The custom of making friends in Britain

Common information: customs and habits in foggy Britain

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The full name of Britain is' United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland', referred to as the United Kingdom, referred to as Britain.

Britain is an archipelago country in western Europe, with an area of 254,000 square kilometers and a population of 56.5 million, of which 83% are English. The main religions are Protestantism and Roman Catholicism. London, the capital, is called "the foggy city of the world". Sometimes the fog will last for several days. I can't hear anything except a few steps.

At present, the British government implements a constitutional monarchy and a cabinet system of responsibility. Congress is divided into two houses. Members of the House of Commons are elected by the people for a term of five years. The upper house consists of hereditary or feudal nobles, priests or social elites. In addition, the cabinet holds political power, and its members are nominated by the Prime Minister and appointed with the consent of the King. In addition, the Prime Minister is the majority leader of the House of Commons and has the right to dissolve and re-elect the House of Commons. When there are no children, the throne is inherited by the eldest daughter. The current king is Elizabeth II.

Britain is called the workshop of the world. Britain is the earliest industrialized country in the world. By 1850, British industrial production accounts for 39% of the world's total output, and the trade volume accounts for 2 1% of the world's trade volume, ranking 1 in the world. The total output of coal and steel accounts for more than half of the world total output.

At present, Britain is the fourth largest trading country in the world, a country that relies on foreign trade to develop its own economy, and one of the largest importers of industrial raw materials and food in the world.

British national identity is closely related to its cultural background. The British economy developed earlier. In the eyes of most foreigners, the British people are "pretending to be lofty" and "inaccessible". However, in fact, this is not entirely the case. They are good at understanding each other and others. No matter what you do, you always try not to leave a bad impression. Gentleman demeanor can be seen everywhere. They know how to create a harmonious environment so that everyone can live in harmony and happiness. A strong sense of occupation is another major feature of the British. If you choose a career, you must constantly improve your business. In business communication, they attach importance to friendship, do not deliberately pursue material things and do not pay attention to each other. This is a common style. For business negotiations, they are often not fully prepared and do not pay attention to details, which seems a bit sloppy. But British businessmen are kind, friendly and easy to get along with. So the problems encountered are also easy to solve. They are sociable, resourceful, flexible and quick to respond to constructive suggestions. In Britain,' appearance is everything'. When dealing with British people, you should try to avoid showing your feelings. Be sure to thank you for your hospitality and write to express your gratitude afterwards, which will attract more attention. Giving small gifts can enhance friendship. When doing business in Britain, you must keep your word and go all out to fulfill your promise.

British customs are rich and colorful. When we first meet, we usually hold hands as gifts, unlike Eastern Europeans who often hug each other. It is considered impolite to slap a guest casually, even after business. British people have some taboos to pay attention to, such as never walking under a ladder, never holding an umbrella in the house, never putting shoes on the table and decorating them with portraits.

British people pay attention to clothes, and clothes should change from time to time. They tend to judge people by their appearance, so they should pay special attention to their appearance and attitude. British people pay attention to clothes, and they should be well dressed as soon as they leave home. Although the British have lost their former glory, they are particularly conceited. People in the upper and middle classes have developed the traditional manners of "gentlemen" and "ladies" because they live a comfortable life. But they are old-fashioned, generally keen on conformism, reserved and solemn. Ordinary families love old furniture, old furnishings, old clocks and watches handed down from the previous generation and show them off. There are many' century-old shops' in the capital London. The more famous the shops, the more complete the original style or layout. Although the car engine has been replaced with a new model, the model should be kept the same as before. There are two post offices in London, which are open day and night 365 days a year and never rest. It is said that they are preserved according to the ancient English tradition.

English people are withdrawn, rigid in life, conscientious in work, not interested in foreign affairs, often reticent, cautious about new things, and have a unique calm humor. They are reserved and indifferent, and their feelings are not revealed. Even if there are sad things, they often don't show up. They seldom lose their temper and are patient. They don't want to argue with others unnecessarily. The British are very patient. Under no circumstances will they show anxiety.

The British are very polite and speak very politely. The words' thank you' and' please' never leave their mouths. Speak politely to English people, whether they are waiters or drivers. Ask them to be polite when they do things, and don't make people feel condescending, or you may get the cold shoulder. The British respect women more. In Britain, the social atmosphere of "ladies first" is very strong. If you go, let the lady go first. Take the elevator to promote women. When taking buses and trams, let the ladies get on first. Pour wine for the hostess or hostess first. Walking in the street, men should go outside to avoid danger and protect women from harm. Husbands usually participate in various social activities with their wives, and they are always used to introducing their wives to distinguished guests first. According to British business etiquette, it is advisable to wear a three-piece suit and a traditional conservative tie at any time, but don't wear a striped tie, because the British will associate it with the old' legion' or old-school uniform tie. The British have a strong sense of time. When they meet or discuss business, they must make an appointment in advance. Punctuality is very important. It's best to arrive a few minutes early. The way they get along is punctuality and keeping their promises.

