Ten steps to quickly improve your eloquence

The times need talents, and talents need eloquence. Talents do not necessarily have eloquence, but eloquence must be talents. The most important thing about talents is eloquence, and eloquence will definitely lead to success. Below are the ten steps I have compiled to quickly improve your eloquence for your reference.

Step 1 to quickly improve eloquence: practice psychology

Good eloquence requires good psychological quality. Many times, when we are preparing alone, we feel that we can speak very well, but why do we speak so unsatisfactorily when we stand in front of the public? We are often full of confidence before going up to speak, but feel extremely regretful after speaking. In fact, this is because our psychological quality is not strong enough to be in front of the public, so you will be nervous and cannot speak well. You can’t learn to swim without getting into the water, and you can’t learn to practice public speaking without giving it. The same goes for the psychological quality of practicing public speaking, which needs to be trained in front of the public. Many people will say that there are few opportunities to practice. I want to say: You must play when you have the opportunity, and you must play when you create opportunities when you don’t have the chance. When I train students, I will take them to crowded places, such as supermarkets, squares, etc., wherever there are many people, and then ask them to speak out loud the content of their prepared speeches in the crowd. It can be a short story, or it can be an experience of your own, so as to train your psychological quality when speaking in public. Facing people coming and going, pairs of unfamiliar eyes will look at you with various eyes. You may not be able to continue speaking for the first time, but slowly you will find that you can finish speaking and know what you are talking about. , and finally I was able to finish speaking fluently and emotionally. When you return to some public places, you will find that you can even speak well on the street. What is this stage? Your mentality will be much more calm than before. Of course, this is just one of the methods we use more often. In fact, there are many more. You can also try it yourself. It may not be useful to you, but if it is useful, you will gain a lot.

Step 2 to quickly improve your eloquence: belly training.

It is impossible to have good eloquence if you have no ideas. At best, you can only talk. If you give someone a glass of water, you have to have a bucket of water yourself. We should usually accumulate more knowledge. This is a process of accumulation and requires a process of precipitation. So from what aspects should we accumulate knowledge? First, professional knowledge. The professional knowledge in your industry is what makes others willing to listen to you. You know it, but others don't. This is the value of your existence. Second, social and humanistic knowledge. When chatting from time to time, you can’t just talk about your professional knowledge. You also have to talk about things that everyone knows and express their opinions together. This requires social and humanistic knowledge. This is all-encompassing and can be seen in life. When you hear something, you should be careful and remember it in your heart, so that you won’t be ignorant when talking about these topics. Third, social science knowledge.

Let me share a little story with you. There is a hairdressing shop with a very prosperous business. Someone asked the owner of a hair salon for his experience. The owner said: "My hairdressers are very good at communicating with customers and are very eloquent." So how do his hairdressers achieve this? It turns out that there are It is a written rule that half an hour before going to work every day, hairdressers will gather in the shop to read newspapers and magazines. In this way, they will have new topics to communicate with customers, and it is easy to shorten the distance with customers, and they will naturally be influenced by it. Customer welcome. From this little story, we should be able to feel a lot.

The third step to quickly improve your eloquence is to practice listening.

To practice speaking, you must also practice listening. Listening well is the prerequisite for speaking well. God gave us two ears and one mouth to speak less and listen more. Being good at eloquence does not mean how much you can speak, but whether you can speak well, get to the key points, and get to the point. Don't talk too much, just be concise. We must be good at hearing between the lines and the hidden meaning. This is a basic skill. There are no skills. All I can say is that you should have a better ear when listening to others. Listen carefully. After listening, think carefully about why he said that and what he meant by it. If you want me to understand something, ask yourself a few more whys, and your ears will gradually become sharper. At the same time, when listening, you should consider the environment, the speaker's tone, etc. Listen with your "heart", not just your ears.

