My mother-in-law is seriously ill. I haven't seen it once. I gave the reason. No one in the village dared to laugh at me. Is this right?

My mother-in-law has always disliked my poor family conditions. When I first fell in love with my wife, she never agreed. Finally, my wife secretly took the household registration book out of the house, and the two of us quietly ran to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate, so that we could overcome all difficulties and go on together.

My wife and I love each other very much. Although my financial conditions are not good, all I can give my wife is a deep love. My mother-in-law is a very strong person. She will say anything she doesn't like, no matter what occasion or crowd. For example, she is not satisfied with the weight of the ring I bought for her wife. I am embarrassed to say that I am poor in front of my relatives and friends at home, but I forbear to say anything for my wife.

My wife and I work in Hangzhou and want to find a place of our own here. We always believe that one day, we will go home in rags, so we never care how hard life is. Less than a year after marriage, my wife became pregnant and had a great reaction to pregnancy. In desperation, I sent her back to her hometown and entrusted her mother-in-law and my mother to take care of her. I work harder to make money in Hangzhou.

I never dreamed that my mother-in-law forced my wife to have an abortion. She said that I was poor in Hangzhou and didn't even have a nest. Such a low salary is estimated to have to rent a house for the rest of my life. In fact, my wife and I have long planned to wait until we have earned enough money to go back to the county to buy a house. It's life for my mother-in-law to do such a wicked thing because of money! Should parents be deprived of their basic rights if they earn less money?

Last May, my mother-in-law kept calling her wife to say that she was not feeling well. After the doctor diagnosed, my mother-in-law actually got uremia. When I heard the news, somehow, I felt a kind of pleasure in my heart. I think this is God punishing the bad guys. If my wife hadn't insisted on dying and living, my lovely son would have died.

It suddenly occurred to me that he had been trying to sow discord in front of my wife because I didn't give her a decent wedding. Later, because I had no money, I forced my wife to have an abortion, and I couldn't wait to cramp her. I haven't been to the hospital once since my mother-in-law was hospitalized. My wife knows the knot in my heart, so she can understand that I don't visit my mother-in-law.

In our small village, good news and bad news spread quickly. At first, my neighbors couldn't understand that my mother-in-law was seriously ill, but my son-in-law didn't even show her face. Everyone says I'm unfilial. Later I went back to my hometown and told my neighbors how my mother-in-law treated me as a son-in-law. They all understood me very well, and the whole village never laughed at me behind my back again. It is said that I can't be generous when I meet such a mother-in-law