Hong Yan Tong Ji never got married in her life. Without work and love, how was Hong Yan Tongji born?

Do you know the story of Hong Yan Tang? Next, let me explain it to you.

On February 28, 2003, less than a month before the Spring Festival, the weather in Beijing was as cold as ever, as if it were fighting with people. On such an ordinary day, an unusual thing happened in an ordinary nursing home. An old lady choked to death on jiaozi.

Eating to death is not bad, but it is only the tip of the iceberg in her dark, frustrated and desolate life.

The old lady who choked to death by jiaozi was named Wang Mintong, and she didn't know until she died. However, many people don't know that the old lady's name was not Wang Mintong at first, but Hong Yan Tong Ji.

Hong Yan Tong Ji was born under Zhenghuang Banner in Manchuria. His father is the twenty-fifth generation grandson of Jin Shizong Yan Hongyong, and his mother is the direct granddaughter of Qianlong V. She is a serious royal family. Hong Yan Tong Ji, born in such a distinguished family, has always been extremely noble. Like several sisters, since childhood, Hong Yan Tong Ji has been disciplined by her mother and elders, and every move has been measured with a ruler, and there must be no mistakes. As the eldest sister, Hong Yan Tong Ji seems to be more loved by her elders, and she is also proud of her mother. Years later, in retrospect, her sister Hong Yan Bilin is still here, saying:

"That kind of family requires too much courtesy for children, especially girls. Sister is loved by all elders. She always follows her mother and eats with adults, because she is docile and fair-skinned, and I am a little girl, eating alone in the backyard. I usually don't call out to meet guests, for fear of making people laugh because of my improper behavior. Only on certain days of birthdays and festivals can I dress up to see the world. "

Fortunately, at the end of the Qing Dynasty, cameras were popularized among the royal aristocrats, which made our understanding of this beauty no longer as ethereal as talking about the beauty of stone and the story of Diusim. In the photo, I was a child's story when I was a child. I had a pair of long eyes under two curved eyebrows, and the corners of my eyes slowly flew to my temples, but my eyes were inexplicably firm. High nose, round and small nose, soft and stubborn. The miniature lower lip is always cold. Everything is just right. Such a girl who is only eight or nine years old just sits on a small bamboo chair, which seems to show the reserve and nobility of a dynasty.

The girl in white in the front row is a beautiful girl.

Throughout the photos of the late Qing Dynasty, no one can compare with Hong Yan Tong Ji, regardless of status or age. Even today, more than a hundred years later, this beauty is still amazing. Even among a group of aristocratic women, people can still be attracted to her at first sight. However, it is such an absolutely beautiful noble woman who has missed her marriage all her life.

The Spiritual Cleanliness of Wan Yan Tongji

Most families like Tongji in Hong Yan will get engaged after their thirties. They have been paying attention to "it is better to marry a girl than to marry more women" since ancient times. Obviously, the foundation of marriage with Hong Yan family is not thin, although the Qing Dynasty has fallen, which is not what it used to be.

Without exception, when I was in Tianjin, Hong Yan Tong Ji was engaged to a child of Ai Xinjue Roche under the arrangement of her mother, and they were also suitable. Unexpectedly, this young man of the former dynasty not only kept the bad habit of riding a horse and letting eagles fly and carrying cages to go shopping, but also suffered from the problem of not being able to support a player. The young people and actors engaged in the previous dynasty are not clear. Such a scandal was needed in that dull and flustered era, and it was a storm in the city for a time.

In the old society, it was not uncommon to raise actors. However, in that dynasty, it was also the privilege of men to be romantic and run amok. Who allowed women to object? Who cares if women object? So most wives and grandmothers just turn a blind eye when they know about it. What's more, they take the initiative to create opportunities for their husbands to get close, so as to gain a virtuous reputation. But Hong Yan Tonji is different. Since hearing the scandal, this fiance has turned into a fly, which makes him feel sick. She resolutely chose to break off the marriage relationship, which is naturally commendable today, but at that time, Hongyan Tongji still spread a bad reputation.

After the divorce, Wan Yan Tong Ji left her grandmother's house with her mother and returned to her residence in Beiping-No.27 Dongsisantiao. Coincidentally, Meng Xiaodong, the "Winter Emperor of Liyuan", lives next door to No.26.

