Couples suddenly find that their boyfriends are right in their quarrels. How can we alleviate this embarrassment?

Maybe many people think that when couples quarrel, boys should make way for girls. Halfway through the quarrel, I suddenly found that my boyfriend was right. How can we alleviate this embarrassment?

First, retreat for progress.

There is an interesting joke on the internet: you crushed a mineral water bottle, coaxed it and said sorry to it. Will it recover? No, but blow with your mouth. Indeed, imagine that during the quarrel, you choose to apologize seriously. Although your attitude is beyond reproach, there will always be less tenderness and rigidity in front of lovers. But if you blow "rainbow fart" when you apologize, it will achieve a completely different effect. With this combination, her boyfriend will apologize to her and reflect on what she didn't say just now, and then they will be happy and reconciled.

Second, the problem of direct hit.

Some people say that quarreling is the highest form of flirting between lovers. Indeed, some couples quarrel because Mars hits the earth, and some couples quarrel in the end, which will turn into lightning and thunder. Because of the reaction of orgasm and pleasure, the brain completely vented its emotions. Emotion is a neurotransmitter or hormone secreted by the brain, and orgasm and pleasure are also the secretion of neurotransmitters in the brain. The pleasure of secretion exceeds the emotion and suppresses the emotion. This is also a sexual bribe between lovers, and it is the first aid for emotional quarrels within 24 hours.

Third, the contradiction transfer type.

When many girls quarrel, the common trick is to transfer contradictions and muddy the water. For example, ask the other person, why were you so loud just now? Why are you so fierce? In short, it is to shift the contradiction to the attitude of the other party. However, this move may be too demanding. What's more, some boyfriends will take the initiative to follow the girlfriend's path after finding out the routine, leaving her no choice. In fact, there is nothing wrong with the contradiction transfer itself. If used well, you can "counterattack".

Fourth, seek truth from facts.

A girl left us a message backstage, saying that many people around me told me that you are a girl, and only if you show weakness and coquetry can someone love you and hurt you. However, I want to tell girls that girls who are calm, rational and independent will also be loved. Because the education we have received since childhood is that "it is a good boy to know your mistakes and correct them." Apologize to the person who should have made a mistake. Why do boys have to give in first without principles? The point is that it is also harmful to ask boys to apologize first: some words can be said once or twice, and it is of little value to say too much.