A funny joke of two and a half years old.

"I want to find mom, mom, come back!" Then there was the child's heartbreaking cry next door.

The love affair hurriedly ran out to see the children. The house next door is the home of Cheng Cheng's in-laws. On entering the room, the children's grandmother smiled and said, "His uncle played a joke on him, saying that his mother had left and didn't want him! The child had a good time and began to cry when he heard this, haha ~ "

Love is really mixed, and I really want to swear, but I will only stay for a few days in the New Year, so why turn my face? Forget it. Pick up the baby and go back to your room.

In fact, this is not the first time this has happened. This makes children pay close attention to Cheng Cheng. When they go to the toilet, the children should follow. When Cheng Cheng is here, the children can play at grandma's house for a long time. When Cheng Cheng is away, the child will find his mother for a while.

Cheng Cheng is very worried that the child is two and a half years old and still sticks to his mother like this. What can I do at this rate?

Life Times once published a statistical report about "You hate the way of teasing children", in which the joke "Your mother doesn't want you" ranked first with the data of 19.36%.

There are too many elders around us who like to tease children with this sentence. When they see their children crying for fear, they will laugh at each other. As everyone knows, this kind of joke psychology that builds happiness on children's fears is really irritating.

The short six words "Mom doesn't want you" not only maliciously convey the wrong message, but also cause great fear to children and make them feel insecure.

Children's world is very simple, and it is easy to believe what others say. They don't know what is a joke and what is real, but they know what is separation. Before the age of 3, children were dependent on their mothers, fearing that their mothers would leave their sight. If the family around you often make such jokes about children, it will only strengthen the children's fear.

If one day, mom really needs to go out to do things, children will only think that mom really doesn't want TA and really left. Although the mother has gone home, it can't eliminate the child's fear, but it will only make the child more uneasy.

But in the face of such jokes from relatives and friends, what should we do as children's mothers?

1. Give the child an explanation at that time immediately to eliminate the child's anxiety and fear.

When someone tells the child that "your mother has left and doesn't want you", the mother should immediately say to the child: "Mom was very busy just now (such as washing clothes and doing housework) and didn't have time to accompany you. Isn't mom by your side? "

Or if you want to go out and have to ask your family to take care of your children for one day, you should give your children a time limit, such as when to pick them up in the afternoon, so that they can psychologically understand that you will still come back.

2. Encourage children to deny what others say.

Encourage children to refute in time. You can imitate the child's voice and say, "no, mom won't leave!" Mom loves babies the most. "

At the same time, let children understand that if others say something that makes them question or angry, teach them to learn to say "no!" " "I don't like you if you talk like that again!" Let adults know that their words will make children hate him, so they will shrink back, not play.

3. Take the children away from the scene

When the child is crying because of fear, the mother should leave the scene with the child in her arms and leave the scene where the adults are still immersed in jokes. Next, the mother should calm the child's emotions in time, repeat "Mom loves you, Mom won't leave you" over and over again, and hug and kiss the child to make the child feel safe again.

Children are too clingy, mostly because the family around them told the child this joke, "Your mother doesn't want you", which is like a sword, stabbing the child and stabbing the mother's heart at the same time. A child is a piece of meat that fell from his mother. No one in this world will love her children more than her mother. If she dies, she won't leave you, my child!