Step 4 to quickly improve your eloquence, practice Mandarin

Our Mandarin level does not need to be as standard as that of announcers (except announcers), but at least it must be passable, and don’t let others listen. I feel like we have a serious problem with Mandarin. So which kinds of inaccurate pronunciation will make people obviously feel that Mandarin is not standard? The main reasons are the following points

1. There is no distinction between n and l. For example: Grandma is here. If this sentence sounds like the same sound to you, then you basically can’t tell the difference between the two sounds.

2. There is no distinction between zh and z. Just flat and curled tongue. "Four is four, ten is ten, fourteen is fourteen, and forty is forty."

3. h and f are indistinguishable. "Chemical fertilizers will evaporate."

If the above-mentioned sounds are pronounced incorrectly, it will be obvious. Other pronunciations, such as the front and back nasal sounds, are not pronounced correctly in daily life. It's very audible, but if you have problems with the previous few sounds, please make some efforts to correct them.

Let me give you some common methods for correcting pronunciation.

1. Tongue twisters.

Nl:

The old dragon was angry and made trouble with the old farmer,

The old farmer was angry and made trouble with the old dragon.

The dragon is even more angry when the farmer is angry,

The dragon is angry when the farmer is angry, and the dragon is afraid of the farmer.

Hf:

(1) New to the world: Fertilizers will evaporate

(2) Little famous: Black fertilizers turn gray, gray fertilizers turn black< /p>

(3) Famous: Black fertilizers will evaporate when they turn gray; gray fertilizers will turn black when they evaporate.

(4) Famous in the world: Black fertilizers will evaporate and become gray; gray fertilizers will turn black. If it volatilizes, it will turn black and the flowers will fly

(5) A great master: Black and gray fertilizers will volatilize and turn gray and the flowers will fly. 6) Extraordinary and holy: The black and gray fertilizers will evaporate and the ash will evaporate, and the gray and black taboos will be black and gray, and the flowers will fly; the gray and black fertilizers will evaporate and turn into black and gray, and the flying flowers will turn into ashes

(7) Flying Fairy from Heaven: Blackened black fertilizer ash will volatilize, gray black taboo is black ash, the flowers will fly back; gray black fertilizer will volatilize black ash taboo, the flowers will fly back into

Flat tongue:

Si Xiaosi and Shi Xiaoshi went to the market at 14:40 on April 14. Si Xiaosi bought forty-four kilograms and four ounces of tomatoes, and Shi Xiaoshi bought fourteen kilograms and forty ounces of tomatoes. silk. Si Xiaosi wanted to exchange forty-four pounds and four ounces of tomatoes for Shi Xiaoshi's fourteen pounds and four ounces of fine silk. Shi Xiaoshi's fourteen pounds and four ounces of fine silk would not be exchanged for Si Xiaosi's forty-four pounds and four ounces of tomatoes. Si Xiaosi said that my forty-four pounds and four ounces of tomatoes could increase nutrition and prevent myopia. Shi Xiaoshi said that my fourteen pounds and four ounces of fine silk could be used to weave silk, satin, and silk.

2. Comparative pronunciation practice

Planting flowers - Picking flowers last night - Excellent grandfather - Instructions for rent - Beads for the time being - Warriors

Education - Still resources - Volunteer support -Volunteer writing paper-stop resignation-deficit

Self-reliance - intellectual coarse cloth - preliminary car cleaning - forklift history - rote flower planting - picking flowers

Helpless - rogue Nantian - blue sky Disasters - Souvenirs of floods - Nostalgia for the Year of the Ox - Fleeting Years

Female guest - Passenger promise - heavy fall - solemn mud - angry fence - old

New food —Bride tourist&mdash ;Female guest's woolen child - Pear Xinlian - New Year's brain - Laozi

Prescription - land reclamation and air defense - aviation range - arc haircut - physical and chemical demobilization - mutual aid

Prevent - Yellow paper development - blooming for the first time - sweating plane - gray chicken seems - trance

Cheering - repeated dusting - very heavy at the desk - lakeside nonsense - painting at public expense - union

3. Follow the news Hookup practice

In fact, this method is the simplest, but the most effective. There is a half-hour news broadcast every day. I read every sentence he says and imitate his voice, intonation, pronunciation, etc.

