How to chat with girls

1. Don’t cater to girls

This can be said to be the passion of most spare tires, bill-paying men, and brothers who have been pursuing fruitlessly for many years. It can be said that this is the process of chasing girls. A very serious kind of "silk" thinking. So in relationships, what is "silk"? To put it simply, men who don't let women use their brains are "silly". For example, they know that you will say good morning, lunch and good night without guessing, and they know that you will definitely show up after sending a message. If you say that your best friend buys a bag and you can't bear to part with it, just You can receive red envelopes...wait a minute, you don't even have to think about it, how can you make a girl tempted?

Remember, a man must have serious business. If you try to please the other person, it will only show that you are "not liked by women" and that you have no principles of your own. If a girl doesn't like you, you have no principles of your own (which can also be called A man with "masculine charm" cannot attract women, and at most he can only be a spare tire and a paycheck.

2. Mystery

We all know that women like romance/surprises and are full of curiosity about all mysterious things. In fact, romance/surprises are also a type of mystery, but mystery is not When talking about "things you don't know", you can't tell a girl about Einstein's theory of relativity, nor about Hawking's brief history of time. Of course, if the girl is a "female doctor", that's another story. Value is closely related to unknown things”, and high value refers more to your emotional intelligence, life, behavior, thoughts, interests and hobbies, etc. So we need to make it difficult for girls to understand our behavior and thinking patterns.

3. Push and pull

Push and pull can be said to be a surefire way to arouse girls’ emotions. What is push and pull? Pushing means using relatively negative words or actions to deny, reject, tease, or challenge the other person, making her feel that you don't mean anything to her; pulling means using relatively positive words or actions to affirm, get close to, and praise her. , attract each other. The combined use of the two is push and pull. Between push and pull, the girl's emotions will change from wanting to serve you with a pink fist to having a little happiness and joy in her heart. From the trough to the peak, it will be a roller coaster-like emotional experience. Achieve the effect of quickly heating up your relationship.