"Cinderella Dancing on the Tip of a Knife" Mao Xiaotong: Why are her views so correct?

Text | Gong Ziyi

In "Thirty Only", my favorite is not the nursery rhyme, but Mao Xiaotong.

Every time she appears on the screen, I have a strong feeling that I hope this girl with extremely upright views can be extremely happy.

There is a kind of person who has experienced suffering and slowly deteriorated in the suffering. She makes excuses for her own bad deeds. She says: Don't persuade others to be good until they have suffered.

But in fact, in this day and age, we can make our own decisions on most things. Many times, we choose to be bad ourselves rather than being forced to do so by others.

But there is also a kind of people like this. After experiencing hardships, they not only did not become worse, but also corrected their three views and blossomed brilliantly in the hardships.

Mao Xiaotong belongs to the latter.

Going through hardships, but still resilient and brilliant.

As soon as Mao Xiaotong was born, he never received the love of his biological father. Even her father once threw her into the trash can, and finally her mother picked her up.

She once publicly thanked her mother: "Thank you, mom, for picking me out of the trash."

When she was two years old, her mother took her away from her father. From then on, mother and daughter depended on each other.

Being an orphan and a widower is already difficult. Mao Xiaotong's mother also needs to take care of her younger siblings, making life even more difficult. But even in such difficult circumstances, Mao Xiaotong's mother never gave up on cultivating Mao Xiaotong.

That is the deepest emotion of a mother: I have been like this all my life, but I hope that my daughter can have a brilliant life.

It can be said that Mao Xiaotong grew up with huge childhood wounds. A broken family of origin and a poor childhood. Even after she became an adult, she was still unable to get rid of the pain caused by her family of origin.

After she became an adult, her father went on a show and demanded 50 million from her, or they would go to hell together.

The injuries of loved ones are three times more painful than those of others. However, Mao Xiaotong, who suffered such pain, never broke the jar. Instead, he faced his life with an extremely positive and optimistic attitude.

In 2012, "The Legend of Zhen Huan" was a hit, in which Mao Xiaotong played the noble lady Ying. Through this drama, Mao Xiaotong became familiar to the public.

I have to say that Mao Xiaotong was beautiful at that time. But her beauty is too soft. And the acting skills have never been highlighted.

In the same year, she participated in the martial arts drama "Tianya Mingyue Dao" adapted from Gu Long's novel. She played the second female lead Nangong Ling in the drama. Her acting skills began to improve further, and she was nominated for the third place in the drama. Received the Best Newcomer Award in a TV Series at the LeTV Film and Television Festival.

After that, she took on many TV series. Although she worked hard, she never stood out. It wasn't until she changed her acting career and played the villain Li Changru in "The Young Lady" that she really started to make a name for herself in the entertainment industry.

But as soon as she recovered, the pain from her original family followed again. After this drama, Mao Xiaotong has been in a state of silence.

It was not until 2020 that Mao Xiaotong participated in two TV series with completely different styles, one "Restart of the Extreme Sea Listening to Thunder" and the other "Thirty Only", did she start to appear on the screen again Make a splash.

Mao Xiaotong, who has experienced the baptism of his native family, finally lost all his weakness and took control of his life with a completely strong attitude.

In 2021, Mao Xiaotong became a hot search for "dancing", and her beautiful dance moves in the past were also dug out one by one, stunning the world.

It has to be said that when you are down, it is difficult for people to see your efforts, but once you succeed, your past efforts will be revealed to others, and you will amaze the world along with you.

What is even more rare is that Mao Xiaotong amazes the world not only with her graceful dancing.

She also has extremely "upright" views.

In 2017, Mao Xiaotong wrote this on Weibo:

When she was betrayed by her boyfriend, she was small and trembling with anger, but she still firmly stood up for herself. luggage. Compared with Ma Yili's "do it and cherish it", I have to say that Mao Xiaotong's never look back is truly sassy.

And her three correct views go far beyond this.

When Cai Kangyong wanted to tease her on the show, she said this about her feelings:

An actress treats her feelings carefully, but when it comes to falling in love, she Talk about it very seriously, talk about it responsibly, and even talk about it with the promise of marriage.

It was so sincere that even Cai Kangyong couldn't help but want to cry.

What is even more rare is her attitude towards her friends. At the press conference of "Only Thirty", someone asked her: If she found out that her friend's significant other was cheating on her, would she tell her?

Mao Xiaotong’s answer is:

How can her three views be so correct?

I have to say that compared to those fake friends who say they are friends but stand by and watch, or even secretly laugh at the joke, friends like Mao Xiaotong who dare to speak out are the most rare "immortal" friend".

Thinking about Mao Xiaotong’s broken native family, and then looking at her correct outlook on life, we have to say that although she is a Cinderella, she has a noble heart like gold.

With such a bad father and such a poor childhood, wouldn’t Mao Xiaotong’s childhood injuries have any impact on her?

Why isn’t she indifferent, why isn’t she decadent? Why can she live such a positive and sunny life?

What on earth does she have?

She has a strong mother. For children from divorced families, lack of love is a fatal problem, because parents will divorce and start their own families, neglecting the children who long for their parents' love. However, Mao Xiaotong's mother fell in love with Mao Xiaotong even more after the divorce. She lost her father's love, but gained warm and strong maternal love. The failure of her mother's marriage made her more serious and cautious about marriage.

As she grew up, her mother trained her step by step and freed her from the mud step by step, giving her enough ability to change her own destiny and control herself. life.

Of course, in addition to Mao Xiaotong’s mother, there is also Mao Xiaotong’s persistence in herself. In those hardships, she was not defeated, but worked harder to see the life she wanted.

So, she emerged from her cocoon and became a butterfly.

The suffering of her original family did not become some excuse for her, but became the key to her working harder, being more positive, and being more sunny.

Why are you so upright?

Depending on the hardships she and her mother have experienced along the way, the losses they have suffered. If you don't bloom more gorgeously, how can you be worthy of your mother who suffers so much and yourself who works so hard.

I only hope that this girl with extremely upright views will have no troubles and only joy for the rest of her life.