"Beijing Women's Illustrated Book": It's not that he doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you

This is a commonplace topic: It’s not that he doesn’t want to get married, he just doesn’t want to marry you.

After watching ten episodes of "Beijing Women's Illustrated Book" in one night, it was not until Yu Yang appeared that Shuqing became deeply attracted to this drama.

My friend Shuqing is not a Beijing drifter or a Shanghai drifter. He just lives in a first-tier city with second-tier city indicators and works in a small Internet company. The company has a simple structure and the personnel composition is also simple. There is not so much intrigue and intrigue.

She does not have a deep understanding of the workplace rules in "Beijing Women", but she has more or less the same feelings about the heroine Chen Ke's several love lines.

Yu Yang, in the play, is the male protagonist who is Chen Ke’s official second love affair. He is a second-generation rich man who started his own business without relying on his family.

Shuqing didn’t believe how much affection he had for Chen Ke. When they met for the first time, he might have been a little attracted to her beauty. When they met again, he found this girl more interesting. After that, they were together , I am afraid that in addition to the first two reasons, there is another reason that he needs her.

I need her in my career.

Chen Ke can be regarded as both beautiful and capable. Such a woman will be somewhat helpful to Yu Yang's rising career. Therefore, in the series, the daily relationship between Yu Yang and Chen Ke is that Yu Yang takes Chen Ke to participate in his various entertainments.

As time passed, Chen Ke began to look forward to marriage. She talked about marriage to Yang, but Yu Yang said that she was not married. She took her mother to Beijing to force her to get married, but Yu Yang lied about being on a business trip. Stay out of sight. She thought she was using an ultimate move, but she never thought that in the eyes of others, it was a very low joke.

After the breakup, Yu Yang married his ex-girlfriend at the speed of light.

The female boss, Mr. Gu, told her that Yu Yang’s predecessor was a woman from a good family but worked a hundred times harder than ordinary people.

Can Chen work hard? effort. Does she work a hundred times harder than ordinary people? Except when she was discussing cooperation with Yu Yang and acted in order to win the contract, which made her look very hard, at other times Shuqing didn't notice that she was working a hundred times harder.

Does Yu Yang love his ex more? We don't know. At least, that woman helped him in his career a hundred times more than Chen Ke. The extent of love and interests here can only be understood by Yu Yang himself.

Mr. Gu said something, perhaps telling us that Yu Yang loves Chen Ke, but he loves himself more: "Everyone wants to live more comfortably, get more, and then work less hard. , we are all such people, please allow him to be too."

This is the most realistic, this is the most true human nature.

Mr. Hao is also an entrepreneur. He is smart, capable and capable. Shuqing has known him for three years. Seeing him transform from a professional elite to self-employment, he has also had several ups and downs. Work. Shuqing thought that her growth could catch up with Mr. Hao's progress. However, while she was growing up, Mr. Hao was also working hard to grow up.

A year ago, Shuqing had realized that Mr. Hao was a man she could not control, and she had always been passive in this relationship.

Mr. Hao also said, like Yu Yang, that he liked Shuqing’s sensible nature the most.

Shuqing is sensible, partly because of his gentle personality, partly because of his inferiority and pride. Facing Mr. Hao, she felt inferior. He was so outstanding, but she was so ordinary. It was not that she had not worked hard, but Mr. Hao was so smart, and her efforts seemed to be trivial in front of him.

She is also proud. From childhood to adulthood, she has always been one of the better ones in any circle of friends. She is quite pretty and is willing to work hard in everything she does. Many teachers and superiors I rather admire her. In her opinion, there are few things in the world that cannot be obtained through hard work.

However, Mr. Hao happens to be such a kind of existence. Her pride did not allow her to humble herself to please him, but facing the outstanding him, the inferiority complex in her heart bubbled out like an unstoppable mountain spring.

Mr. Hao never mentioned marriage or breakup. If Shuqing still had the desire to spend her life with Mr. Hao at first, now she doesn't dare to think about it at all.

They separated once a year ago. Like Chen Ke, Shuqing also used her ultimate trick: she broke up with him, saying that he had never had a boyfriend. It seemed that she longed for her boyfriend's company and the warm interaction between the two of them, but what he always gave her was a job background and passion limited to bed. She said that she had met someone who was willing to give her everything she wanted. , I want to end this relationship that doesn’t feel like love.

She thought Mr. Hao would keep her, just like in the TV series, when the heroine left, the hero suddenly discovered that he had fallen deeply in love with her.

But she was too naive, Mr. Hao just gave her his blessing. He wasn't even curious about the kind of man who was willing to accompany her.

Shuqing hid at home and cried for several days. She had to admit the fact that Mr. Hao did not love her, and this fact made her heartbroken.

She did not meet a man who was willing to give her everything. A few months later, Mr. Hao contacted her and said that he was leaving the city and wanted to meet him before leaving.

She was still heartbroken when she saw the news about him again, but it was much better than at the beginning. She still liked him, so she couldn't refuse this meeting.

Perhaps Mr. Hao is too smart, or perhaps he missed something. He knows that she has always been single.

So, they were entangled again. This time, Shuqing no longer expected anything. After seeing more, she understood that this man did not like her that much, but what could she do? She still Deeply attracted to him. Perhaps, it corresponds to the lyrics "What you can't get is always in turmoil."

Behind this watchfulness, there may be a trace of expectation of growing old together with her son, but she still can't bring herself to completely cut off this seemingly non-existent relationship. In the TV series, Chen Ke and Yu Yang have an ending, but she doesn't know when her ending with Mr. Hao will come.