Skills and methods of asking girls out

Skills and methods of asking girls out

Skills and methods of asking girls out. If love is a journey, then dating a girl is the most important point in this journey. It takes some skill to invite a girl successfully. Let's share the skills and methods of asking girls out.

Skills and methods of dating for girls 1 (1) The purpose of dating is very clear.

People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.

Many times, the girl is cold and pushing around on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time.

The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, such as girls saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well. I can't climb the mountain." How to answer these excuses, the following (7) specifically talked about it.

(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Looking at the eight-point number in the mobile phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not?

Otaku seems to have endless fears in his heart. I'm afraid to talk to girls and ask them out. You can watch How to Overcome Fear before chatting up.

I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, thinking about whether this time is appropriate, what should I say, whether the place to ask her out is appropriate, whether she will come out, and what we should do when we meet. ...

First question, do you want to contact me if you have a phone number? The answer is always "contact!" At most, the other party doesn't answer the phone or send text messages back. The loss is just a little phone bill.

When will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again. The girl still remembers the scene where you accosted that day. But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or call girls on the spot. Generally, I will say, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now, and your eyes are really good at talking." Let's go out for a cold drink another day. "

(3) the text is short.

Invitation is not chatting, and the skill of chatting with women is not rambling, without head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in special circumstances, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.

(4) reduce expectations.

As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse.

Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again.

(5) stimulate interest.

Curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious.

There are two ways to invite girls to dinner.

The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pies, and the atmosphere is very romantic;

The second way is to tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. She asks you what you look like, and you will know when you go. You will never be disappointed.

Obviously, the second way is more exciting and attractive!

(6) stick to it.

Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy.

For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times!

I dated a girl, spent a month, texted, called and invited many times, and finally came out.

At the end of this article, I will attach a post I found online, which is the voice of a girl. Everyone should be inspired to read it.

(7) Pay attention to tone and intonation.

In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. Girls come out to see you not because of what you said, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence.

If it really doesn't work, practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression and smile, record your voice and listen to it yourself.

I have a deep understanding of dating. I just said in a casual and anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought.

But it's still an old saying, in fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

(8) handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also use it when you bargain in shopping.

That is, no matter how the girl objects, you will push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific step is to express understanding-re-demand.

For example,

You: "Come out to play at night!"

Girl: "I work overtime at night."

You: "it's so hard, your boss is so inhuman." I'm going to the industrial and commercial bureau to report him! " (show understanding, stand in the same position-unload)

You can't live working overtime all day. You have to give yourself a vacation. (Her excuse became the reason for your invitation-leverage)

I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! When do you get off work?

Skills and methods of dating girls II. Ask a girl out for dinner?

After two people kissed each other. We have a good impression on each other, at least the first impression is that we have a recognition of each other. The next step is more contact, and many people will choose to eat. Want to invite girls to dinner? Boys will also find it particularly difficult to say. Too kind invitation, but rejected by others, will feel particularly distressed. If it is too one-sided, it will make girls feel uncomfortable.

Whether you can talk or invite girls requires a learning process for a boy. Due to the lack of love experience and contact with girls, boys will not only feel uneasy, but also feel very scared. In fact, as long as you learn to go out with girls seriously and generously, you will find that girls are actually waiting for you to take the step of 1.

I want to invite a girl to dinner.

1, beauty, am I lucky to have dinner with you? See how the beauty answers. The average girl will be very happy to receive such an invitation. This feeling is naughty and meets your expression. I believe that girls will be very comfortable after listening to it and feel that they want to continue eating with you.

I heard where it is and what it is now. Would you like to taste the food with me? Such an invitation makes girls feel good. At least what you think is good, what you think is yourself. Being able to ask a girl out for dinner in this way is believed to have a high chance of success, because girls are also eager for someone to ask them out.

Second, the skills of asking girls to eat

1, boys can also learn to be domineering. Girls themselves are weak, and many decisions still depend on boys themselves. Send an invitation directly and tell this girl where I will wait for you. This way, the girl will agree to your invitation smoothly after seeing it, and I believe you two will get along well.

