I can fall in love with you, or I can replace you!

Sister Mei is the person in charge of love experience in our dormitory.

It is said that the boys who fall under her pomegranate skirt can fill the entire moat, but Sister Mei has only a sack of experience and her actual combat skills are at a loss.

As soon as we entered our freshman year, Sister Mei announced that she would have a good relationship in college and she would definitely not let this wonderful time go by.

But unfortunately, Sister Mei has never met her best CP.

Several other people in our dormitory were separated and reunited. In the end, when everyone joined hands and succeeded, Sister Mei was still alone.

Therefore, Sister Mei, who has always been calm and determined, is losing her composure and plans to take the initiative to find true love.

It is said that Tanzhe Temple in Beijing is the most effective place for seeking love. Sister Mei dragged my father-in-law to the subway, then to the bus, and finally arrived at Tanzhe Temple.

Tanzhe Temple was very deserted in late autumn. A few birds occasionally flew over the tall trees in the yard. Sister Mei stared at the legendary Hall of Karma, feeling very depressed.

Just when we were about to go back home, a Taoist priest came and said to Sister Mei sincerely, Miss, you will have good luck with the red luan star moving recently.

Sister Mei burst into tears of gratitude and was very ambitious. In the end, the master took Sister Mei’s 300 yuan bill and left with satisfaction.

Shortly after Tanzhe Temple, Sister Mei met An Yan.

Speaking of An Yan, he is really another weird person in our school. He is a graduate student, two years ahead of us. He majors in mechanics, but his spoken English is very good. He often gives lectures in various colleges. The popular teaching assistant who teaches everyone’s professional courses.

An Yan is actually not handsome. He has thick black hair and stands as straight as ice. He wears a gray shirt all year round and carries a backpack. On campus. Although we have not had much contact with him, we have all heard about his various strange deeds. He is a young genius, skipped three levels in a row and went to college, won the Mathematical Olympiad, and his English is so good that he can be a subtitle translator for American TV series. Also, An Yan has a very high emotional intelligence. Low.

Sister Mei and An Yan didn’t have much contact with each other originally, but that day, An Yan was so crazy that he came to our professional lectures, and then happened to sit next to Sister Mei.

Sister Mei always comes in at the sound of the bell and sits in the last row, where she can easily sleep and peek at novels.

An Yan arrived later than Sister Mei. He carried a backpack and sat down next to Sister Mei. Then he took out a bowl of Chaos from the bag like magic. The wontons looked like... On the third floor of the cafeteria, there is no shrimp in it, but a poached egg, which is steaming hot.

While An Yan was eating Chaos, he had a free hand to take notes.

Sister Mei was stunned to see him eating four wontons, and finally couldn't help but said, "Let me take notes for you."

Sister Mei’s calligraphy is very good. She practiced according to Pang Zhonghua’s fountain pen copybook when she was in middle school. So when she returned the notes to An Yan, An Yan was also surprised, classmate, you calligraphy It's so beautiful.

Sister Mei, who has always been experienced in many battles and said that she would never touch a leaf among thousands of flowers, actually blushed.

Later, the two of them were together without shame or impatience.

After Sister Mei fell in love, she immediately changed from a proud young lady to a hard-working old lady.

An Yan's clothes, An Yan's notes, and An Yan's breakfast were all taken care of by Sister Mei.

We just learned that the prodigy An Yan entered our school through special admissions. After arriving, he immediately studied for bachelor's degree, master's degree and doctoral degree. He has the kind of IQ that is so high that it is ridiculous, and his EQ that is so low that it makes people cry.

Sister Mei admires An Yan very much and feels that many academic problems can be easily solved by him. It is even a pleasure to watch him do advanced mathematics problems, and he also has the grace to teach in English in class. , really handsome enough.

Therefore, Sister Mei worked hard and took care of An Yan meticulously, like a lover and a sister.

An Yan often forgets to have breakfast. Sister Mei changes her bad habit of staying in bed and gets up early to buy him wontons. An Yan’s own clothes are always messy, so Sister Mei hand-washes them all for him. , and then even borrowed all the irons from the dormitory aunt to be neatly ironed and handed them to him; Sister Mei even often skipped class just to take notes with An Yan in class.

An Yan was very grateful to Sister Mei at first, but later it gradually became a habit, and he even often complained that Sister Mei was not considerate enough. Sister Mei actually endured it.

When we are in our junior year, not only do we have more and more coursework, but many students are preparing to take postgraduate entrance examinations abroad.

People like An Yan with high IQ and high credits are even more popular candidates for studying abroad. The school has even recommended him to be an exchange student in a certain country.

Sister Mei also started to work hard, memorizing vocabulary words every morning before going to buy breakfast for An Yan.

He can no longer even take care of An Yan like a doting little princess.

The first quarrel between Sister Mei and An Yan was the day after Sister Mei stopped accompanying An Yan to class.

An Yan had a very important professional class that day, and Sister Mei needed to take an IELTS class. After Sister Mei helped An Yan prepare everything, she went to class.

While I was in class, An Yan called me and his tone was very bad. Where did you put the notebook I often use? Why can't I find the notes I took last time?

Sister Mei ran out of the classroom with her phone in her hand and put it in your backpack.

An Yanhou, don’t you know that I haven’t carried that bag for several days?

While avoiding the eyes of people around her, Sister Mei comforted him in a low voice. Sorry, I forgot.

An Yan hung up the phone angrily, making Sister Mei feel even worse.

