What should be done to make up for the harm caused by family difficulties to children?

There is no way to make up for it, especially the psychological damage caused by family difficulties. If forced to make up, it will cause problems such as abuse of property and more sensitivity. Let nature take its course, or slowly improve the economy. If you get rich at once, it will easily lead to people's fall.

Family financial difficulties can really hurt children. On February 29th, the media reported a case in which a little girl committed suicide because of family financial difficulties. Children who grow up in cities may have mobile phones, tablets and computers since childhood, and it is impossible to imagine what kind of life it is to commit suicide without a mobile phone. However, quite a few rural families are really too poor to buy an extra mobile phone.

After the news report, many good people contacted their families and donated materials to them. I believe that after the little girl is discharged from the hospital, she can go online for classes normally.

However, how will her mentality change when she takes online classes now, compared with not taking online classes before? We don't know. But it can be predicted that the lower the attention and exposure, the lighter the negative impact of poverty on her.

In fact, sometimes it doesn't hurt so much.

When all the children in the small mountain village are dressed in rags, no one will look down on anyone. But when they leave the school in the mountains and enter the school life in the city, they will feel the harm brought by poverty: uniform school uniforms may cost a lot of money. New stationery, the new world, and even the discriminatory eyes of city people?

But there is no need to make up for it. The hardships of life have long made them understand. They must work hard and strive hard. ? Children from poor families take charge early? This sentence is not a joke. Many children from poor families have already started to help with housework early when their families are in financial difficulties.

There are even some children who help subsidize the family's economic income by picking up bottles and collecting waste products.

Poverty is not the original sin. What really hurts them is not poverty, but the difference and discrimination brought by poverty. If we can pay more attention in our daily life, where will these injuries come from?

Some universities give these students with financial difficulties some special subsidies: go to the canteen to eat three meals a month, but if the consumption amount is below a certain amount, they will silently pay 500 yuan more to the card. First, they eat three meals, but the amount is very low, which proves that they may not want to order expensive meat dishes when ordering, and their economic situation is not very good. And the way of granting subsidies is also very particular, without fanfare? Donation ceremony for poor students? There was no news report, but I helped them silently.

If there are many such behaviors, how can there be such great harm?