What kind of performance does the child have, which shows that he is very inferior? How to correct it?

To make a child an excellent person, you need a healthy body and a sound personality, both of which need to be cultivated from an early age. However, many parents only pay attention to their children's physical health since childhood, but ignore their children's mental health.

For example, some children are very introverted since childhood, and many mothers think that this is the child's nature and there is no problem. But what mothers don't know is that children's introversion can easily develop into inferiority, and inferiority will have a serious negative impact on children's physical and mental development. Therefore, when children have the following three performances, parents should pay attention:

1, unwilling to play with other children.

Normal children actually like to play with other children. Cat dad's daughter especially likes to invite kindergarten students to play at home, especially on birthdays and holidays. When she comes home, she can tell us who her best friend is in kindergarten.

But our neighbor's little girl is not like this. She has already gone to kindergarten, and she still hides when she sees outsiders. Kindergarten students spend three days fishing and two days drying nets. They often cry and don't want to leave, and their parents are very anxious. Later, her mother often brought her to our home, hoping to learn more from my daughter.

But the effect is not good at all. The child cries every time he comes, and the reason is particularly speechless. For example, when playing chess together, she thinks the chessboard is a little crooked and wants to correct it, but her daughter says it's okay, that's all, she will cry, and her daughter will comfort her, and she will cry more and more. Which child do you think would like such a child?

Children are particularly sensitive.

One of the biggest characteristics of children with inferiority is that they are sensitive. Simply put, a casual sentence from others will attract the attention of children and keep it in mind. Just like the above scene, a small matter and a joke can cause discomfort to children.

Generally speaking, such a child doesn't want to play with other children because she is afraid of being hurt. She is also afraid that saying the wrong thing will cause other children to laugh. However, the less children have to deal with other children, the less they get along with them, resulting in a vicious circle, which will adversely affect their future study and life. Therefore, parents must pay more attention if they find their children particularly sensitive.

3. A particularly obedient child

I think many parents will have a headache for their children's disobedience. Sometimes the more you ask them to do it, the less they do, and even prove you wrong with your actions. For example, the daughter of cat dad, you said it might be hot, and people had to do it, and then said you were wrong.

Parents can't explain the risks to their children, because they can't understand them, so they have a headache. But this is normal, which proves that children are growing up and becoming more and more independent. But in life, some children are very obedient and can't be the master at all, so they will ask their parents.

In fact, such children are likely to be suppressed by their own inferiority complex. Such children are afraid of doing wrong and being criticized by their parents. Generally, children are easy when their parents are particularly strict in discipline. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's discipline, praise them appropriately and encourage them to do what they want.