For table tennis friends, some like to tee off and play, while others never play or compete with you. Why?

Indeed!

There are many people who love to play table tennis, and there are also many people who love to compete. But there are also people who don’t like the game and are good at hitting the ball.

My old golf friends are people who like to compete. Every time I play, I have to fight for more than ten games. Several colleagues of his age don't like to play games and just play and work out every day.

I have also met several table tennis masters. Their movements are very coordinated and elegant, and they hit the ball beautifully. But I don't want to compete with others, just have fun.

People who like competitions pursue excitement and compete to win or lose.

People who don’t like competitions probably don’t like the tension and excitement.

In fact, if you don’t like winning or losing games, you can also play "simulated games". That is, a game without scoring.

The advantage of this kind of training is that you don’t have to worry about winning or losing and you can practice real kung fu.

The best of both worlds.

The sixth person came out with his own experience and answered directly:

The two situations mentioned by the questioner do exist and are common. Regardless of whether they are playing outdoors or indoors, some golfers like to play games very much. It can be said that they will start playing if they disagree. They will not accept anyone, whether they win or lose. They always feel that "I am the best in the world and no one can beat me." .

According to the observation of the sixth person, these golfers who particularly like to play games are generally experienced golfers, with good ball feel and handle. They can be said to be dismissive of the practice of basic skills. They have a lot of experience, and even though their movements are very irregular, their performance rate is still relatively high. Of course, this kind of golfer will suffer a lot when meeting someone who is a little more professional.

There are also some golfers who almost never play games. They will not take the initiative to invite you to tee off, and they don’t like others to invite them to play. As long as they are on the court, they will happily play rounds. Whether their movements are standard or ugly, they just practice hard. They also like to dominate the table. As long as they go up to play, they rarely come down unless they are exhausted. All.

In fact, in addition to the situation mentioned by the subject, there is a more common situation. This group of golfers first come up to practice basic skills and practice routines, and then enter the competition mode.

Generally speaking, this kind of golfers make rapid progress. On the one hand, the practice of basic skills, such as forehand and backhand, can quickly help them build up the feeling in their hands. Practice during the game to check for deficiencies and make up for them. Through actual combat, players can learn from each other, especially improving each other's serving and receiving levels.

As for why some people come up to tee off and play games, and some never play games, in both cases it can only be said that everyone has their own preferences, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Here is a suggestion. If you want to practice basic skills, you can find opponents who never play games. If you want to practice through games, find opponents who play games every time they come up. Two modes, Wouldn't it be fun to switch at any time?

This phenomenon is common! People who start playing games as soon as they come up are mostly impatient and competitive people, while people who never play games are generally slow-tempered or have no desires.

Let’s talk about the first type first, those who are impatient and belligerent. Most of them don’t have the patience to practice basic skills. They think boring basic skills are boring and unchallenging. But it doesn't mean that they don't have certain basic skills.

After they have certain basic skills, they are tired of rigid practice and like to seek the joy of success in the practice of competition. At the same time, this group of people are smart people. In the practice of competition, they are good at discovering their own problems and constantly correcting and improving them to make their own level improve rapidly. This is the so-called competition as training.

There are two types of people who like to kick off the game: 1. People who love to challenge the masters.

This kind of person is keen on improving their table tennis skills and is not afraid of losing. Only by challenging the masters can they bring excitement, be physically excited and display their skills better. On the contrary, they will encounter those who are worse than themselves. People are too lazy to fight, or even refuse to fight.

Such people are easily considered aloof and arrogant and easily alienated. In fact, let me say that such people are true table tennis lovers. What they pursue is technical improvement and constant challenge to the peak of technology.

2. I am only willing to fight with those who are worse than myself.

This kind of person pursues a sense of accomplishment, likes to bring happiness when winning, and likes to be praised and admired. Of course, this kind of person is first of all very smart, has certain skills, and has the conditions to be praised. But most people can't afford to lose and take winning and losing too seriously. Your skills will not be too high, because you will always compete with people who are not as good as you, and your progress will not be too fast.

