What if you are always laughed at for being ugly?

Everyone loves beauty, whether it is beautiful or handsome, everyone likes to watch it, but I don't agree that everything is fine if people are beautiful. But the problem is that before you get married, everyone will stare at the face and height of your boyfriend or girlfriend, and they will also whisper to each other: whose daughter you see is really handsome, whose girl you see is ugly, and so on.

In marriage, the appearance of two people is only superficial. Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on the sincerity and love given to the other party, but the appearance has nothing to do with sincerity. However, people don't think so before they get married. Everyone likes their children's objects to look pleasing to the eye, feel that they have great face, and are afraid of being laughed at by others. But you just found a boyfriend who is not very handsome, and you will always be laughed at by others for being ugly. What should you do?

Introduce your boyfriend generously.

I remember when my husband and I first met, my husband went to my house and all the neighbors went to see it. To tell the truth, my husband is tall, fair-skinned and handsome, except that he is a little poor and older than me. At least most people can't say anything bad about his appearance. Walking with my husband, our neighbors also praised us and said that we are really a couple (hehe). But my husband is older than me, so my neighbors will point fingers, but I like it. I don't care who I want. Not only that, as long as I have the opportunity, I will take mine everywhere and introduce him generously to others. Remember, others can look down on your boyfriend, and you can't look down on him, because you will be the one who will walk hand in hand with him for the whole life. He is your choice, you can't be ashamed of other people's advice. Even if your boyfriend is really ugly, you should generously introduce to others: this is my boyfriend, the man I want to hold hands with all my life.

Show your boyfriend's good points.

Is the boyfriend ugly? What does it matter? There is nothing wrong with a man's ugliness, as long as that man knows himself well and is good to you. Others say that your boyfriend is ugly, and you laugh at your boyfriend even more. It doesn't matter. Let them laugh. All you have to do is quietly show the advantages of your boyfriend. Especially your own family, if your family also hates the ugliness of the boyfriend you are looking for, you should try your best to let your boyfriend show his advantages and let your family know that your boyfriend's advantages are many times uglier than his. Compared with those advantages, what is ugliness? There will be some good girls around us who marry ugly men, but look at those ugly men who are married and really love their daughters-in-law. Ugly is better than a man with good skin who doesn't know how to hurt his wife.

Let your family treat your boyfriend well.

I'm still saying that it's someone else's business for others to laugh at their boyfriends. You and your family can't laugh. At least tell the difference between home and outside, right Even if you think your boyfriend is ugly, it's just closing the door and saying you can't show it in front of outsiders. Your family is disgusted, let alone outsiders? Then outsiders will say more: you see, your own family feels ugly. Let your family treat your boyfriend well, don't treat others badly because of his appearance, and say good things about your boyfriend in front of outsiders, so that others can know that although your boyfriend is not good-looking, he is very, very good inside, and you and your family are also very satisfied with your boyfriend. In this way, your behavior, the behavior of your family, will let others know that you are picking up a treasure, not looking for an ugly grass.

Let everyone know that you are happy.

Although happiness is not for showing off, sometimes it is necessary to show off, especially when others laugh at your boyfriend's ugliness, you should always show off your happiness. Although I personally feel that life is my own, life is my own, and happiness is my own. No one needs to take care of it, let alone tell anyone, but there are still three words called fighting for breath. Others laugh at your boyfriend's ugliness all day, and your family will be laughed at by others because of your boyfriend's appearance, but you are extremely happy. Why not expose your happiness? Can those who show off their boyfriends' good looks have your happiness? Those who laugh at your boyfriend's ugliness can have an ugly boyfriend who really loves himself? Happiness should come from the sun, as long as you are willing.

Tell your boyfriend not to be careless.

Dudu personally thinks that men can be ugly, not so delicate, but they must not be sloppy. You can be shorter, but don't drag your pants to the ground, and your trouser legs should not be covered with dust, dirt or even snot. You can have small eyes and big mouth, and your facial features are not good-looking, but you should not hang your eyelids in the corner of your eyes, smoke people to death with one mouth, pick your nose like a flower all day, and don't spit everywhere. It doesn't matter if you are ugly. You should be clean, it looks very sunny and tidy. Even if such a man is ugly, he will give people a healthy and upward feeling. No matter how handsome a man is, he has a bad habit, his clothes are sloppy and he smells bad, so he can't help covering his nose. Men are ugly. If he is sloppy, others will not despise him. So you should remember to keep your boyfriend clean and not sloppy.

Three-point appearance and seven-point dress

I remember when I was a child, my mother often told me: ugly children can't dress up as mothers. In other words, children are not afraid of being ugly, and they are as good-looking as their mothers. In fact, there are not many ugly people, both men and women. It doesn't matter if you look a little similar. You should know how to dress yourself up, know how to cover up your shortcomings or make up for your lack of appearance. As his girlfriend, you can't just remember to dress up and pack yourself. You said you dressed yourself up as a delicate princess with an ugly man who was laughed at by others. I guess your boyfriend is not very happy. Remember to buy your boyfriend some clothes and hairstyles that suit him, so that your boyfriend doesn't look ugly, but looks very individual.

Frankly speaking, you like the ugliness of your boyfriend.

For a man, he doesn't care much about what others say, as long as the girl he likes doesn't dislike himself. As his girlfriend, when others say he is ugly and he laughs at you, you must never avoid it, let alone find various reasons to cover it up for him. If you have the time and energy, you might as well speak out boldly: I just like him like this, and I just like his ugliness. You think he is ugly, but I think this is his difference. Really, we can accept all the unpleasant words from irrelevant people outside because I don't care. Those irrelevant people have nothing to do with me. What they say must have their own intentions. It doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. But what we care about most is the attitude of those who love themselves and those we love. If you face the ugliness of your boyfriend frankly, I believe no one will disturb your happiness.

Life is yours, no matter what others say.

I always thought so. As long as I like people or things, I like them. As for what others say, it's someone else's business, not mine. We can't stop the long crowd, but we don't have to fire in the saliva. Even if your boyfriend is handsome, many people will say that your boyfriend is not good, so why should we embarrass ourselves and our loved ones because of those words? Life is your own, so is love and marriage. Happiness or not, we just know it ourselves. Boyfriends are ugly, but boyfriends have their own advantages, and those advantages can bring us a lot of happiness. What is happiness? Happiness is not how beautiful a face is, nor is it that others say you are happy. Besides, I like the ugliness of my boyfriend. What does it have to do with others? Remember, your boyfriend is your own and your life is your own.