These questions are jokes for parents and torture for children.

It doesn't matter. This is an interesting joke.

The older you grow up, the more you like to joke, especially parents with children, who simply regard their children as toys with high IQ. Like looking at a magic mirror, keep asking, "Do you like your father or mother?" "Do you want to go to Tsinghua or Peking University?" "Do you know that we study history?" "If you don't sleep, I'll leave you to the wolf." ......

These parents think that they are just a little joke of Doby children, but they have caused indelible pain to their children.

@ Jingjing Jingjing: I am 20 years old, but I still remember that when I was five or six years old, my family always forced me to answer whether I loved my father or my mother, which led to my phobia of choice, fear of choosing, and fear of being abandoned by people who made wrong choices. I feel very unsafe. Girlfriend talked three or four times and fled in a hurry.

@ Look at the mountain is the mountain: Three days ago, I told a five-year-old boy the story of the wolf and warned him that if he didn't sleep well, the wolf would take him away. For three days, he cried, dreamed and called for help before going to bed every night. I really regret it.

@ glutinous rice cake: My parents love to quarrel, but when they quarrel, they will make up, and then jokingly ask me who to choose for divorce, which scared me for several days.

No matter from that point of view, these adults think that flirting with children is irrelevant, which has become a false proposition. It is natural to make a normal joke, but it is really speechless to choose between parents like this.

As a result, many children are psychologically invisible, afraid of choice, and become timid. They feel that they are wrong, and they always feel abandoned and insecure.

This is the sorrow of parents' failure in education!

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