The short-lived marriage between Che Xiao and the richest man in Shanxi: Are female celebrities who quit wealthy families all ruthless characters?

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When it comes to Che Xiao, everyone will think of the grand wedding between her and Shanxi’s richest man Li Zhaohui in 2010.

The scene was comparable to the Spring Festival Gala, with more than 200 luxury cars and 500 banquet tables. Those attending the wedding did not have to contribute any money, but instead received a 500 yuan red envelope. It is said that this wedding cost 50 million. In that era, few people could match it.

It was not a loss for Che Xiao to marry Li Zhaohui. Although Li Zhaohui was not outstanding in appearance and even a little greasy, Che Xiao was only a third-tier actor at the time.

Compared with many female celebrities who married rich men much older than themselves, Che Xiao was lucky. At the time of her marriage, Li Zhaohui was only 29 years old and in the prime of his youth.

This wedding pushed Che Xiao's life to a climax and she became a female star that everyone envied. It is said that Li Zhaohui fell in love with Che Xiao at first sight, and then he spent a lot of money to pursue her, buying famous brand bags and cars.

Not only that, in order to support Che Xiao’s dream, Li Zhaohui also opened a luxury store for her.

Li Zhaohui is not a nouveau riche. He inherited his father's business at a young age. In 2002, he took over Haixin Iron and Steel Group from his father Li Haicang and served as the group's chairman and general manager. He has been selected as the "Youngest Mainland Rich List" by Hurun Rich List several times.

In the eyes of many people, he is definitely a diamond king, and the woman who marries him is a blessing. Indeed, even Che Xiao said that Li Zhaohui was a polite, sincere and enthusiastic person.

Many wealthy families have many demands on female stars, such as not being allowed to film and having to return to their families, but Li Zhaohui’s only request for Che Xiao is to reduce the frequency of filming.

Perhaps for Li Zhaohui at that time, being able to marry Che Xiao was also full of pride. In addition, he did not need to be suppressed by his family, and he also had his own feelings for Che Xiao. idea.

Such a wealthy marriage should be a model of happiness. But the marriage between the two people only lasted 15 months, as short as fireworks. Everyone is very curious about the reason for the divorce. The official answer is that the two people have different personalities.

But later Che Xiao also said: "He is a good person, but he is so much like my mother. There are two people in the world who love me the most, one is my mother and the other is him. Their love makes me happy." I can't bear it."

There were rumors at the time that Li Zhaohui gave Che Xiao a breakup fee of 200 million, but Che Xiao later denied it: "I don't want the country that the other party has worked hard to build." Compared with female celebrities who left wealthy families in despair, Che Xiao's divorce is undoubtedly honorable.

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Now, it has been 8 years since Che Xiao and Li Zhaohui divorced. In the past 8 years, although Che Xiao has been tepid, he is not worried about running out of films.

Li Zhaohui is no longer the richest man in Shanxi. In 2014, he was completely bankrupt and owed a huge sum of money. But in terms of marriage, he married a young and beautiful actress.

Many people said that Che Xiao would have made the wrong choice when he left Li Zhao. After all, the other party was in the limelight, and Che Xiao could also take advantage of it to fly. With the title of a wealthy wife, she should have more weight in the entertainment industry.

But in my opinion, Che Xiao will not regret leaving Li Zhaohui. Many people envy female celebrities marrying wealthy families, but few people ask, is marrying wealthy families really the best choice for female celebrities?

Ordinary people’s marriages are just like a piece of cake, but the marriages of wealthy families are more difficult than you can imagine. There are interests, disputes and calculations here, which requires high emotional intelligence, step by step, and even more caution.

If you make any mistake, you will become a joke. A female star who marries into a wealthy family gets her so-called destination, but also loses her freedom.

Ten-billionaire Hu Jing, who was married to a wealthy Singaporean, also faced many problems after marriage. If she wanted to give up her career, she had to dress according to local customs. There were strict rules on which hand to use when eating. .

A wealthy family is not as simple as you think. No matter how much glory and wealth you enjoy, you will have to bear as much pressure. Which rich man doesn't choose between freedom and patience?

Che Xiao and Li Zhaohui were only 29 years old when they got married, which was the best time for a female star. For her, personal freedom is more precious than the wealth of a wealthy family. Now 38 years old, Che Xiao is living a good life. He is not a big star, and his life is considered self-sufficient.

If he and Li Zhaohui had not divorced back then, I am afraid that the current situation would be miserable. Rich families only have money, and if they go bankrupt, they will not be as good as ordinary families. Marriage in a wealthy family involves too many complications, and not every female star can handle it.

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Why are wealthy families not the best choice for female celebrities?

Looking at the female celebrities who married into wealthy families, many of them were at the peak of their careers, such as Alyssa Chia, Liu Tao, Lingling Chu, and Michelle Reis. After marrying into wealthy families, their trajectories were similar, retiring from the entertainment industry and starting a life of raising husbands and raising children.

The lucky female star has reached the pinnacle of life. If you meet someone unkind, you will lose your entire life. Just like Alyssa Chia, who had such a prosperous career back then, she did not hesitate to give up her career for Sun Zhihao, and even got pregnant out of wedlock.

At that time, all fans were against it, but Alyssa Chia was determined to get married. After the marriage, many problems came to light. Sun Zhihao was involved in scandals, and finally got divorced, and even fought for the custody of their children.

For Alyssa Chia, this wealthy marriage is not only about her happiness in the first half of her life, but also about her youth and career.

Think about it from another perspective, would these female stars really have a bad life if they didn’t marry into rich families?

Not necessarily, there is no female star who has the ability to become famous in the entertainment industry without beauty and ability. Look at Liu Tao. When Feng Ke went bankrupt and she came back, didn't she turn herself into a wealthy family?

A wealthy family is more like a besieged city. People inside want to get out, and people outside want to get in. Only you can understand the feeling. Female celebrities who quit wealthy families have seen through the complexity of wealthy families and want to pursue freedom.

The short-lived marriage between Che Xiao and the richest man in Shanxi is the best example. Money is only part of it. If you want true happiness, you need the freedom to control your own life. Rich family is not a shortcut for female stars.

Beauvoir once said in her book "The Second Sex": "The great luck of a man is that he, whether as an adult or as a child, must embark on an extremely difficult road, but this It is the most reliable path; the misfortune of a woman is that she is surrounded by almost irresistible temptations; she is not required to work hard, but is only encouraged to slide down to reach bliss. When she realizes that she has been fooled by a mirage, it is already too late. , her strength has been exhausted in the failed adventure."

Female stars who quit wealthy families are all ruthless characters, because they understand this well, so they retreat without a trace.