How do foreigners educate their children

America: Putting respect for children first American parents believe that children need more respect than nutrition and knowledge. Because they are an independent individual from the day they were born. When talking to children, American parents never stand on it, but communicate with their children equally. When children refuse to eat, American parents never force them, but gently say, "Look, radish cakes are waiting for you. If you don't eat it, it will be unhappy. " When a child does something wrong, parents rarely blame the child, but say, "I don't think you did it on purpose. It won't happen next time." If the child wants to change clothes, they also say in a consultative tone that the child has the right to choose. When taking children out to play, American parents will not answer "He won't eat" and "He won't" for their children in advance, as most parents in China do, but the children will make the decision. Of course, this does not mean that all children's needs have been met. Parents usually explain and explain what the host does not provide and what the child wants. For example, when a child wants the precious plaything of the host family, parents will tell the child that everyone has something he likes, and we can't ignore the feelings of others because of our own needs, so that the child can understand the truth of interacting with others. Many parents in China like to teach their children before others, and often accuse and reprimand their children for being disappointing, stupid and worthless. In the United States, parents think it is a crime, because accusing children in public greatly hurts their self-esteem. Britain: Give children a chance to fail. When children grow up, it is inevitable that they will fail. If the child is young, China's parents will laugh it off, try to help him get rid of the problem, or simply let the child give up. British parents don't think so. Mike's son Charlie is 10 years old this year. The little boy can not only take care of his daily life, repair the water pipes and appliances at home, but also repair the car. In China, this knowledge may not be understood by young men in their twenties. The first time Charlie did something was when he was 2 years old. He watched Mike do the dishes curiously. So Mike carried Charlie to the pool. Charlie jumped into the pool at once and began to work. This is washing dishes, and it is also equivalent to taking a bath. The clothes and trousers are all wet, and the bowl is not cleaned, but one of them is broken. Mike didn't stop him He stood by and watched Charlie's every move. At first, Charlie was still laughing. Slowly, he felt that it was not funny at all. He was covered with oil and cold water stuck to him ... He asked Mike for help, and Mike stuck his head out of the window ... Finally, he couldn't help crying. Only then did Mike take him out, put on clean clothes and put them by the sink. Then, under Charlie's gaze, he washed the dishes one by one. Then, put Charlie's toy bowl and chopsticks in the pool. Mike's idea is simple: "Give children a chance to fail, face failures again and again, correct their mistakes until they succeed. This is not only to teach children to learn and master their own abilities, but also to teach them an attitude towards life. Australia: Teaching children the ability to survive. Children from wealthy families in Australia are usually sent by their parents to learn sailing at an early age. The coach often stops the boat in shallow water, and the bottom of the boat will inevitably be covered with sand. The job of a cat's head is to clean it with a rag and water. 1 1 years old, he squatted on a boat and worked in the sun for six hours every day for a whole summer vacation, and his mother would not stop him because of his distress. Because in her mind, the cat head has the right and the ability to arrange his own time. Yusheng always dozes off in class and asks him why. He proudly said, "I deliver newspapers in the community from 5: 00 to 7: 00 every Thursday morning, and I can earn 14 yuan once! "Other boys in the class are envious. Australian children are particularly patient. They have been taught since childhood that if they feel unwell, they can tell their parents to see a doctor, but they can't complain and moan endlessly. Complaining is futile. In winter, girls wear skirts and uniforms, while boys wear shorts and suits. Even on Sundays, parents don't dress their children in thick clothes. They are still running around the park lawn in shorts. Australian parents want their children to be bold, capable and creative when they grow up, and at the same time, they should have a strong body that is not afraid of cold, hunger and fatigue. Israel: Let children keep asking questions and say that Jews are successful in business. Is there any way to educate children? I unconsciously observed Leah and Lamill. Leah is Israeli. Because her husband works in America, she also lives in America with her son Lamill. Facts have proved that almost every Jew is asked questions by his elders at a very young age. When Leah was a child, her father asked her to ask ten questions every day. If no one answers her, find out for yourself. I suddenly discovered the secret I had been looking for. Jews advocate innovation, think that learning should be based on thinking, dare to doubt, and are not ashamed to ask questions. Naturally, they accumulated more and more knowledge. After reading the above article, I felt a lot of emotion in my heart. Each case was written for China's parents. Americans pay attention to children's self-esteem, but we believe that children should be disciplined by their parents when they are young. Self-esteem is a matter for adults, so it is as easy and normal for us to reprimand our children as eating, but we don't know how many children's beautiful hearts and wishes have been damaged. The British allow children to fail, but when we see them fail, we will fly into a rage, call them stupid, worthless and worthless, and degrade them to nothing, which makes them very depressed. And when we see depressed children, they will be complacent and think that their education has been successful, and the children will admit their mistakes and obey. But this is precisely the biggest failure, and the consequences are unimaginable. The Australian way of education is even more unacceptable to us. If you don't take the college entrance examination, you will lose the opportunity to compete with others on an equal footing. Everything can be delayed, but learning can't be delayed. The baton of the college entrance examination makes parents tired and children tired. Many children admitted to college lack the ability to survive, can't find a job, and become a burden to their families. Some of them don't adapt to society, are autistic, depressed and even commit suicide. Is there more than one thing that the son of heaven in the ivory tower jumped to his death? Can't it arouse our reflection? Israel pays attention to the development of children's thinking, so that children can learn to ask questions, that is, learn to explore, think and solve problems. We always let children memorize, calculate and train repeatedly, but forget the most important point: let children learn to think. This is the key to children's growth and national development. A nation that is good at thinking must be a powerful nation.