Hong Yan Tong Ji and Meng Xiaodong

At that time, it was the saddest and most lost period in Meng Xiaodong's life. Not long ago, she just finished the divorce procedure with Mei Lanfang, the "king of music". Because she is the Big Dipper of Mount Tai in Peking Opera, and because Meng Xiaodong was heartbroken by Mei Lanfang, she chose to fight back and published Meng Xiaodong's Urgent Affairs on the front page of Tianjin Ta Kung Pao for three days in a row, making her family affairs public, making this divorce war more noticeable than Hong Yan's Tongji.

A pair of neighbors and two beautiful women are so stubborn, so unreasonable and unforgiving, so frustrated. Soon, they appreciated each other and became close friends. They often went out together. Meng Xiaodong wore the flag suit of Hong Yan Tong Ji, and Hong Yan Tong Ji wore Meng Xiaodong's costume and studied drama. The days slipped away quietly, and the sadness of the past dissipated in time. This period of time may be just an experience for Meng Xiaodong who has experienced the ups and downs of Vanity Fair, but it may be the happiest and most unforgettable time in her life for Hong Yan Tongji.

Meng Xiaodong or Meng Xiaodong, this stubborn and spineless "Liyuan Winter Emperor" is not only famous in the divorce storm, but also more and more attractive. Later, she followed Du.

However, children's stories seem to be arranged by heaven and frustrated again and again.

"consensual" stifled by the status quo

1935, Pu Jie, Puyi's younger brother, returned to Changchun after graduating from the Japanese military academy and became a guard lieutenant. Before this, Tang Yiying, the fiancee of this talented young man, broke off her engagement with Pu Jie because of the peach scandal, which gave the Japanese an opportunity.

Pu Jie and Shao.

Since then, discussions about marriage have often appeared around Pu Jie. Those acquaintances in the Kwantung Army often lobby in his ear, saying that what men have to be served by women, what kind of women can best serve men and so on. The final answer is naturally Japanese women. Soon someone secretly told Puyi that Kwantung Army really intended to marry a Japanese woman to Pu Jie, which was called "promoting Japan-Manchuria goodwill". In the eyes of Puyi's brothers and sisters, it was natural for the Japanese to know that Puyi was infertile and wanted to replace Puyi with a child of Japanese descent.

Brothers and sisters began to discuss countermeasures, and finally Puyi decided to let Pu Jie get married first, and immediately sent people to Beijing to find a suitable partner. As expected, Hong Yan Tong Ji, who was born in a famous family and looks outstanding, became the lucky one.

Even if Manchu became a puppet, Ai Xinjue Roche was still a sacred existence in the hearts of Hong Yan Tong Ji's mother and daughter, not to mention Pu Yi's younger brother. The mother and daughter were busy preparing for Changchun, but the Japanese side intervened strongly, making "Brother" Pu Jie set an example for "Japan-Manchuria Goodwill", which could only be destroyed once.

According to Pu Yi's later "My First Half Life", Pu Jie was quite satisfied when he heard that the marriage partner was Hong Yan Tong Ji. Therefore, the hard-won "consensual" in this world was fortunately met by Hong Yan Tong Ji, but it was strangled in love. At this time, how can you not be disheartened?

From then on, I fell in love with someone.

Missed two opportunities to get married. Hong Yan Tong Ji named "Miss Wang Da" began to take a laissez-faire attitude towards marriage. However, her mother, Mrs. Wang, still refuses to face the fact that her daughter will die alone. "She will get married," Mrs. Wang has always believed.

Puyi and Wanrong

Nevertheless, Hong Yan Tong Ji knew nothing about this cousin's temperament. It was not until this time that she realized that Puyi was not as taciturn as the people in the photo. He is joking and talkative. Unfortunately, the mind of the mother and daughter was finally spied by Puyi. In Pu Yi's view, what he needs most now is a wife who can prove his correctness, instead of involving him in various possible suspicions again. As the mother and daughter of Mrs. Wang of the Manchu royal family, he dare not avoid it. When Mrs. Wang and her mother invited him again through her graceful brother, he chose to refuse.

