Ma Bao refused to take a 1 year-old boy into the women's bathhouse. She made a video, which angered the merchants. Netizens took a face-to-face attitude towards Ma Bao. Why?

It is cold in winter, so many people choose to take a bath in the bathhouse, because it is warm and not afraid of catching cold, which is a kind of enjoyment.

It is convenient for adults to take a bath, but it is more troublesome to take children.

Because parents should not only bathe themselves, but also take care of their children, and it is controversial that "children should go to men's bathhouses or women's bathhouses".

No, some time ago, a treasure mother uploaded a video on the Internet, which was intended to complain for herself and angered the merchants for being "unreasonable". Unexpectedly, after the video was sent out, she hit her face instead.

The treasure mother from Hebei took her one-year-old son to the bath center to take a bath, and wanted to take the child into the women's bathhouse, but the staff of the bath center stood in front of the treasure mother and refused to let him in.

The reason given is naturally that boys can't enter the bathhouse. When Ma Bao saw what the staff said, he was angry in an instant, so he angrily took out his mobile phone and prepared to "expose" the business.

I saw Ma Bao raise his hand and constantly criticize the staff in the video. She was also exposed in the video and said angrily: "Don't take a one-year-old child to take a bath, don't come, what are you doing?"

After Ma Bao sent out the video, it caused great controversy among netizens. Ma Bao believes that after the incident is exposed, netizens will definitely support her accusation.

But what she didn't expect was that the attitude of netizens embarrassed her, because there were so few people who supported her.

This part of a few people think that children are so young that it is no problem to enter the women's bathhouse:

"One-year-old boy is wrong. I am optimistic that many mothers will take such a big boy to take a bath. I don't think it is too much. "

However, most netizens support the behavior of the merchants, saying that the merchants do not allow boys to enter the women's bathhouse, which is very correct.

"Men and women are different. If mom doesn't mind, others may feel uncomfortable and understand. After all, it is a public place! "

"Who is not exposed online, who is right? I think it makes sense for businesses to do so. Not afraid of no business. "

In addition, there are also many rational netizens who say that bringing a child of 1 year old into the bathhouse is actually irresponsible to the child, and the parents' practice itself is incorrect.

"Children's health problems can not be ignored, or try to get in and out of such places as little as possible. The merchant is probably thinking about your child? "

Because the child is young and weak, the bathing center belongs to the public area after all, so it is not completely hygienic for the child, and some bacteria may endanger the health.

Therefore, when the baby 1 year-old, parents are not advised to take their children to the bathhouse. You can take warm measures at home and bathe your baby with hot water.

For many years, there has been great controversy about whether children should go to the bathhouse of heterosexual parents. As young parents become parents, the voice against children going to bathhouses for parents of the opposite sex is getting louder and louder.

However, there are still some parents who don't care. They think that "children are too young to understand." People with serious words may even say, "Don't think about children with dirty thoughts".

In fact, children are much earlier than you think.

David Schaefer, an American psychologist, pointed out in his book that children who are almost one year old can already distinguish photos of men and women, and by the time they are two and a half years old, they actually have a basic sense of gender.

At this time, parents will also tell their children the difference between boys and girls, so that children can already understand their gender. Therefore, children should be sensible earlier than their parents think.

It may be a misunderstanding for parents to think that their children don't know anything.

What are the disadvantages of gender-aware children entering the bathhouse for heterosexual parents?

Bringing children to the opposite sex bathhouse is very unfavorable to the development of children's gender consciousness. Children don't care about these things when they are young, and they may act to offend others when they grow up.

Children may also be hurt by others because they lack gender awareness and do not know how to protect themselves.

In addition, a little more mature children will feel ashamed and embarrassed when they enter the opposite sex bathhouse.

Therefore, parents, children's gender education must be indispensable and need to start from an early age.

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Taking boys into the women's bathhouse, even at a young age, may make others feel uncomfortable, so in public, parents still need to take care of everyone's feelings and avoid embarrassment and conflict.

On the other hand, what do you think of this matter? Have you ever seen a boy in a women's bathhouse? How are you feeling?