Coming back, let’s talk about people who never tee off. They can also be divided into two types: 1. Pure fitness, no desire or desire. This kind of person is generally good at playing long balls and high balls. Generally, one person steps back from the table to receive the ball, and one person attacks close to the table. This is enough for physical exercise.

2. People who are afraid of losing. Among those who don’t tee off, there are also those who often practice golf but don’t tee off. In fact, it’s not that they don’t want to tee off, but that they think their skills are not good and they are afraid of making people laugh if they lose the tee shot. Most of these people have no self-confidence, and their skills are not comprehensive. If they are good at pulling and dunking, they will not be able to play if no one feeds the ball during the game. If such a person is properly guided and given guidance to overcome his inferiority complex, he will gradually join the kick-off sequence.

After all, table tennis is a competitive sport. While practicing basic skills, kicking off the ball can help improve your level. During the kicking off, you can also discover your own shortcomings, whether it is psychological or psychological. The shortcomings are still technical deficiencies.

So I am still one of those people who likes to kick off the ball. Only by challenging others, challenging myself, and pursuing something can I have greater happiness. In addition, the reason why I love kick-off is that after kick-off, I concentrate on playing the game, devote myself to it, and sweat unconsciously. It is very comfortable, and it also has the effect of beautifying and rejuvenating.

Looking at this question from different angles, you can draw the conclusion you want.

We are also table tennis enthusiasts. Some people like to play games, while others don't like to compete.

There are several situations for people who like to play games: 1. This person is a professional table tennis player. 2. This person is an amateur table tennis player. 3. This person likes to have fun in table tennis battles.

There are several situations for people who don’t like playing games: 1. This person plays table tennis just as a hobby. 2. This person plays table tennis just for physical exercise. 3. This person does not want to use table tennis to decide whether to win or lose in life.

Whether you play table tennis or not, it is a personal choice. Exercising your body and increasing your personal hobbies are the common goals.

Let’s try to answer the poster’s question from the following perspectives: first, the purpose of playing, and the second is the current technical and tactical level.

1. The purpose of playing table tennis

In China, table tennis is very popular and has a huge mass base, but to be honest, everyone has different goals for playing table tennis, such as Said, older golfers, uncles, aunts, grandparents, their pursuit is to make friends with the ball and have fun playing. They don’t like to play basic skills every day, but want to go out and play games, and verify their own skills through games. Some thoughts, at the same time, making friends through playing games and discussing with fellow golfers. To put it bluntly, it is just fun. As for the result of the game, it is not particularly important.

Those of us who are slightly younger may have certain pursuits in playing football. For example, students who specialize in table tennis want to practice their various skills to prepare for future studies. For us semi-amateurs, we also need to continue to conduct individual technical training. Playing games without adequate skills will not improve yourself much.

2. Technical and tactical level

After the basic skills and tactical literacy reach a certain level, we must take game classes. If we practice basic skills every day but do not play games, then we will There is no way to verify your ideas and technologies. Only through actual combat can you test them.

However, in reality, many golfers are not yet at this level, and their understanding of force generation, rotation, etc. is not yet in place, so basic skills training must be carried out. Because if your basic skills are not in place, it does not make any sense for you to compete in the kick-off game.

All in all, every golfer’s pursuit is different. Because after the kickoff, everyone does not follow the practice routine, but the game routine. It is not suitable for golfers who want to practice basic skills.

Table tennis friends, some people like to play games, because it is more exciting to have a game against each other, and both sides will be more serious during the game. Some people never play games, they just like to practice with each other, you go to them If you play a game, you will be rejected.

In fact, this is related to the understanding of table tennis. Golfers who like to play games are generally more competitive in character. They hope to win only one person. This kind of golfers enjoy the excitement of the game. Find your own problems through constant competition, and then find ways to overcome this difficulty to improve your own level.

Of course, there is also a possibility that when they first came into contact with table tennis, there was no one in their atmosphere to practice. They started playing games as soon as they met. Their progress was achieved through continuous competition and summarizing experience. , but this type of golfers often have irregular technical movements and obvious problems with their power. Because of the lack of correct guidance, they will go further and further down the wrong road. The less training atmosphere there is, the more they like to play games, because when they meet, they can only play through games. Both sides cannot practice ball at all. If only one party can practice ball and the other party cannot practice ball, when they meet, People with good patience will slowly train with people who can't practice football and give their own relevant opinions. People with poor patience will not practice with people who can't practice football, because the one who picks up the ball will always practice. People who pick up too many balls will always get irritated, so once you meet someone who doesn't know how to practice ball, it makes sense to just kick off the ball and play a game.