However, the IELTS test came one after another, and Sister Mei was completely thrown off.

After the exam, Sister Mei took the paper and wanted to ask An Yan for help in analyzing the exam questions.

An Yan had just finished giving a lecture for the foreign teacher. Three or five girls gathered around him to ask for advice on how to learn spoken English well. They were all giggling, which made Sister Mei's eyes hurt.

What’s even more outrageous is that An Yan picked up Sister Mei’s paper, glanced at it twice, and then started laughing, your level is too low! Hahaha!

Those people around him who had been complimenting him also looked at Sister Mei with half-smiling smiles. Sister Mei felt very embarrassed, grabbed her paper, turned around and left.

An Yan laughed and said from behind, you are so stupid, no wonder you got such a low score! I advise you not to take the exam and lower your average score.

Then the crowd burst into laughter.

Sister Mei returned to the dormitory angrily, threw away the paper, and ate three ice creams to calm down.

Such things happened again and again. Sister Mei’s admiration for An Yan continued to decline, but Sister Mei’s emotions did not affect An Yan. He still went his own way, with a vicious tongue and a mean tongue, enjoying Sister Mei's care was sarcastic and sarcastic.

Then An Yan gained weight as fast as the eyes could see, but Sister Mei gradually became less cheerful and no longer made crazy noises with us like before.

This low-pressure circulation enveloped Sister Mei until one day she yelled three times in the dormitory: I want to break up with An Yan!

Then Sister Mei really broke up with An Yan. This love affair started with a bowl of wontons and ended with a spicy hot pot meal.

Yes, their breakup meal was a spicy hot pot.

Not long after Sister Mei returned to being single, she regained her vitality. This time, Sister Mei vowed that she would no longer be a humble woman, but would become an old goblin sweeping the men's world, and printed a banner. "Stay away from men with low emotional intelligence and princess disease" is hung above the bed as a warning.

But after that, Sister Mei did not fall in love for a long time. Instead, she became more active in classes, internships, and even took several very difficult courses.

Seeing Sister Mei busy every day, we all felt a little sad, and tried our best to treat her to a big meal to replenish her energy, but Sister Mei refused.

The reason is that the painting clubs, English clubs, psychological counseling clubs, etc. that I signed up for are too busy and I don’t have time.

While we were stunned, Sister Mei had already rushed to the library to search for information with her bag on her back.

Finally, in the afternoon when the library was closed, I cornered Sister Mei in the water room. Sister Mei, the best way to heal is to have a big meal.

How about we go to Nanmen Snack Street and eat from beginning to end?

Sister Mei was stunned for a moment, and then laughed. Do you really think that you are so injured that you are numbing yourself with busyness?

Well, isn’t it?

Sister Mei smiled charmingly, is she the kind of person who cannot withstand big storms? My sister suddenly realized that in this world, only when you become stronger will you not have to compromise, and will you not be afraid in your heart.

It turns out that since Sister Mei and An Yan got together, she was often pointed out and discussed by her classmates. How could this girl, who was not good-looking and average in ability, be able to climb to the top of An Yan?

Even with An Yan’s friends, he is often joked that you must take good care of our An Tiancai, a genius must be pampered.

Sister Mei's love has invisibly added a lot of pressure. Even she herself feels that An Yan is a god-like existence, someone she should accommodate and worship.

The more she lowered herself, the more An Yan took it for granted. The sweetness of the two being equal and beautiful at the beginning no longer existed. An Yan turned into a bossy man who spoke unabashedly. Sister Mei turned into a submissive maid, groveling and doing everything possible to please her.

Sister Mei gritted her teeth when she said this. Finally one day I realized that this kind of me is not the real me, and this kind of love is not the love I want. An Yan is no longer suitable for me.

I am studying hard now and trying to enrich myself. In fact, I never want to make the same mistakes again, and I never want to fall in love with an excellent man without dignity.

I vow to become a "big woman". No matter how good a man is, I must have the confidence to say, I can fall in love with you, or I can replace you!

This kind of Sister Mei is naturally impressive to me, and I finally no longer worry about Sister Mei being frustrated in love.

In this way, throughout the entire university, Sister Mei’s relationship was the only one. Later, Sister Mei finally passed the IELTS exam and went to study abroad at her favorite university.

It was a few years after graduation that I saw Sister Mei again. Sister Mei came to the class reunion with a tall and handsome man on her arm and introduced him as her boyfriend.

A group of us were playing around, and Sister Mei’s boyfriend was always by Sister Mei’s side, smiling and watching as Sister Mei drank with us, joking with us, even when Sister Mei told dirty jokes. His face does not change color.

I was very curious about what attributes this man had, so I asked him, what do you love most about Sister Mei?

The man thought about it and found that she loved her most, being independent, self-reliant and smart. She is a very strong woman and feels like nothing can be difficult for her. The most terrifying thing is that she makes me feel that she doesn't actually need me, and that she can already support the world by herself. This makes me love her even more, and even worry about losing her because I am not good enough. She is a woman that men can't live without.

After listening to this passage and seeing Sister Mei’s confident smile, I finally understood what she meant when she said those words, I can fall in love with you, or I can replace you.

In the emotional battle between men and women, the stronger party always wins. Whoever is strong enough can dominate the situation. Just like Sister Mei, she eventually became a woman that men couldn't live without. She is no longer the one who follows her genius boyfriend all the way and worries that she will fall behind. She is no longer depressed by the whispers of people around her boyfriend. She is the one who dominates herself and controls her feelings.