After the college entrance examination, my parents finally divorced, my wife smiled and my husband cried.

when it comes to many people's hearts!

The child divorced after the college entrance examination. He thought it was just his wife's angry words, but she had been preparing for it for ten years!

Some women are elegant even in divorce.

A newly divorced man talked about his ex-wife. He said that when we came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, I was crying. She is smiling. She told me that she had waited ten years for this day. Her son's ten years of studying hard at a cold window is her ten years of hard work.

She told him many times that she would divorce her children after the college entrance examination. He thought it was his wife's angry words, but he didn't want what she said to be true. And since then, I have made plans for divorce.

he thought about his wife's independence and gentleness in recent years, and suddenly found those self-righteous harmony, but her wife didn't want to dispute with him.

He used to hate it when his wife asked him to do housework, but later he didn't know when his wife stopped him from doing it. He still felt very happy at that time. Women are like this. If they don't get used to her, she won't do housework herself.

now think about it, at that time, my wife had already begun to give up on her. She didn't need him anymore, so she did everything by herself.

My wife hasn't asked him for money for several years. In the past, when the child was young and his wife didn't go to work, she would ask him for money every month. He remembers that at that time, he would be particularly annoyed that his wife asked him for money. I spent all the money I earned in a month at home. Every time his wife asks him for money, he will say, "can't you spend less? What air conditioner should you buy in the living room? If the lock is broken, you can make do with it first." What's the use of taking a child to buy those clothes and cosmetics every day? Can't you feel sorry for me? Is it easy for a man to earn money? "

after the child went to primary school, his wife went out to work, and after that, she never asked him for a penny. Their money has been completely separated since then. If a wife wants to buy something, she can buy it herself. He buys whatever he wants. He doesn't know how much his wife earns a month, and she won't care how much he earns a month.

he remembers a time when his wife suddenly spent a lot of money. I bought myself a lot of clothes and good cosmetics. He also blamed her at that time: "You can't save some money, and the children will go to school in the future."

As a result, his wife replied to him for the first time: "I earn my own money and spend it myself. It doesn't cost you a penny. It's none of your business. When the child grows up, how much money you pay, how much I pay, only more than you, not less than you. "

He didn't realize until now that his wife probably didn't need him economically at that time.

No, since those years, the wife's independence is not only economic, but also spiritual. She seldom quarreled with him at first. She listened to what he said. If she doesn't want to hear it, she will hide in another room. At that time, he still thought that his wife had finally become virtuous and gentle, but he didn't think it was because his wife didn't even think it was necessary to quarrel with him.

He thinks about his years. He really wants to do whatever he wants. No matter what he does, his wife doesn't care. Once he didn't come home all night, and his wife didn't make a phone call. At that time, he also laughed at the men who were urged by women, thinking that they were incompetent and were strictly controlled by their wives.

Now think about it, his wife still has love at least, but his wife has long since stopped loving him. He even felt proud that this woman was finally quiet.

on second thought, his wife wouldn't quarrel with him about the children in those years. Because, she has taken care of everything for the child, and he is willing to take care of nothing. At that time, he was complacent. All the money for the cram school for his children was paid by his wife. At that time, he also thought smugly, "Spend it, raise my children for me, and you don't need me to spend any money."

for ten years, the wife earned money by herself, took care of the baby by herself and did all the housework by herself. Even what happened to his wife's parents, his wife never asked for help. He used to be complacent about these things and thought that his wife should be like this.

He even thinks that if his wife gives him a little trouble, he will find her annoying. He doesn't want to take care of his wife's affairs, as long as she provides him with services and doesn't ask him for money, he doesn't care what she does.

On another occasion, when his wife was ill, she called him first. He clearly remembers what he said at that time: "Nobody cares about you in your family. Aren't you rich yourself? What do you want from me?".

the wife hung up the phone without saying anything. Later, when his wife got well, he felt a little guilty. He thought his wife would cry, but she pretended that nothing had happened. He felt that his wife was so much. He really ignored her and she couldn't do anything. He never thought that such a "quiet" wife could be so determined when she divorced him.

Is that determination enough cold for her in the long marriage?

As my wife once said, "You are no longer my husband, but you are my son's father."

So, she put up with it for ten years, prepared for it for ten years, and left herself completely when her children took the college entrance examination and grew up.

come to think of it, he really has nothing to miss for his wife. Because, in this marriage, he can't find out what he gave his wife. Only one child is their only involvement.

when he came out of the civil affairs bureau, he was crying. Because he dare not think about the future, he will cook and wash clothes by himself, tidy up the housework by himself and face everything by himself. He can't drink those nutritious soups cooked by his wife in his life.

while the wife is smiling, marriage is not good for her. After the divorce, the wife just took care of a bad-tempered person less.

men should not wait until their children grow up before they know how to cherish their wives.

when the child was young, you thought this woman would never leave you. As long as you don't make a big mistake, this woman will put up with you for the sake of the children, and tolerate you.

You disliked her, looked down on her and never gave her any care.

Because of her love for children, you don't want children to grow up in an incomplete family, ignore her, be cold and violent, or even treat her as a free nanny.

but I don't want to. She just had no choice at that time. When she has accumulated enough strength, when she is strong enough, when the child has grown up, she will leave you without hesitation.

I am too tired to have you for the rest of my life.

the rest of my life, how happy I am without you.