However, Wan Yan Tongji was completely immersed in the admiration of Puyi, and it was difficult to extricate himself. She began to attack Puyi, and all kinds of customers were talking about it. She was also obsessed. Puyi was not only unmoved, but also had a rebellious mentality, and he paid more and more attention to it.

This infatuation didn't come to an end until 1962. This year, Puyi married his fifth wife, Li. Although Li has had two failed marriages before, it is completely negligible for Puyi, who needs marriage to prove his correctness. After learning the news, Hong Yan was in agony.

Puyi and Li

And if you think that she has put down Puyi, it is wrong.

1965, Puyi was hospitalized. At that time, according to the nursing regulations, only one person could go in at a time, and the nurse would put a sign outside the door, and he had to get a certificate before he could enter the door. I heard that after Puyi was hospitalized, Tong Ji was restless and went to the hospital every day to visit, and most of them came earlier than Puyi's wife Li, and refused to leave as soon as she sat down. For a long time, not only Li outside the door was furious, but Puyi in the hospital bed was also difficult to keep her demeanor. On one occasion, she directly reprimanded the child: "I don't want to see you, get out of here", which happened to be heard by the lady who came to visit Puyi, and there was no embarrassing scene from then on.

What does Hong Yan Tongji love Puyi? It seems hard to say. After all, this man is not a complete man. As early as a teenager, Puyi lost some functions, which was openly satirized by tattooing and his divorce newspaper. However, Wanrong had an affair with the Guards when she was unsatisfied, and even gave birth to a child. The last few wives and Puyi were nominal. Obviously, if Wan Yan Tong Ji marries in the past, she will also face this situation.

But love is always unreasonable, regardless of origin, isn't it?

Unwilling marriage

1967, after Puyi's death, Wan Yan Tong Ji fell into a boundless trance, and she no longer wanted to get married. A few years later, one of Puyi's younger brothers came to the door and offered to marry him. Wan Yan Tongji was no longer interested. He waved and refused:

"One is that he is younger than me, and the other is that he can't be in the circle of the northern government soldiers and brothers all his life."

This wave of hands sets the tone of life, desolate, lonely and bitter.

Hong Yan Tong Ji, who has never been married, suffered a property theft in a special period. Mother and daughter live in a small and shabby house, the smell of honeycomb coal is pungent, and the door panels often fog in winter, as if they could melt away half a century's history.

After his mother died, Hong Yan Tonji became more and more lonely. She can't work, and her self-care ability is very limited. Fortunately, she had a month of street relief in 300 yuan and had a hard time. Even so, the old lady is so stubborn. She has a porcelain vase, which is an antique handed down from Qianlong period. Someone once offered 800,000 yuan to buy it, and she insisted on1million. Finally, the business failed. Interestingly, however, the old lady didn't give a penny of this porcelain bottle to a relative. For this kind of behavior of Hongyan Tongji, his cousin Guo Burunqi thinks so:

"It may be because the baby handed down by my ancestors was actually reluctant to sell, so it was passed on to that relative."

The old lady or the old lady, everything is just her own will. It's hard to buy me a thousand dollars, just like divorcing her without hesitation, just like later infatuation with Puyi.

It is also this relative who sent the porcelain bottle. Because I couldn't bear to see the old lady living alone in a dilapidated house, I lobbied several times to send her to a nursing home, where there was clean water to bathe, clean beds and delicious and nutritious meals. But who would have thought that less than a month after she moved, the old lady died because of a jiaozi. This year, she is 90 years old.

Yan hongtongji in his later years

Hong Yan Tong Ji's life, no marriage, no communication, no job, no love. Such a woman's life seems meaningless. What on earth did she come into this world for? Considering her noble birth, extraordinary temperament and peerless appearance, people have a feeling of mourning pears and cooking cranes.

However, in that turbulent era, everyone could only be an ant under a huge ship, and was accidentally crushed into powder. No matter how expensive you used to be, who will notice the beauty and ugliness of such a face around you? People just want to run fast, where to go? I don't know, it's just running, although it will inevitably be crushed by a huge ship in the end. Instead, Hong Yan Tunji chose to wait quietly. Maybe in her opinion, since she can't live in harmony with the world, she should leave gracefully.