In addition, there is another kind of people, they are the weird rubber players. They usually use long rubber, raw rubber and other particles to set rubber. When they encounter opponents, they almost don’t practice the ball and just start playing. , because practicing with granular rubber has very high requirements on both yourself and the opponent. If the opponent does not know how to use granular rubber, he will not practice at all. Even if he knows how to use granular rubber, he may not be able to practice. Therefore, golfers who use granular rubber generally They started playing games directly without practicing.

However, there is a type of golfers who never play games. They only like to practice. These golfers generally lack confidence in themselves and always feel that they cannot play games, or have such thoughts. : I haven’t practiced my forehand well yet, so I can’t play in the game. I haven’t learned how to pull the ball with my backhand yet, so I don’t dare to use it in the game... They all dare not face the game and lack confidence in themselves. They like to find a golf partner who can practice against each other to practice various basic skills. They practice over and over again, covering the following contents: forehand attack, backhand attack, ball rubbing, one attack and one defense, etc., because they lack competition So I don't know what I need to practice, so every practice is the most basic and basic things.

This type of golfers generally have this idea: As long as I can exercise and sweat, it will be fine if I sweat a little every day to detoxify my body. There is no need to fight for it. Winning or losing is actually an excuse for yourself. The more you are afraid of playing games, the more you practice basic skills. If you practice too much, you will not dare to compete. You are afraid of deforming your movements when playing games and dare not face it. This forms a vicious cycle. The more afraid they are, the more they practice, and the more they practice, the less they dare, and so on. Only when these golfers dare to take the first step to play a game, and then conduct targeted training based on their own problems, can they improve quickly.

Let me answer this question.

Everyone has different purposes in playing table tennis.

Those who like to play games mainly do so to improve the application of techniques and tactics, and to test their own level by winning or losing.

For those who don’t play games, they often practice football and have fun. Winning or losing may have a greater impact on them.

Under normal circumstances, you should practice more basic skills, including various techniques, including forehand attack, backhand push or backhand dial, forehand and backhand rub, and after you can pull a few arcs, you can play more games.

Playing games is to test the practice of basic skills, and to face different opponents to improve your own experience.

Those who don’t win all the time will lose. Some people will be unhappy after losing, and some people will sum up their experience after losing, analyze the deficiencies in the application of techniques and tactics, and prepare for victory next time.

I have seen many friends who practice ball. When they practice, their movements are stretched, their coordination is good, and their forehand and backhand are very formal, but only for ball practice. Once the game is played, the rhythm and rotation are different, and the skills you have practiced will not be able to be used.

After losing, he looked unhappy, stopped playing, and continued to practice, hoping that he could win next time by practicing again.

Here we need to analyze the reasons for losing.

When practicing ball, the rhythm is often relatively simple. The placement point is at hand, and multiple boards are not missed. However, the rhythm of rotation during the game is very different from that during practice. It is impossible to adapt to the situation of the game simply by relying on the experience of practicing.

Practicing blindly lacks a real understanding of actual combat in the mind, and if you stop playing after losing, you will not be able to truly improve your level.

Competition and practice complement each other.

Friends who only compete and do not practice often have insufficient basic skills and lack of rationality in playing. However, with rich experience in actual combat, many players have good control over their placement and the rhythm changes greatly, which often makes opponents feel uncomfortable and they can win through the use of such techniques and tactics.

Once faced with an opponent who has solid basic skills and a certain amount of actual combat experience, those with poor basic skills will suffer a lot. They will easily miss the opponent and lack stability.

The game is to test the effectiveness of ball training. Through winning or losing, think about where you have shortcomings in your ball training process, and how to strengthen it during practice to improve your own shortcomings.

However, pure ball training is about hand coordination, lack of confrontation, and often insufficient experience.

Therefore, practice and competition need to be carried out on a daily basis. It is not a good thing to just compete, and it is not a good thing to just practice.

