What joke once hurt you a lot?

I think the biggest harm is to laugh at your innate conditions, some defects that you can't change.

I am average-looking, but since I was a child, many people have said that I am durable and the more comfortable I look, so there are still some boys around me who pursue me. In addition, my grades in primary school were excellent, so many people think I am a good-looking talented woman. I enjoy this compliment myself, and I have more and more confidence in myself.

In primary school, the way boys pursue girls is to deliberately play tricks on girls to win their attention and attention. When I was in the sixth grade, a boy had a crush on me. He always said I was a pig head and an idiot. I am also very cheerful and like this naughty boy. When I see him say this, I will respond to him. I have been chasing him in the classroom and playground, trying to catch him. I was really happy during that time, and there was a tacit understanding and hazy emotion between two people.

I spent a semester tinkering. One day, he saw me doing my homework, so he pulled my hair and ran away. I also started running mode and shouted "stop, stop!" " "He ran over and said something I will never forget:" Stop screaming, you are not ugly, but to be honest, your voice is really hard to listen to, like a boy. " I stopped, froze, bowed my head in inferiority, and walked back to the classroom in a complicated mood.

After class, I have been thinking about that sentence and asking my deskmate if my voice is really hard to listen to. My deskmate also told me that everyone always talks about my voice in private, and I feel very sorry. People are good-looking, but they just sound like boys. When I was a teenager, I really felt inferior after hearing it. Since then, I have never dared to talk more, speak quietly and don't like to talk in class. That boy played a trick on me, so I pretended to study hard and dared not play with him. I don't feel like a girl and I don't deserve to play with him.

Although it is only a joke, it does have a great influence on sensitive girls. Since then, when I meet a boy I like, I always suppress my liking, thinking to myself: My voice is so ugly, boys will definitely dislike me and don't like me, forget it. Now I'm in college, and I'm a little open-minded before I figure it out.

So I think talking can be a joke and enliven the atmosphere, but don't make fun of some innate conditions of others. These defects cannot be changed by others. You will only make people feel inferior, but you can put forward some shortcomings that can be changed to help others make progress.