Some people say that marriage is like a gamble. Do you think you made the right choice?

In different people's minds, marriage has different values and meanings for themselves. Some people say that marriage is like a gamble. Some people say that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, and marriage does affect our happiness in the second half of life. So you think you made the right choice?

To be honest, I don't know if my original choice was right or wrong. I said I married a good man, but he didn't know how to take on the responsibility of a family. Like a shopkeeper, he throws all the responsibilities of housework and taking care of the children to me, but he doesn't care about anything at home except work, that is, people often say that they don't know how to help when the soy sauce bottle falls.

He said that he has no sense of responsibility, but he can shoulder the responsibility of supporting a family, and he can also take responsibility when encountering major events, which has become my spiritual sustenance and the backbone of my family. He doesn't care too much in life, and he belongs to the type where small things are confused and big things are clear. I don't have to worry too much about the future with him, and I know that no matter what hardships and setbacks I encounter in my later life, he can face them with me.

He is always stingy with himself in life, but he is always generous in spending money on me. He bought me thousands of clothes without blinking, but his favorite thing in life is to hit me and always deny me. He doesn't understand the little thoughts in my life, and he won't take care of me carefully. Like most men in life, he is honest and straightforward, but he doesn't understand amorous feelings.

He will give me all his salary, but on holidays and anniversaries, he never knows how to prepare gifts for me. Sometimes he cooks for me, but many times he ignores my request and doesn't know how to consider my thoughts and feelings. When it's time to be decisive, he will win my opinion, but when it's time to respect me, he will become particularly strong. I don't know if my choice is right or wrong.