Interpretation of the joke "The meaning of drunkenness is not in wine"

The husband said that "the person who is not drunk is drunk" to cover up his narrow-mindedness, just like someone said someone's fault on the wine table and someone didn't answer, usually using drinking to cover up his embarrassment; Male guest C's "Don't get drunk" is to tell women that your husband is jealous and angry and won't even drink alcohol; When a woman says "Weng is drunk and doesn't care", it means that you pretend to be drunk and say something you shouldn't say; Male guest A knew that he had slipped his tongue and said that "the unexpected man was drunk in the wine" was an excuse, saying that I really didn't mean anything else, all because I had a few more drinks.