Why in some families, husbands domestically abuse their wives?

The causes of domestic violence are: 1. Some people have twisted personalities and bad conduct. Directly trigger domestic violence. Some men have twisted personalities and often have unreasonable suspicions about their spouses' improper lifestyles. They do not allow their spouses to talk to the opposite sex or to supplement the family income by working outside the home to make money. If their spouses resist, they will be subject to domestic violence. Some young men and women are infected with bad habits and spend all day in the house. They are greedy for fun, idle, and engage in gambling, drinking, and prostitution. Some of them run rampant in the countryside and endanger the people. They are bullies that everyone hates. These people have no sense of family responsibility and go home to show off when something doesn't go their way. For example, after losing money in gambling, he forces his wife to borrow money. If she cannot borrow the money, she will be violent. If the wife wants to file for divorce, she will be intimidated by them. She often swallows her anger and dare not report it. Such cases account for 22.5% of the total.

2. Misplaced concepts. Covetous extramarital affairs lead to domestic violence. With the reform and opening up and the establishment of the market economic system, people's ideas and concepts have undergone profound changes. In the fierce collision of various traditional, modern, local, and foreign thoughts, cultures, concepts, and customs, some people have lost their way in their thoughts, and their moral concepts, especially the moral concepts of marriage, have been misaligned. Some men regard being mean as fashion, and use having "extramarital affairs" as capital to show off to others. Some men live illegally with their "mistresses" for a long time and have children. When he returns home, he will pick on his wife, make her feel "different", and force her to divorce under various pretexts. What's more, he will take his "second wife" to live at home and drive his wife out of the house. A slight resistance from the wife will lead to domestic violence. According to the survey, there were 60 cases of domestic violence caused by extramarital affairs, accounting for 30%.

3. Historical reasons and social reasons. From the perspective of historical development, my country's long-standing traditional patriarchal ideology of "men are superior to women" has gained ground in the current market economic situation; from a social perspective, firstly, there is de facto inequality in the status of women in our country; secondly, in society Most people believe that "domestic violence is a matter within the family" and "it is difficult for an upright official to resolve household affairs."

4. Severe patriarchal or feminine ideology causes domestic violence. In the past, people often thought that male chauvinists tended to like beating and scolding their wives, but research by foreign sociologists has refuted this view. On the contrary, feminine men are often more likely to commit domestic violence. Experts explain that feminine men tend to be more sensitive and sometimes care about everything. Especially after being suppressed by their wives for a long time, they are very easy to be impulsive or beat their wives over trivial matters in order to satisfy their self-esteem. In addition, some women have serious feminist ideas and are self-centered. They often deliberately insult and belittle their husbands, and sometimes punch and kick them, which in turn triggers domestic violence.

5. Our country’s current laws do not yet have relatively complete prevention measures. Measures to curb domestic violence lack a law enforcement supervision system. In terms of legislation, laws to protect the personal rights of family members and curb domestic violence are scattered in various laws, which are strong in principle and poor in operability.

6. Relevant departments do not pay enough attention to the issue of domestic violence. Leaders of some units believe that domestic violence is an internal matter within the family and do not interfere or intervene. Some judges blindly mediate reconciliation and do not rule on divorce when victims are seeking divorce because they cannot bear the domestic violence, thus making the perpetrators even more unscrupulous. commit acts of violence.

7. Legal publicity and education are not carried out extensively and deeply enough. Many citizens do not realize that domestic violence is a tort and an illegal act, and public opinion adopts a tolerant attitude towards it but fails to condemn it in a timely and vigorous manner, which has no deterrent effect on those who cause violence.