How does the best man help the groom open the bride's door when picking up the bride?

In many places in China, there is a wedding custom: when the groom goes to the bride's house to receive relatives, he needs to send red envelopes to please the bride's house before the bride's sisters open the door. The bride's family will deliberately make things difficult for the groom, and the groom will try his best to open the door of the bride's family before marrying the bride home. On the one hand, let the groom feel that this marriage is hard-won, and cherish his wife better; On the other hand, it is also to increase the festive atmosphere of marriage. The necessary procedure for the end of the wedding day is what we call "calling the door".

First, the red envelope calls the door

When the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride usually hides in the bedroom and closes the door. The best man will accompany the groom and his friends. Qi Xin joined forces to open the bride's door and began to tell her. This process is basically a question and answer, lively!

The groom started knocking at the door, and the maid of honor inside began to ask, "Who? Who is knocking at the door? "

"me!"

"Who are you? Give me your name. "

"I am ~ ~ ~"

What are you doing here?

"I'm here to marry my wife."

"Who is your daughter-in-law?"

"~ ~ ~ is my wife"

"Then what did you say to her? Tell her something nice. "

"I love you, and I will take care of you all my life ~ ~ ~"

"What do you mean?"

At this time, it is usually necessary to take out a red envelope. This is a small red envelope, usually tens of yuan. The sisters in the room are generally dissatisfied. After some conversation, they will draw out red envelopes for the second time, a little more than the first time. The sisters in the room will still be dissatisfied.

"Do you love your wife?"

"love!"

"Say it out loud"

"Wife, I love you!"

"You can't just talk without practice. If you are sincere, you can give us a big red envelope. "

"How old? How much is it? "

"Ten thousand, fifty thousand"

Of course, I won't give that much. A red envelope of 100 yuan will do. Maybe the sisters will ask the groom to shout a few words of I love you or something.

Second, cigarettes call the door.

In some places, when the door is called, the groom does not give a red envelope, but prepares some cigarettes in advance according to his own economic situation. After handing in cigarettes several times, the bride's door opened.

Third, "performance" is the door.

In some places, bridesmaids or sisters will ask the groom to perform a program when they call the door, usually singing, dancing and telling jokes, but in order to win the public's smile, they will not delve into the groom's performance level and will not make the groom too embarrassed.

Of course, no matter which way you call the door, red envelopes are mostly indispensable. Calling the door is mainly for fun, not how many red envelopes the groom gives. Of course, some sisters left without knowing the depth to annoy the groom. Therefore, people attending the wedding should also grasp a certain scale, and don't make the couple unhappy or leave a bad impression because they are happy for a while.