Why do you always hear that full-time nannies bring their children to depression, but never hear that mother-in-law brings their children to depression?

This statement is only half right and half wrong. Because my mother-in-law is afraid to say no matter how hard she takes care of her children, for fear that her daughter-in-law will be unhappy, no one knows that her mother-in-law is exhausted with her children, because her mother-in-law will not be on the news. However, all depressed mothers with children are due to the lack of roles of men, husbands and fathers, and they also have to make mental attacks on Ma Bao. They can be harsh on their wives, but most of them are grateful and distressed when they treat their mothers. However, today's young mothers are too delicate, don't eat hard and have poor concentration.

The temptation of the outside world is too great. I used to be free to play before getting married. In short, it is far worse than our generation. Similarly, our generation is not as good as our mother's. They have a tradition of honoring their parents-in-law and taking care of their children, but at the same time they work like male workers and do housework when they go home. Besides, their husbands seldom help. To make matters worse, every woman has four or five children. There are only one or two children in our generation, and my husband can't be the master, so he can help with housework. But young mothers can still carry their own burdens. But now that the young mother has given birth to a child, she is complaining and going to the gate of hell, hoping to ask her in-laws to fill her life. It is said that if surrogacy is worth hundreds of thousands, the in-laws' lifetime savings are not enough as a bride price.

I think only the mother takes care of the baby, and no mother-in-law takes care of the baby alone, right? Even if the mother-in-law is breastfeeding the baby, the mother will definitely participate. Therefore, it is impossible for a mother-in-law to take care of the baby alone from beginning to end. In fact, many mothers' depression has been a foreshadowing since the second month.

Don't say what your husband doesn't understand. Even if my husband understands that it is hard for me to take care of my baby full-time, I sometimes feel depressed. I do everything at home. I take my baby to clean, cook, wash clothes, tidy the wardrobe, change the bedding regularly, prepare the clothes that my family will wear in spring, summer, autumn and winter on time, take my baby to school and teach them to do homework to play with them. Sometimes I don't ask him to take care of my baby. As time goes by, I become more and more depressed, and the whole person becomes more and more depressed, and I don't want to cook or take care of the baby for a few days every month. My husband will watch at home and I will take the initiative to take care of the baby.

It is usually postpartum depression. I just gave birth to a baby and experienced severe physical pain. This will really feel wronged for young mothers now. If there is no one to help with the children, everything will be done by yourself, which will lead to depression!

The most important thing is physical reasons. My mother has experienced life and death, and she is very weak. They have to take care of their children and give birth to milk. They don't know anything, they have to put up with family complaints and earn money. My mother-in-law also experienced it when she took care of her children, and it was in her own home. She takes care of the baby with grace and superiority, and makes money easily. Why not?

Not only from family, but also from society. Worried about being out of touch with society, anxious. Family members don't understand, and they don't feel safe leaving their families. Being physically and mentally exhausted with children. This kind of mental and physical pressure will make some women feel depressed. Anyway, this society is heartless and free, and the more sensible it is, the more committed it is.

The concept is different. It is mutual affection for the old man to help with the children. You should study hard. And as long as you ask the baby at home for money, young people won't ask why. Of course, except gambling, if two old people share the burden, there will be help in life. Think about what my mother-in-law will say. If you spend too much money, the child will get sick. If the husband doesn't have time to go to work, it's all yours. Young people are under great pressure. Old people will also say that you are useless. In fact, what he said was that Ma Bao was incompetent. Old people will talk about how they suffered before. What does Ma Bao think? Can you not suffer from depression? If I choose again, I won't take care of the baby at home, and it will still be a joke in the end.

What happened to the mother-in-law and the doll? The young couple dare not say anything. If they say stop crying and making trouble, kneel down and apologize. The daughter-in-law and children are supervised by a group of people. Then I'm in a good mood. Both the true story and the young couple were made up by the teacher. Mother-in-law bathes the baby once a week. There are porridge and sweet and sour garlic on the breakfast table all year round. As soon as the son said that the child needed nutrition to be a grandmother, he began to give his daughter-in-law a look.

The problem is that my mother-in-law can leave if she feels that she is not good with her children. People will say you look at you. Your mother-in-law is so hard, what do you say about her? My mother-in-law's children were all brought by her mother-in-law, not to mention her own at that time, and we were all rural. To tell the truth, in fact, her husband can't support his family alone or she is afraid that her husband will cheat after he doesn't go to work. The wife can't continue the rest of her life alone. What was it like before? At that time, the divorce rate was low, and most of them were male breadwinners. Of course, there are also dual-income families, but parents of dual-income families are also involved in raising children. How else can I go to work (there are still a few people who hire nannies).

In rural areas, many poor old men and women who came to get rich by their children can't hide their daughters-in-law to take care of their children full-time. You don't want to go to work just because you can take care of the baby? . Old men and women who make money by showing off their children don't know that they can't take good care of their grandchildren, so their daughters-in-law are determined to work full-time to break their selfishness of collecting living expenses every month.