It's hard all the year round, and it's super embarrassing to go back to my hometown in the countryside during the Spring Festival. How to resolve this embarrassment?

The Spring Festival is coming soon. Many people have bought tickets early and are waiting to go home for reunion. Some people are hesitant about going home. Because they work outside all the year round and have little contact with their relatives, it is inevitable that they will be asked questions when they go home, which may cause an embarrassing atmosphere. I've had this experience before, but it's much better now. I'm here to exchange ideas with you.

First of all, don't have the idea of abandoning the countryside.

Compared with cities, there is a big material gap, and rural areas are poor in both home decoration and sanitary conditions. Staying in the city for a long time will lead to the view that the countryside is backward. But once you return to your hometown, do as the Romans do, and don't have any disgusting thoughts. After all, that's where I was born and raised. Without the nourishment of our hometown and the care of our relatives and neighbors, our childhood will lose a lot of joy.

Secondly, we should keep a polite and enthusiastic attitude towards the villagers.

When you return to your hometown, many relatives, neighbors and villagers will come to chat with you and learn about the latest development and information of the city. At this time, we should be patient and polite to them, at the same time, we should be enthusiastic, not indifferent, give people a high position and look down on the feelings of rural people.

Finally, we should euphemistically express the sensitive questions raised by the villagers.

When you go back to your hometown, it is inevitable that some villagers will ask about your salary. Don't tell them the specific figures at this time, otherwise it will cause envy or even jealousy. Tell them more that although wages are high in cities, consumption is also high. Talk more about the benefits of the countryside, such as more green food, good air and warm people, so that the villagers feel that you still love your hometown.

Most rural people are simple. As long as you treat them with your heart, they will chat with you enthusiastically. Therefore, we should adjust our mentality so that we can become one with them without embarrassment.

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