As long as you can practice for an hour every day for a month, there will be obvious improvement.

There are many ways to practice Mandarin. Here I will briefly mention a few points for you. I hope you can benefit from them.

Step 5 to quickly improve your eloquence. Practice thinking

The mouth is the door to the heart. The words are the voice of the heart. Language is actually a reflection of a person's inner thoughts. A good eloquence requires the assistance of sharp thinking. From the perspective of psychological principles, thinking and language are closely related. What language expresses is the result of thinking activities. If thinking is not quick, clear, and rigorous, language expression will not be smooth and clear.

There are several ways to train thinking:

1. Brain teasers

2. Thinking training questions

3. Chinese chess Wait

There are many methods and they are very simple, but the key is persistence. Whether you can insist on spending 20 minutes a day for thinking training depends on your will.

Step 6 to quickly improve your eloquence. Practice body language

According to the research of behavioral science, in the expression process of a person, body language accounts for 55%, voice and intonation 38%, and words only Accounted for 7%. For example, "I didn't say he stole my wallet." This sentence can express many meanings using different voice tones, facial expressions, and body language. This sentence has at least 7 meanings. You can find it yourself. Analyze the experience.

So how to improve your body language level. Friends who have participated in speech and eloquence training should know that they will teach you many "dishes", such as "ordering", "cutting", "stir-frying", etc. In fact, these eight dishes are very good for training your body language. My own body language is mainly accomplished through these "dishes". Of course, there are also two "hot pots". These two "hot pots" are original to me and cannot be found elsewhere.

In addition to this, sign language dance is also a very good method, such as "Grateful Heart", "Treading the Waves", etc. You can practice it in front of the mirror every day for 10 minutes. If you insist on it for a few days, it will definitely be beneficial. 7. Practice speed reading.

The speed reading method is very helpful for practicing speech eloquence. Many times when we speak in front of the public, we will get stuck and want to say it all at once. No, actually this is because we are not articulate enough. The best way to solve this problem is to practice speed. So how to practice is divided into the following three steps:

1. Find articles. Find an article or a passage that interests you.

2. Look up in the dictionary. Many people will ask: Teacher, look up the dictionary. I haven’t looked up the dictionary since I graduated from elementary school. We cannot guarantee that we know every word in the articles and paragraphs we are looking for. If we start practicing without looking up the dictionary in advance, we will encounter a word that we don’t know how to pronounce while reading. Once or twice is better than more than once. , the interest in practicing speed will be greatly reduced, so the second step must be to look up the dictionary.

3. From slow to fast. Don't pursue how fast you are at the beginning. Read accurately first, read well, and then read faster.

In fact, eloquence is basically achieved through practice. No one is born with good eloquence. During the American Civil War, there was a man named Lincoln, and everyone should know it. When he was young, he walked 30 miles every day to listen to lawyers' arguments in court. Everyone knows that lawyers are very eloquent. On the way back, he would practice while walking. When he saw a cornfield, he would practice facing it. When he saw a big tree, he would practice facing the big tree. During the revolution of our country, there was a revolutionary named Xiao Chunu. When I was young, I would carry a mirror on my back every morning, climb up the mountain, hang the mirror on a tree, and practice my speech and eloquence in front of the mirror; there is a man named Jack Welch, the former CEO of General Motors, who is known as the 20th Century The greatest CEO, but you may not know that Jack Welch had a serious stutter when he was a child. The children around him laughed at him. Once he asked his mother why he stuttered. His mother was very He replied, "Child, do you know why you stutter? Your father and I made you stutter on purpose because your brain is running too fast and your mouth can't keep up with the speed of your brain. "Eloquence depends on practice. There is no inborn eloquence, only acquired eloquence acquired through hard practice.