I hope my answer will be of some help to you.

No matter the level is high or low, the core and essence of competitive sports is losing and winning. "There is no first in culture, and no second in martial arts." No one can escape this. It's all nonsense to say this or that. People who don't like kick-offs and games are just "afraid of losing."

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Those who like to kick off the game enjoy the pleasure and joy of winning. The author spent about four to five years playing tournaments here and there. No matter how big or small there are competitions in urban areas and suburban counties, as long as you have time, you will definitely attend them and enjoy them endlessly. When you win, you are naturally filled with joy and feel that life is really full of fun. When you lose, you will be depressed for a long time and wonder why you are so stupid and you should have played like this, and so on.

I personally think that people who like to kick off and play games have a relatively positive mentality, at least infinitely close to the state of "wanting to win but not afraid of losing". Momentum. There is no general who always wins. People like table tennis kings Ma Long and Waldenele also lose many times. What can I, an amateur fan, be afraid of?

"I won't compare with you" - I personally think it is an "escape" attitude. Among them, except for the situation of "not looking down on you". This situation usually occurs when people are relatively well understood. The author has been involved in amateur golf courses in his early years, and has always stayed away from those with poor character and playing skills, no matter how high or low they are. But if it is normal communication, why not? "Making friends with the ball" is both unpleasant and joyful. Is it one of the great joys in life?

Don't always use "I'm in retreat" or "I want to practice movements" as excuses. Fan Zhendong and Sun Yingsha can't become amateurs no matter how hard they practice. They can be infinitely close to the professional level, but they can never become them. Professionalism, to put it bluntly, means not wanting to “lose”. They are "afraid of losing" to those who are higher than themselves, and "dismissive" of those who are definitely lower than themselves. They are also worried that if they don't perform well and lose, they will be even more embarrassed.

The mentality of table tennis has a great impact on performance, and once you want to enter the competition mode, you need to mobilize a lot of things. Such as technical and tactical adjustments, concentration, energy and physical consumption, etc. The author has gradually become less willing to compete in the past few years. First, I played too much in the past, which made me tired. Second, to really play a game, I need to consume too many things, so I don’t want to put in the effort. But there is still a lot of normal scoring among golfers.

Isn’t it just a matter of winning or losing? If someone asks you to play a friendly game at the gym, but you go ahead with it, wouldn't it be tiring?

Even the little baby will laugh.

1. Because just kicking off the ball and playing the game requires concentration, the brain, hands, and feet are all used, and the pace is fast and consumes energy. Compared with the competition, I feel very nervous and tired, so I will not play with you. . 2. Because there are winners and losers when the game kicks off, and changes in playing styles and tactics during the game mobilize the opponent, etc., and can easily cause disputes, which can affect the mood and cause unpleasantness, so I will not play with you. 3. Because I only have time to practice without playing games, my mood is relaxed and my heart is not nervous. I feel comfortable playing as I like. I have become addicted to football and have exercised my body, so I won’t play games with you.

In short, golfers have all kinds of personalities. When we play together and exercise, we should respect and tolerate each other, communicate and learn from each other, and understand that humility is the best choice

I am also a table tennis player Enthusiasts have also experienced that some friends practice a few balls, then record the opening points and start the game mode! Some play all afternoon without ever teeing off!

I feel that each has its pros and cons, kick-off, excitement, high concentration, and exposure to various playing styles! It will have a better effect on exercising and improving your level! But there are people with all kinds of personalities. Maybe some uncles are older, have strong self-esteem, and have poor control over winning and losing. Sometimes they deviate from the original intention of exercising because playing makes others feel uncomfortable! Therefore, you must be confident when playing golf. Even if you play well, you must make your playing partners happy and comfortable! Practice basic skills, never tee off, sometimes watch the back and forth of the game, the scene is very beautiful! But it may not be practical! After playing for a long time, the effect of exercise is average! It is still very helpful for basic contact skills! Some people don't like to tee off, and they only have one purpose in playing, just to have fun and get some exercise! Don’t compete for winning or losing, and don’t lose your sport or hobby! Best of both worlds! Technology doesn't matter, just have fun!