Can't girls take a joke nowadays? No sooner had I said something to her than she kicked someone. Why?

Is it too casual for you to talk to girls like this? A little disrespectful, this is not a joke at all, it sounds like sarcasm! And your emotional intelligence is low?

You think it's a joke, but you don't know how the teased person feels! Empathy, okay? Obviously it's too much, but people can't afford to joke. I think this girl is very handsome.