What if the leader suddenly asks you to invite you to dinner?

The leader gives you a chance to show yourself.

It is common practice to treat guests in the workplace. In our country, inviting guests to dinner is a way of interpersonal communication. It is normal for leaders to invite employees to dinner. But when he asked you to treat him by name, he actually gave you a chance.

In normal times, leaders treat guests, and everyone is scrambling to pay the bill. I really don't want to spend money, and I don't need your treat. The leader looked at Xiao Nan's good performance and asked him to treat him, probably because he wanted to promote him.

Inviting you to dinner is actually another form of congratulations. It's a treat. Leaders can praise you at the dinner table, and colleagues will thank you when they know that you treat. There is an old saying in China, "Eating people has a soft mouth and short hands." Rejecting a leader is tantamount to rejecting an opportunity.

(2) The jokes of leaders.

To say the least, this is a joke of the leaders. It's no big deal. This is also the time for leaders to see your attitude. It's your treat today, and others will treat you another day. It's just a meal. Just choose the right place to eat according to your own economic strength.

Really can't. It is ok for a group of people to eat food stalls. Don't worry about spending a lot of money, in fact, it's more about heart. If you refuse the leader on the spot, the leader will lose face. The leader didn't fire you, probably because of your good behavior.

02. The leader invites you to dinner. How should employees with high emotional intelligence deal with it?

(1) Go, where to eat?

The leader wants you to treat, if you are slow. Leaders generally don't like such employees. For leaders, it may be a joke. The best way is to promise directly first, and then ask the leader where to eat.

Decide on a treat, where to eat, and give it to the leader. Seeing that the employees are so generous, maybe after dinner, the leaders will take the initiative to pay. As a leader, you will basically not miss your meal.

Great, I've been wanting to invite you to dinner for a long time.

Turning passivity into initiative, it turned out that the leader invited you to dinner. When you say this sentence, you can show that you want to invite the leader to dinner very early. Anyway, we are going to invite you to dinner, so we must make this sentence beautiful.

Thank the leader for giving you the opportunity to treat. By inviting guests, you can meet more people at the dinner table, which is also good for your future work.

I invite everyone to have dinner together.

Many people are worried about this sentence because they don't know if the leader is serious or joking. If you invite the leader to dinner alone, it may make colleagues gossip. At this time, please lead and say that you want to invite everyone to dinner. At the same time, in order to avoid misunderstanding, I thought that the leader invited everyone to dinner.