When you have a plan, make a careful preparation. Coupled with your warm invitation, you will find that the girl actually wants to enjoy this romantic atmosphere with you. Eating is not the purpose, but more importantly, you want to have more contact with girls and deepen the feelings between you two. You must be prepared to dress up more handsomely.

If you don't ask a girl out, you will find yourself very upset and waste your good time.

Getting along is just an excuse for eating between two people, and it is more about thinking about your chances of contact. Since I want to hold hands with each other, since I want to pursue each other, I want to invite a girl to dinner. You must learn that when you know how to date girls skillfully, you will find that girls are actually waiting for someone who can be responsible for themselves. Only you can learn to speak and understand a girl's mind.

It will make it easier for you to get along. Girls don't really want a lot. All they want is your concern for yourself, your attention to yourself. Communication between people is very simple in many cases. As long as you treat each other with your heart, I believe that person will understand your heart. Love always needs two people to work together. As long as you find the direction of love, you two can be together soon.

Skills and methods of dating girls 3. The time to ask a girl out

When you have been interacting with girls by SMS or phone for a while, then you should ask them out and have a more in-depth communication face to face. You know, whether it's SMS, QQ or telephone interaction, the main purpose is to ask girls out. In general, we need to pave the way for inviting girls. By constantly arousing girls' curiosity and interest, we can create attraction and let girls invite us on their own initiative. Simply put, dating is a natural process as long as you interact with girls according to the courtship system and build attraction well.

As long as we do a good job in front of us, even if we just say "come out for a drink tonight", girls will be happy. Every time a novice invites a girl, either she can't be invited or she is stood up, she begins to look for some general invitation words or methods, hoping to ask the girl out simply through these skills. In fact, the so-called general invitation rule does not exist. Everything is built on the basis of preliminary preparation. When you can't invite girls, you should find problems in the previous interaction, rather than tangled in the invitation process.

However, after more than three years of practice, some skills and methods can help you invite girls better. These skills can't guarantee that you will invite girls 100%, but they can improve the success rate of your invitation. First of all, let's talk about the appropriate invitation time. The invitation time is mainly divided into three points:

The first is to invite when the chat atmosphere is high.

When you chat with your target, whether it's QQ, SMS, phone call, or even strike up a conversation, the more you chat, the more interested you are, especially when you talk about the same topic, and the atmosphere between the two sides is getting higher and higher. At this time, you can throw out an invitation, such as: "I feel that you are also a very interesting person after listening to your words. Are you free tomorrow night, or let's go out for a drink."

Talk for a few minutes after the invitation and end the conversation when the mood is still high.

The second type is: invite when chatting about the same interests.

"By the way, can you play board games?"

"Yes, but less now. I often play the Three Kingdoms Kill with my friends when I am studying. "

"That's good. My friends and I have a board game party once a week. If we are free on weekends, we can come out and play board games together. "

When both parties talk about the same interest point, they can make an invitation related to this interest point.

For example, you all like the outdoors. When we talk about outdoor topics, we can invite you to climb mountains together.

The third is: invite one day in advance.

Usually beautiful girls are invited on Saturday and Sunday, so when you want to invite someone, try to go out for dinner the night before the appointment time. For example, if you want to invite a target on Saturday, you'd better call her on Friday night to let her know. In this way, if someone asks her out again, she will usually be rejected.

This invitation one day in advance is mainly for Friday night, Saturday and Sunday. If the invitation is from Monday to Thursday night, you can choose 12: 30 or around 4: 00 that day. )

If it is the first time to invite a girl, you need to make a vague invitation in advance, or pave the way for curiosity. Vague invitation: for example, "Let's come out sometime" or "Sometimes we can play board games together". Without a clear time and place theme, girls will not refuse such an invitation, but you can give girls a reasonable reason to ask her out next time to dilute your sense of need. For example, when you talked about board games before, you vaguely invited to play board games, and the girls agreed. Then in a few days, you will definitely invite me, such as "I will play board games with my friends on Saturday." Last time I heard you liked it, let's go together on Saturday. " In this case, the woman will be more willing to agree to your invitation, and she will give herself a reason that everyone just goes to play board games together. However, it should be noted that vague invitations should not be mentioned many times, but there is no clear invitation. In general, a vague invitation can be mentioned to the other party in a day or two. Of course, the invitation should follow the above three factors.