Famous British people still follow traditional habits and should avoid using the word "English" to mean "Englishman". If you meet two businessmen, one is Scottish or Welsh, and you say he is English, then he will correct you that he is Scottish or Welsh, and you should use the word English. When talking about business, we should be cautious. Shake hands when meeting for the first time or on special occasions, or when expressing approval and congratulations. In Britain, it is not popular to invite each other to breakfast to discuss business. Generally speaking, their lunch is relatively simple, and they pay more attention to dinner, which is regarded as dinner.

Therefore, major banquets are held at dinner. It's best to bring some low-value gifts when visiting an Englishman's home, because spending less will not be suspected of bribery. Gifts generally include: high-grade chocolate, famous wine, flowers, especially folk handicrafts with national characteristics in China, which they particularly appreciate. Not interested in souvenirs marked by the guest company. In Britain, clothes, soap and other items involve too much personal life, so people generally don't need to give them away. Chrysanthemums are only used for Halloween or funerals in any European country, and are generally not suitable for giving away. White lilies symbolize death in Britain and should not be given away. Other flowers can be given away. Potted plants are usually delivered after the banquet. If you are invited to someone else's house, you need to pay attention. If it is a social occasion, not a business, it is impolite to arrive early. The hostess should prepare it for you. If you go early, she will be embarrassed if she is not ready. It is better to arrive late 10 minutes. The habits of the British and our country are very different in accepting gifts. They often open gifts in front of guests, and the host will give warm praise and thanks regardless of the value or use of the gifts. Scotch whisky is a popular gift, but strong whisky is not.

British businessmen generally don't like being invited to banquets at home. Most parties are held in hotels and restaurants. In a sense, English banquets are mainly frugal. They hate wasteful people. For example, if you want to make tea for a treat, if there are three guests, you must only boil three servings of water. England is very particular about drinking tea. People from all walks of life like to drink tea, especially women are addicted to tea. The British also have the habit of having afternoon tea, that is, at 3-4 o'clock in the afternoon, they put down their work, drink a cup of black tea, sometimes have a snack and have a rest for a quarter of an hour. This is the so-called' tea break'. The host often invites you to have afternoon tea with him. In this case, you don't have to refuse him. Smoking is generally not allowed at formal banquets. It is considered impolite to smoke while eating.

In Britain, inviting the other person to lunch, dinner, drinking in a bar or watching a play or ballet is regarded as giving a gift. For the drinks provided by the host, it is advisable for the guests to drink no more than 3 cups. If they feel that they are full, they can quickly turn the empty cup over to the host to show that they are full and thank them. The business hours of pubs are usually 1 1 to 3 pm and 5: 30 pm to 3 pm 1 1. There are usually many people who are thirsty for wine in pubs. During the rush hour, later guests bought snacks and stood and drank without seats.

British businessmen responded positively to constructive suggestions. Dress well and talk about style. When attending a banquet or party, you are used to wearing a black dress. Your clothes and pants must be very hot. Visit Britain, pay attention to some of their folk information, and walk into German customs.

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It is very important for people who go to Germany to study, work or visit, to get close to German customs and know their living habits. If you don't know anything in advance, you will inevitably make a joke or bring inconvenience to yourself. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. This is the truth. But how can we get along? This needs to be understood in advance.

* Be disciplined and tidy *

Germans attach great importance to rules and discipline and take everything very seriously. Where there are express provisions, Germans will consciously abide by them; Germans will never touch anything that is forbidden. In the eyes of some people, many times, Germans are almost inflexible, inflexible and even a little unreasonable. But on second thought, this "inflexibility" is very beneficial. How can there be order without discipline? No rules, no decency?

Germans attach great importance to cleanliness. They not only pay attention to keeping their small environment clean and tidy, but also attach great importance to keeping the big environment clean and tidy. In Germany, everything is clean and tidy in parks, streets, theaters and other public places. Germans also attach great importance to clothing. Wear work clothes to work. Although you can dress casually when you come home from work, you will definitely dress neatly as long as there are guests visiting or going out for activities. When watching a drama or opera, women should wear long skirts, and men should wear formal clothes, at least dark clothes. This is especially true when attending social activities or formal banquets.

* Punctuality loves silence *

Germans are punctual, make appointments, and never change easily without special circumstances. When Germans are invited to other people's homes or go out to visit friends, they will arrive on time, and will not let the host waste time waiting or have to entertain guests in advance. Otherwise, it is impolite. If you can't keep the appointment on time for special reasons, you will apologize to your friends and ask for forgiveness.

