When people reach middle age, chatting should be valuable.

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Before writing this article, I want to make an interview, that is, I want to know: How many people have you chatted with in a day, are they men or women? Is it a friend, colleague or client? How long did it take everyone? How much value has it produced? To put it bluntly, is that every time you chat with others, do you achieve what you want?

For such a visit, many people will say that life is always step by step and happy-go-lucky, especially for chatting. How can you care about so many details? If you are not engaged in sales, if you are not asking for help, how can you have motivation to chat? Indeed, many people in reality are so accustomed to habits, but ignore the details of life. It is these details that often determine the success or failure of our lives.

To be honest, when I am middle-aged, I, like many people, do what I want and never beat around the bush. However, if you talk too much, you will inevitably make a slip of the tongue and even make people laugh. Of course, as long as you are sincere, you can chat, even for a long time. However, I have never thought about whether such a chat can produce value.

Because, I am not a shrewd person. In fact, this has little to do with talent. After all, chatting is not only a communication tool, it is more important for people to interact and achieve what they want. Especially for middle-aged people, chatting without purpose is purely a pastime. For such a pastime, I believe that few middle-aged people are willing to do so.

Of course, some friends like this kind of small talk. During the small talk, they know that someone bought an expensive puppy, that someone's relatives got rich, that someone bought a beautiful bag, and so on, and so on. In addition to envy, it is exclamation. Time slipped away quietly in this indifferent chat.

a plain life is the truest! That's right. But for middle-aged, I think: Being able to make full and effective use of time and generate greater value is the smartest person. Especially the results of chatting, who to talk to, how to talk, and what to talk about, this is what middle-aged people want.

When people reach middle age, we have experienced for a long time in life, learned the world of human nature and accumulated a lot of experience. Everyone has his own way of chatting. Some people are eloquent, some people are cautious in their words and deeds, some people are have it both ways, some people are outspoken, etc., but in any case, what everyone says is their own opinion. And this view is the motive of chatting. So I often tell my students that you should learn to be smart when dealing with middle-aged people. Because, I know, middle-aged people don't like doing useless work.

In fact, for valuable and beneficial chatting, it is of great help to life. Because it can not only sort out many of its own ideas, but also practice its own expression. Of course, in chatting, it can let us master the information we want, and this information will be transformed into practical value. This is value socialization.

it must be noted that socializing requires skill. Just like chatting, when, where, who to chat with, how old and what level people are chatting with, and what to talk about all require wisdom and strategy. The speed and duration of chatting need to be controlled. And just the right chat often makes people get twice the result with half the effort.

writing here, I want to know: friend, have you finished reading this article about life insight? How do you feel? In fact, I would like to know, my friend, what is the value after you read this article?