"If you don't pay 200,000 yuan, I will move in together." Mother-in-law is very urgent. How should the woman fight back?

Because of infidelity, affair, personality disagreement, domestic violence and other reasons, couples who finally decide to divorce abound. I don't know when the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became one of the important reasons for divorce. Further investigation will also find that in many families divorced because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband's filial piety is the fatal blow to divorce.

About "Your mother and your girlfriend fell into the water, who would you save first?" Such a boring question has been upgraded from ambiguity at the beginning to smoothness, but in real life, most men still tend to pull their mothers from childhood to adulthood.

As a wife and daughter-in-law, facing her mother-in-law who has lived more than us for decades, she is naturally in a weak position among her parents, and her husband does not understand, which leads to the pain of women in this silent game, which is such an unbalanced situation. /kloc-after the pregnancy and parenting turmoil in 0/0, there will be great turmoil in the family. But will a woman who divorced because of her mother-in-law really feel worthwhile and won't regret it?

Yi Yi packed her bags, returned to her mother's house a hundred days later, and sent a divorce agreement to her mother-in-law, hoping that this seemingly kind but vicious mother-in-law would personally ruin her son's marriage. Although Yi Yi knew that nine times out of ten, the old lady would not be sad, but would be happy that her son could marry a good woman who could have a son.

Before getting married, Yi Yi had seen her mother-in-law's strong bullying. Like her sister-in-law, she is unreasonable and even more shameless and unreasonable than the high-speed rail overlord. In contrast, Yiyi's husband is weaker. However, Yiyi thinks that she doesn't need to communicate with her mother-in-law, but she can communicate through her face. Some small things will also tolerate the past. Her husband, not her mother-in-law. Before getting married, Yiyi adhered to the principle of doing more and talking less, and lived in peace with them.

02

But after the wedding, she became a mother-in-law. Yi Yi found that she took a step back, while her mother-in-law took the first ten steps at the meeting. She said she would live with her son, so she didn't allow others to refute her, or she would cry and shout at the door. After she married her daughter-in-law and forgot her mother, she became a bully at home. She said she could buy whatever she wanted, and no one else could have an opinion. Everything she said is right, and others have said something.

After half a year of marriage, Yiyi would rather work overtime than go back to that smoky home, but her husband turned a blind eye to all this and said that his mother is such a character. Just coax, old man, don't push so much, just be healthy.

When Yi Yi was pregnant, her mother-in-law did not know where to get Chinese medicine that was said to give birth to a boy, and forced Yi Yi to drink it every day. She complained to her son that Yi Yi deliberately destroyed their family and would die a natural death in the future.

During pregnancy, I wanted to see a doctor many times to check whether it was a man or a woman, threatening that it was not too late for a girl to get pregnant again. Seeing that her mother-in-law's vicious thoughts were beyond her imagination, Yi had no choice but to tell her husband what her mother-in-law had done. After hearing this, the husband was silent and went to negotiate with his mother-in-law. The next day, my mother-in-law stopped asking a girl to drive her away, but her eyes were obviously hostile, but she was still natural and graceful when her husband was at home.

03

After the baby was born, it was a girl. On the second day of caesarean section, she asked Yi Yi to get up and cook for her. She said, "What's wrong with having a girl movie? Only sons are eligible for confinement. "

Mother-in-law has refreshed Yi Yi's downline again and again, refreshing Yi Yi's understanding of a pair of mother-in-law species. When her mother-in-law casually held her child and blew the cold wind in winter, Yi Yi was frightened. She told her husband who knew nothing about these things, but by this time, her husband still felt that her mother was very kind, and it was impossible for her mother to make her child sick. His mother certainly didn't mean it, so Yiyi shouldn't think so much.

After eight years of love, I gave birth to a child for him, but after I was wronged and the child's health was threatened, I still spoke for his mother. I couldn't see all the grievances suffered by my wife and children. If one day, the mother-in-law accidentally throws the child to the ground and cries that she is not careful, the husband will probably cry to forgive his mother and make himself feel sorry for his loss. The more I think about it, the more I feel that this family is in collusion with each other. How can they be flesh and blood after eight years of love?

04

Noisy but also noisy, fight but also, in this marriage, she is an outsider, Yiyi's only choice is divorce, so, after the child was born for a hundred days, she quietly left this loveless home. Leave them alone, and leave yourself alone.

I asked Yiyi if she regretted it. Yiyi said that when she remembered the eight years she spent with her husband, she was very sad, for herself and for her husband. But when she thinks about what this family has done and her husband's weakness, she can't take responsibility for herself and her children, so she doesn't regret it. Life is still very long, and she can't stop loss in time, only hurting herself and her children.

Most women will not divorce because of their mother-in-law, but because their husbands are ignorant and unable to pay their responsibilities as husbands. If their mother-in-law is vicious and their husband happens to be ignorant and filial, then divorce is the most correct choice. But if the mother-in-law is vicious and the husband can stand on his own feet and support himself, there is no need for divorce at all. There are many solutions, there is no need to go to a dead end.

If you don't have a good mother-in-law, I hope you have a good husband who can protect you in this life.