How to solve the cold war with your wife

In marriage, women are more likely to have emotions than men, and quarrels between husband and wife are common. When two people have conflicts, it is easy for women to hide the problems in their hearts and will not take the initiative to communicate and solve them. If the cold war lasts for a long time, women will lose interest in you, feel like armor, and feel neglected, which will make women more and more indifferent. So how to solve the cold war with your wife? Let's take a look!

First, give your wife some space.

There are many reasons for the cold war, no matter what it is, we should pay attention to it. Since we have quarreled, as a man, we should give our wife some space. Because she may not want to communicate her thoughts and dissatisfaction with you at this time, she just wants you to give her more space. You can give her some space, but you should also grasp the degree and don't ask too much. Although you are not responsible for some things, we still need to give her some space, give her some space, and don't stick to you all day, so you will feel very tired. Of course, sometimes it is not unreasonable, that is, she has to do her own thing and do what she wants. In this process, she must learn to respect her wife and herself!

Second, take the initiative and don't hide anything.

Since you chose to have a cold war with your wife, you should avoid taking responsibility yourself, communicate with her actively to solve the problem, and don't hide it. It's easy to disappoint your wife. Be proactive in work and life. If you don't want your wife to be cold and violent, take the initiative to talk to her and tell her your thoughts and suggestions, and then she will gradually forget you and become dependent on you! Don't be afraid that the other person will dislike you. After all, people will not treat your marriage with the attitude that you are deliberately finding fault!

Third, take the initiative to contact and express your dissatisfaction.

Communication between people has only one purpose, that is to enhance each other's feelings. So at this time, you should take the initiative to contact your wife, express your grievances, and pour out your dissatisfaction and complaints to your wife. The purpose of doing this is actually to tell your wife how much you care about her and how much you love you! Let your wife know that you are thinking of her and you will love her more in the future! You can take the initiative to send a message or call when your wife is in a good mood; When the wife is in a bad mood, she can also take the initiative to call or send a text message to ask about the situation; When your wife is in a better mood, you can also send a message to greet her! Although this can't change your wife's attitude towards you, it can make your wife feel your deep love for her and make her feel valued and cared for!

Fourth, be tolerant and take the initiative to admit mistakes.

Whether your wife is angry or not, you should try to tolerate her. You shouldn't stop her or blame her when she is angry. Think from the other person's point of view, and then express your thoughts with actions. You have to tell her that you won't be angry anymore. She knows you care about her. Then slowly understand what she is thinking now and why she wants to be with you. Slowly, she will understand why you are angry and will accept you better.

Fifth, properly guide and give your wife space.

It is normal for women to be emotional after marriage. If the cold war between you lasts for a long time, your wife will suddenly be disappointed in you, and her mood will be even more excited. If you guide her to vent her emotions easily at this time, she will become more and more depressed. Therefore, after you quarrel, the husband should give his wife some space, don't let her feel left out, and let her know that you care about her. If she still ignores you, you should give her some time to ease the relationship between the two sides, which is a way to promote the relationship between husband and wife. A woman's temper is easy to be grumpy, which requires her husband to guide her to adjust her emotions and make her feel that her emotions have been alleviated and released, instead of deliberately finding fault with herself, leading to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.