Germans prefer quiet life, but they don't like noise except on special occasions. For example, although many people work in cities, they live in rural areas or small towns near cities, in order to be quiet. Even those who live in cities pay great attention to the noise around their houses. For example, you can't play musical instruments from 8 pm to 8 am the next day, and you can't talk loudly. If you want to get together at night, you should explain the situation to your neighbors in advance, ask them to understand, try to arrange it on weekends and try not to make noise. Otherwise, the disturbed neighbors will be very angry and may protest in person, and some people may even ask the police to intervene.

* Treat people sincerely and pay attention to etiquette *

Generally speaking, there is not much trouble in dealing with Germans. In most cases, they just. No matter what they can do, they will tell you at once that it can be done. Whatever they can't do, they will definitely tell you' no', rarely put on airs or give ambiguous answers. Of course, interpersonal relationships and efforts are by no means without influence.

Like many western countries, Germans pay more attention to etiquette. When two people meet, whether they know each other or not, whether they are on the road, or in offices, hotels, elevators and other places, they all say hello to each other and say' hello'. When eating in a restaurant, you should also nod to the customers who have already sat down. It's really' gentleness to gentleness, courtesy to many people'. Friends shake hands to greet each other, and so do they when they say goodbye. Good friends I haven't seen for a long time can hug each other when they meet or leave for a long time. On formal occasions, men still kiss women's hands, but they don't have to kiss the back of their hands. In the process of communication, most people often use' you' and surnames beginning with' Mr' or' Ms' (also called' Mrs') as honorifics. Only friends and relatives and young people call each other' you' and names. For women, no matter whether they are married or not, they can be called' ladies', but for married women, they should be called by their husband's surname.

Gifts are also highly valued in Germany. When invited to other people's homes, they usually bring gifts. Most people bring flowers, some male guests bring a bottle of wine, and some people bring a meaningful book (or a book written by themselves) or a picture album. Send more flowers when welcoming guests (such as stations and airports) and visiting patients. When congratulating others on their birthdays, festivals or weddings, you can send cards. If you give a gift, you should take practicality and significance as the principle, not the price. Gifts should be wrapped in gift paper in advance. Many people will open the gift immediately after receiving it and express their gratitude to the giver.

In Germany and other western countries, women are given priority in many occasions such as entering the door, getting into the elevator and getting on the bus. Men should help women open the car door, hang up their clothes and give up their seats. The lady only says' thank you' for this, and she won't feel embarrassed or feel that the other party is up to no good. Germans pay great attention to respect each other when talking with others. Don't ask other people's private affairs (such as female age, income, etc.). ) and don't make fun of the people present. When talking, don't talk to people sitting far away from the table, for fear of affecting others' emotions.

1. Social etiquette

Americans have the following four main characteristics in dealing with people:

First, easy-going, friendly and approachable.

Second, warm and cheerful, informal.

Third, he is not smart and likes humor.

Fourth, strong self-esteem and competitiveness.

dress etiquette

Generally speaking, Americans don't pay much attention to clothes. Advocating nature, plain and relaxed, paying attention to appearance and showing personality are the basic characteristics of American dress. When dealing with Americans, we should pay attention to the following exquisite clothes. So as not to leave a bad impression on each other.

First, Americans pay attention to neatness.

Second, when visiting Americans, you must take off your hat and coat when you enter the door, because they think it is polite.

Third, Americans attach great importance to dress details.

Fourth, American women had better not wear black leather skirts.

Fifth, in the United States, if a woman casually takes off her shoes in front of a man, or shakes the hem of a skirt, it often makes people feel that she is deliberately seducing the other person.

Sixth, it is considered impolite for Americans to wear pajamas and slippers to meet guests or go out in such clothes.

Seventh, Americans believe that wearing heavy makeup in public places or wearing makeup in public places will not only be considered uncultured, but also make people suspicious.

Eighth, people who wear sunglasses indoors are often regarded as "people who can't see the sun" by Americans.

3. Catering etiquette

There are six commandments for Americans to eat:

First, no noise is allowed when eating.

Second, you are not allowed to take other people's food.

Third, smoking is not allowed.

Fourth, it is not allowed to persuade wine.

Fifth, it is not allowed to undress in public.

Sixth, don't say anything disgusting.

4. Custom taboos

National flower: rose

National tree: hawthorn

National bird: vulture

National stone: sapphire

Favorite color: white.

Taboo: White lily should not be given as a gift.

