People of the older generation say that pain is not helpful. Will your old people be partial to their unwilling children?

Some people misunderstood this sentence. Zhu Dexiao comes first. This sentence should be understood from the perspective of filial piety. "Local pain can't help", and "help" here means help, care and support. To be clear, among several children in a family, the child that parents prefer most is the one who doesn't take care of his parents when he grows up. The old people here also have a saying that "a good son loses his home and a bad son adopts his father". In the eyes of parents, all the children are partial to him and give him all the property, and all the results are gone.

It is true that the elderly will be partial to the poor children in most cases, which is human nature. Because of their own reasons, poor children often live a poor life.

Children are meat given by their parents. They want their children to live a happy and decent life. Once the child's life is not smooth, do everything possible to help.

My husband and father took special care of my second son when they were alive. The kindness to his family is beyond words. It is said that my second brother was weak when I was young, so I used to take care of him more.

My parents don't feel too partial to anyone. However, I miss my eldest brother because his life is too hard. My mother made it very clear that you were all born to me, and I want you all to live well.

Local pain doesn't help. Pity inherits the wind. I think if I have several children and some are unhappy, I will worry more and take care of them.

First of all, my neighbor, party member, a confidential secretary, and her husband were arrested on their way to Taiwan Province Province, and were assigned to work in the hospital after reeducation through labor. She never remarried. In her fifties, she adopted a child from her younger brother's house, which was left unattended to prevent her from getting old. She is also rich, the children are very good, and the two families get along very well. The other children in her brother's family love to ignore the answer, and there is no way to borrow money.

As soon as the child got married after graduating from college, she became old and scum, and the child left her. She has been kept in a warehouse with doors and windows all the year round, and the word "kindness" is out of the question. If you don't fight or scold, you can't tell if you are sick. I often shit all over my body, and the bedsore on my back and ass is rotten enough to see the bones.

Those nephews who were unpopular in those days sometimes came to see her and stood downstairs to chat when they went out. My aunt didn't look down on them, nor did she help them when she was in trouble. The stepson was also decided by election. Finally, they gloated, gritted their teeth and said "should" over and over again.

People of the older generation say that pain is not helpful. Will your old people be partial to their unwilling children? My old people are not biased at all, because they are heartless, but their favorite children are right to do something wrong. A child she doesn't like can't say yes every time she does anything. Take the old man with a high fever for example! He has a high fever of 39 degrees, and he has been shaking. The child he didn't like was taken to the hospital, rescued in the emergency room and sent back to the ward. The child she doesn't like has been in the hospital, and the child she likes is very busy and has no time to go. She stayed for a week and sent the old man home. Guess what the old man said? It's hot, so it's better to send it home quickly and stay in the hospital. If the old man doesn't like you, you don't contribute, and the children she likes don't contribute, don't pay, and don't take care of her happiness, then the old man like this, on the stall, really can't take them.

Nothing is absolute! I am the child with local pain. The above four brothers and two sisters were not always spoiled by their families when they were young, but also spoiled in their families and neighborhoods.

I was spoiled by some lawless people when I was a child. At home, I just ask my parents to satisfy them as much as possible. My father, who travels frequently, often tells my mother that spoiling a child is like killing a child, which means asking her to be stricter with me.

But when my mother was seriously ill, I stayed by every day, washing, massaging and so on! So there is nothing absolute to say!

It makes sense. Every family has its own situation. Some families have many children, leaving one with them and the other children taking them to their grandparents. Of course, they have their own feelings, but they are eccentric, and they still have a bad life in the end ... some things are unclear. Everyone has his own life.

Children who are too spoiled by the elderly consume too many blessings, do not cultivate too many blessings, and do more good deeds, and their fate will not be too smooth. For children whose parents love too little, the blessings are not consumed much. If they work hard to cultivate their own blessings, they will certainly get better!

I'm sure it will, because it really exists around me.

At my house, it's me, brother-in-law. Since 18 married her mother-in-law, I've watched her husband's family take sides with this son.

Brother-in-law is a lazy man. He still thinks about the pie falling from the sky every day. He has no culture and technology but no down-to-earth work. He doesn't want to do hard work. At the age of 40, he is now looking after the compound.

From building a house for him to getting engaged and getting married, my husband has been helping me get money. I am also very dissatisfied with this, but my mother-in-law will say that there is no way, he has no ability, so he has to help him, or he will be single.

It's funny, because my husband is ingenious. As long as he goes home, his mother-in-law will ask him to do a lot of housework. She never lets her brother-in-law do it, saying that he won't.

After the brother-in-law got married, their relationship was very bad. Because of his incompetence, his sister-in-law often quarrels with him, but his parents-in-law will still defend their son, saying "he is like that" and often make his sister-in-law angry to death. The poor woman finally fell ill and died. During her illness, the whole family gave money to help her brother-in-law.

His daughter-in-law left, leaving him and a son of 12 years old. I think he should calm down and try to make money now. As a result, he threw a fatal event: it turned out that he gambled online two years ago and lost tens of thousands. He was afraid that his family would know. He had several credit cards and paid them back every day, but he didn't earn much money from his work and his salary couldn't be paid on time. He panicked and told his mother-in-law Although my mother-in-law scolded him, she gave him tens of thousands of dollars she had worked hard to save, and most of the rest was returned to him by my husband. I tremble with anger when I think about it.

He works in other places all the year round, and his children and in-laws support him. He seldom gives living expenses and doesn't care about the children's food, clothing, housing and transportation. I don't like it. Just say a few words about him, and my mother-in-law will say, he won't! But think about it, his own life is a mess, and he really has no ability to take care of others, even his own children.

This year, my mother-in-law found out that she was seriously ill, and he couldn't get any money. We bear all the expenses. When she was in hospital, her mother-in-law appointed her brother-in-law to wait on her, and her husband gave her money for dinner. Mother-in-law also told others that her son can bear hardships and can't sleep well at night. She just didn't mention that if she wasn't her age, she would lose her life.

This life continues, and the in-laws continue to favor this unfortunate son. In fact, I don't have to argue or compete for favor. I'm just angry with my brother-in-law and sad for his misfortune.

That's right. No way! The less valuable the old man is, the more worried he is! The more I worry about him, the less grateful I am! [boring]

Local pain doesn't help. Old people are universal and tend to take care of children with poor ability and poor physique. Moreover, under the condition of being well cared for and taken care of by all sides, these children become dependent, do not strive for progress, and become mediocre people with no future.