to the great "Tang Hui")! I was so excited after reading it that I couldn't wait to ask my mother this question - if I was hit and killed, would she want money or would she insist on being sent to jail? ! But I didn't dare to ask - maybe because I was afraid of getting beaten. I asked my husband the same question, but of course I don’t remember his rhetorical answer. After all, how can I take what I said during a relationship seriously?

? Chi Li is my favorite domestic female writer, none of them. I have never read any of her books. They always remind me that as a woman, we should live passionately and truly! ! !