Step 8 to quickly improve your eloquence. Practice your speech

What you learn is knowledge, and what you can speak out is your eloquence! I want to emphasize here that the speeches I talk about are not The speech in the speech contest, because the speech contest is a kind of literary and artistic activity competition, the pursuit of beauty, but in our real life, it actually focuses more on practicality. The definition of speech I am talking about is: when facing two or more people When speaking, it is a speech, or it is called public speaking.

Many people will say, I want to practice, but I have no chance and no one is willing to let me practice. There is no fat that is delivered to our door, but if there is no fat that is delivered to our door, wouldn’t we stop eating meat? Opportunities are actually everywhere, but do you want to practice or must you improve your speech or eloquence level? This attitude determines your actions. When Lincoln was young, he wanted to improve his eloquence, so he was willing to walk 30 miles a day to listen to others debate. After he learned it, he had no chance or anywhere to practice, so he found cornfields and practiced facing the cornfields and big trees. Practice; Xiao Chunu didn’t have the opportunity to practice her speech skills, so she carried a mirror and went to the mountains to practice by herself every morning. Don't complain that you have no opportunities. When you are complaining that you have no opportunities, your competitors are already creating opportunities. If you really want to improve your speaking skills, it is impossible not to have the opportunity to practice speaking.

Speech practice can be divided into keynote speeches and impromptu speeches. The two methods, as the names suggest, I will not analyze. During our speech, we must focus on speaking and acting as a supplement. Speeches cannot be made without speaking and speaking. In fact, "speaking" relies on our eloquence, while "performance" allows us to express to the audience in a profound way. Body movements, voice intonation, and facial expressions are all part of the "acting" part.

Step 9 to quickly improve your eloquence. Practice debate

Debating is a process of improving your persuasiveness and influence. If you let the other party accept your point of view through language and believe that your point of view is correct, this is the highest state of language expression. There are two most difficult things in the world, one is to put the ideas in your head into another head, and the other is to put the money in other people's pockets into your own pocket. One is persuasion and the other is sales. Debating is a great way to improve this ability.

Many people will probably talk about it again. Teacher, where can I really find an opportunity to debate? In fact, when you say this sentence, you are already making excuses for yourself. If you want to find excuses for anything, you can find thousands of excuses. This is what the Chinese are best at, but success does not depend on making excuses. We can succeed. Let’s take a look at all the successful people. Which one made excuses for themselves during the period of struggle? New Oriental Yu Minhong couldn’t recruit students at the beginning, so he went there carrying paste in the weather of more than ten degrees below zero. When painting posters, he didn't make excuses for why he couldn't recruit students at the beginning. Whether it was Alibaba's Jack Ma or Crazy English's Li Yang, it was all the same. So, if you want to improve your speech and eloquence, don’t tell me that you don’t have the opportunity to practice. Opportunities are created by yourself.

1. Join the QQ debate group. There are many debate groups now, and everyone debates in them from time to time. You can join some such groups and participate in the debates within the group. This is one way.

2. Self-debate. Find a debate topic, act as the pro and con side, defend yourself, and constantly exercise your eloquence and thinking ability.

Step 10 to quickly improve your eloquence. Practice conversation.

In fact, conversation level is the purpose for most of us to practice eloquence. Of course, some people need this ability because of public speaking, such as meetings and speeches. Conversation occurs in every moment of life, and we must be attentive to improve this ability.

You can usually try to train your communication skills in the following two ways:

1. Have your own purpose when communicating with others. Most of the time we talk and chat without theme or purpose, but in order to improve the level of eloquence, you have to find your own purpose and find ways to achieve this purpose in the process. No matter what the result is, in fact, in this process, you You can experience many skills in speech eloquence.

2. Try to guide others. When talking about the process, learn to guide the other party step by step and let the other party follow your ideas, so as to achieve the goal you want.

These two methods actually require certain abilities, but don’t care too much about the initial results. No one is born with these abilities, they are all accumulated bit by bit in life. Our country’s diplomats, lawyers, etc., all use this communication ability to the extreme.

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