Husband and wife quarreled in the cold war, who made peace first?

Today, I saw a woman posting, and her question was this: If the husband and wife quarrel over the cold war, who should take the initiative to make up first?

Every time I see a similar couple problem, I am actually particularly disgusted. Because the poster never thinks from the other side's standpoint, he only cares about himself. For example, it gives people the impression that his original intention is to show that men should take the initiative to make peace when quarreling during the Cold War. I think this is wrong. So I briefly analyzed the psychology of husband and wife under the cold war and replied to her.

There is no question of whether to say it or not. I quoted a joke on the Internet, "Being a man for the first time, why should I let you walk around?" Although this sentence reveals a selfish feeling, who is not selfish when people are alive! Back to the topic, talk about the couple quarreling about the cold war. There is no quarrel between husband and wife. How can two people with independent personalities live together without any difference? There will naturally be quarrels when there are differences, and the result is likely to be to throw the other side into the cold war.

In most couples' cold war, we can find that men usually choose to remain silent, while women will talk to others and complain about the other half. In fact, women hope that men will take the initiative to admit their mistakes from the bottom of their hearts. Even after she confided in others, she came to the conclusion that she was wrong and unreasonable, but she still hoped that men would bow their heads first. It sounds unreasonable, but this is the reality. Women will stick to the idea that even if I am wrong, the man should tolerate me and shouldn't accuse me, otherwise he doesn't love me and is not good for me. Of course, some women are still rational and worthy of praise. )

First of all, he is still very angry, but he understands all the contradictions between husband and wife. As long as it is not a matter of principle, everything is easy to discuss. Besides, there is no need to quarrel with your wife. As long as your wife is angry, you can't hit her even if you cover your mouth. Let her calm down and wait until she is angry. Under normal circumstances, couples in the cold war state are mostly men who take the initiative to admit their mistakes. Here, they are not speaking for men, but for a family. Men are relatively rational and take care of the overall situation, while women are more emotional.

In fact, sometimes men don't admit their mistakes from the heart, but feel that it doesn't make much sense to care about women. As a man, they should be broad-minded. But they want women to understand their difficulties. If women take the initiative to admit their mistakes, they will feel that the other half really cares about themselves, so they will cherish the other half more.

In life, there is really no need for husband and wife to distinguish who is right and who is wrong. Many times, it is anger that keeps the two sides deadlocked. Instead of a cold war, it is better to make a small concession and be more considerate of each other. Marriage is not easy, cherish it!

Today's topic: How to avoid quarreling between husband and wife?

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