What does the rural saying "men don't marry five, women don't marry six" mean? What does "five plus six" mean?

Marriage is obviously a very important thing in a person's life, and the choice of partner also affects most of his life in the future. The wisdom of the ancients is summarized as follows: men don't marry five kinds of women, and women don't marry six kinds of men. So what is five and what is six?

First of all, men don't marry five, that is to say, men don't marry women who are not filial to their elders, who are not thrifty, unreasonable, especially crying and very provocative. I believe that if they marry any of these five kinds, their married life will be very difficult. First of all, being unfilial is naturally bad for the man's parents. At the same time, the children he teaches don't know how to be filial and grateful, so the children will not be filial to the couple when they are old. People who don't know how to be thrifty can buy whatever they want, so the money at home will run out sooner or later. If you don't pay attention to reason, you will usually make your life full of quarrels. A woman who loves to cry will not try to solve the problem with you when you encounter it. And a fiery woman will make everyone around you see your jokes.

If a woman doesn't marry six, it means she can't marry a man with bad hobbies, such as gambling. Second, you can't marry anyone. A lazy person can't count on him not only for his family's financial resources, but also for his housework. Third, you can't marry a man without ambition, so your life will only go backwards, not forward. Then you can't marry a narrow-minded man, and you will be suspected by him every day. Then you can't marry a self-righteous man. He usually doesn't care about your feelings and is often pretentious.

Therefore ... whether men or women, when choosing the other half to get married, they should pay attention to each other's personality.