The employee won a 1,000 yuan treat, and his colleague ordered a dish worth 3,000 yuan, then turned around and left. Netizens: Don’t show shame.

Such an "embarrassing thing" happened in the company downstairs. Employee Lin Zi won 1,000 yuan by buying lottery tickets. Colleague Ahu made a treat and booked a high-end restaurant. Ah Hu ordered fresh seafood like crazy, and when he saw that the price exceeded 3,000 yuan, his colleagues were still making noises. Since Lin Zi was bleeding, we should kill him. Lin Zi looked ugly, threw down the 800 yuan, said, "You can eat it," and turned around to leave. When the news reached the ears of the leader, the leader praised Lin Zi, "What a handsome move."

Ahu posted a post to denounce Lin Zi, was Lin Zi right? Netizens left messages one after another: Not only did Lin Zi do the right thing, but he also showed the temperament of being "principled, bottom-lined, and good-tempered." He is a good person, his movements are clean and neat, he doesn't talk nonsense, he doesn't nag, it's unlucky for Mrs. Lin, just throw money away. Come on, this action is very cool and worth promoting.

When getting along with colleagues, you need to be more cautious than when making friends in life, and the safety boundaries are clearer. Because the friend fell out, the two of them broke up at worst. Colleagues fall out with each other, and they have to be in the same room, which makes them feel bad for a long time. Of course, there are also conflicts of interest among colleagues. For example, they may give you a bad review when you are competing for a job. Therefore, colleagues generally maintain a "hedgehog-warming" relationship.

The main responsibility for this ridiculous and exasperating incident lies with the shameless Ah Hu, who had an extremely unhealthy mentality and wanted to take advantage of the opportunity to "friendly" kidnap his colleagues and take advantage of him. As a result, he met someone like Lin Zi "The stubble of bad deeds" creates a situation of "stealing the chicken but losing the rice". Let it be embarrassing if the situation is embarrassing. In fact, everyone is responsible.

First, everyone should know this principle of treating guests.

It is also common in the workplace for co-workers to occasionally win some prizes, and co-workers to have a party with the winners paying for them. According to popular psychology, if you win a prize of 1,000 yuan, a treat of about 300 yuan is more appropriate. If the lottery winner is happy and spends the 1,000 yuan on food and drinks, it is equivalent to not winning the lottery, so it is okay to just be happy. It is a courtesy for a lottery winner to treat guests, but it is a duty not to treat guests. It was luck that won the prize. Did your colleagues help? Did you contribute? Heckling is okay, but moral kidnapping is not.

Second, most people in the workplace still understand the world.

All colleagues who understand the world will understand the above principle of treating guests. There are always people who pretend to be confused and take advantage of the situation. Other colleagues also "took advantage of the situation" and did not consider it a big deal to watch the excitement.

For example, when they see you win a prize of 1,000 yuan, they immediately start making noises. If you don’t treat such a big happy event, will everyone agree or disagree? Colleagues must have yelled "disagree". Is the lottery winner embarrassed to refuse? When you get to the restaurant, this kind of person will yell, "He won the lottery and treat him, so don't be polite, take the opportunity to kill him." This person is so shameless. He has more than 3,000 points, which is a bit too much. For this kind of person, don't show shame the first time and retaliate resolutely. Otherwise, you will suffer the consequences of being dumb. Not only will they not appreciate it, they will also laugh at you for being stupid.

Third, other colleagues are also responsible, so feel free to embarrass them.

Ahu spent more than 3,000 yuan and still refused to stop. His colleagues continued to make noises. Do they think it is appropriate? Some colleagues have the mentality of just watching the fun and not taking it too seriously, and some colleagues also have the mentality of taking advantage. Anyway, for more than 3,000 points, everyone can enjoy it. The one who is embarrassed is A Hu, and the one who suffers is Lin Zi. Logically speaking, a colleague should have stood up and advised Ah Hu not to order so many, and don’t go too far to rip off people. He laughed and the matter was over, but no one said anything. That's right if the lottery winner throws away the money and walks away.

When encountering this kind of thing, some netizens criticized Lin Zi for not understanding emotional intelligence. Since he was going to treat him, he should grit his teeth and insist on paying the bill. He would learn from the experience and not be taken advantage of in the future. Some netizens also believe that Lin Zi did the right thing in this matter and must make a decisive decision, throw down the money and leave without even giving him any face.