In international communication, people often express gratitude and congratulations by giving gifts to enhance friendship. Due to the different customs in different countries, the types and ways of giving gifts are also different. Gifts: When giving gifts, consider the preferences of the recipient as much as possible. "Give whatever you like" is the most basic principle of giving gifts. If you don't know the other person's preferences, it's safer to choose handicrafts with ethnic characteristics, because it's the easiest for the other person to accept what others don't have. Gifts are not important, what matters is appropriateness. As the saying goes, "goose feathers are sent thousands of miles away, and gifts are light and affectionate." Sometimes giving an expensive gift will make the recipient uncomfortable.

Mode:

Generally speaking, face-to-face is the best way to give gifts. Westerners attach great importance to the packaging of gifts when giving them. People in most countries are used to packing with colored wrapping paper and ribbons, while western European countries like to use light-colored wrapping paper. Different from the custom of China people, in the west, we should express our gratitude immediately after accepting the gift, and open the gift ourselves, and appreciate it regardless of its value.

Time:

Give gifts in time. In some countries, only the other party can give gifts in return; In some countries (such as Japan), gifts should be given when there are not many people; In Arab countries, there must be other people present, so that gifts will not be suspected of bribery. In Britain, the right time to give a gift is to invite others to dinner or after watching a performance in the theater. In France, friends who meet for the first time can't give gifts, so we should wait for the right time when we meet next time.

Location:

You should distinguish between occasions when giving gifts. Visit a friend's house. Don't bring the food you ate at the party as a gift. There is no need to send gifts to cocktail parties and cocktail parties, and baskets or bouquets can be sent if necessary. Giving gifts should be different in different countries. For example, China people pay attention to sending cigarettes and wine, while Japanese people send wine without cigarettes. When giving gifts to Germans, it is forbidden to wrap the gifts in white, brown or black paper. When giving gifts to people in South America, never give a knife or handkerchief. Because the knife means the complete breakdown of the relationship between the two sides, handkerchiefs are always associated with tears and sadness.

Gift:

Books, paintings and handicrafts are usually given to intellectuals, while handicrafts and flowers are given to women, relatives and friends. In addition to the above gifts, you can also send clothes or other supplies, because such gifts need to be suitable for each other's hobbies, psychology and body shape. In Italy, people are used to opening gifts from others in person. Generally speaking, you should express your love and gratitude. If you say "this is exactly what I want", the other person will be very happy.

When lighting cigarettes for others, it is forbidden to light cigarettes for three people in a row with matches, because it is disrespectful to a third party. Never give a handkerchief as a gift in Italy, because in the eyes of Italians, a handkerchief is an ominous thing for relatives to leave and wipe tears. Changing a silk scarf will have an unexpected good effect.

In our country, the index finger is hooked to indicate "9". In Japan, it means thief, in Thailand and the Philippines, it means door key and lock, in Indonesia, it means bad heart and meanness, in Singapore, it means death, and it also means knockout in boxing.

In our country, thumb and forefinger mean "0", middle finger, ring finger and little finger mean "3". When these two gestures are combined, Japan, South Korea and Myanmar mean money, while the United States means agreement, greatness and success. Indonesian means nothing, nothing, and Tunisia means stupid and useless.

In our country, people are used to nodding their heads to show agreement and approval, and shaking their heads to show negation and opposition. But in Sri Lanka, India, Nepal and other countries, people shake their heads in agreement and nod their heads in disapproval. Different winds in a hundred miles, different customs in a thousand miles. Some folk customs vary greatly between countries in the world and between different regions of a country, and some are even completely opposite. Therefore, it is necessary to understand the above customs and habits when traveling abroad.

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Spanish folk information Spanish social etiquette

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Etiquette and manners

Local women have a "fan dialogue". For example, when a woman turns on the fan and covers the lower part of her face, it means: I love you. Do you like me? If you open it and close it for a while, it means: I miss you very much. Therefore, women who have just arrived in Spain, if they don't understand the language of fans, it is best not to use fans.

Meeting etiquette

Spaniards usually shake hands when meeting guests in formal social situations. Boyfriends often hug each other when they meet acquaintances. Spanish names usually have three or four parts. The first two sections are my name, the penultimate section is my father's surname, and the last section is my mother's surname. Usually it is the father's surname.

business etiquette

Spaniards attach great importance to credibility and always try their best to fulfill signed contracts. Even if the contract is found to have disadvantages, it is unwilling to admit its mistakes publicly. In this case, if the other party can help them sincerely, it will win the respect and friendship of the Spanish. Spaniards are punctual only when they take part in bullfighting, but guests should also be punctual, even if the other party is late, don't blame them.

Travel etiquette

Spaniards are cheerful and enthusiastic, but easily excited. Sometimes it is normal to quarrel, and they are used to it. When a Spaniard eats, he usually politely invites people around him to share with him, but this is just a gesture of etiquette. Don't accept it easily, or they will think you are uneducated.