The annual salary of small cities in the fifth tier is 1.8 million, and the mortgage is 20,000 per year. It will take 25 years. Girlfriend said how to recover from the pressure of breaking up?

There are generally two situations when a girlfriend breaks up with herself. The first is that the girlfriend has really given up and will break up if she wants to let go. Another situation is that your girlfriend just wants to break up and see if you love her enough. If you have a girlfriend, you may not have a chance to stay. But if you calm down and coax your girlfriend patiently, maybe she will come back to you. It's actually quite strange for a girlfriend to grow a creature. First, you should give your girlfriend a chance not to say goodbye to you. Girls say simple is simple, and complicated is complicated. There are many jokes about girls on the internet, saying that what my girlfriend says she doesn't like is actually what she likes, and what she doesn't want is actually what she wants. As long as you master the way to make your girlfriend happy, your girlfriend won't break up with you. What a girlfriend wants most is that after being together, you can be kind to her, spoil her as a little princess and stay with her when she is sad. If you are looking for a girlfriend just because you need a girlfriend, not because you really like this girl and want her to be your girlfriend, then you need to think deeply about whether this will hurt this girl. If your girlfriend breaks up with you because of this, then you don't have to keep this girl, you will only hurt her again. A girl doesn't want much, even if you have nothing, but as long as you have a good impression on her, she can actually give you all her best things. Don't let a girl give up on you, especially your girlfriend. When she really gives up, maybe nothing will work. The best thing is to cherish her when you have her and don't let her really let you down. In fact, many things are useful at the last minute, but you have to do it when you say it. If you can't get her back, you will still leave as before.

It takes courage to fall in love and it takes courage to break up. The person who can be with you must be the right person. Breaking up only proves that he is not the right person. At least, in retrospect, he failed your unforgettable youth. The best thing is that there is still some youth between you, and your true feelings are not wasted. So how can I make up for my girlfriend's breakup? Distinguishing between true and false breakups is an emotional group. In love, each other needs to prove that they love each other more than each other, that is, women care more about who loves her more, so we should distinguish between real breakup and fake breakup. Is it because you are left out, you can't find the feeling of being loved by people around you, or because you want to test your position in your heart, or because you run away in anger with your little contradiction? If you don't pull each other back in time at the moment of turning around, then your love will easily go astray. If you don't want to let go of your dignity, your love will fade. Is it worth saving your girlfriend from breaking up? I really broke up. I have seen many friends turn around and grab each other, hoping that the other side will come back to me, but they are gradually blacked out by the other side. I asked them three questions. Do you know why they separated? Are you saving each other because you still love each other or because you can't let go of your dumped self-esteem? Why is it hacked by the other party? Everyone is confused and talking to themselves. Do I still love each other? At first, we were all willing to show our beautiful side to each other, but as time went on, your shortcomings gradually exposed, and you gradually became impatient with each other, unwilling to change yourself for each other, that is, you didn't love each other, and there was no need to save each other. Details triumph over love. Happy love is surprisingly similar, but unfortunate love is very strange, because in love, trivial things that overcome love in life gradually accumulate, and when the other party can't bear it, it becomes a breakup. For example, you reply to text messages longer and longer, talk time is shorter and shorter, you lose your temper more and more, and you hug less and less. These girls can be found in life and will gradually feel it. It is the details that slowly make her lose confidence in you and see no future. Refuse to be touched and save love with action. In love, many people are bent on taking out their hearts and being kind to each other without asking for anything in return, hoping that God can touch her and let her return to her side. The result is that they are moved by themselves, but they can never move each other. Even if the other person doesn't love you, even if you show sincerity to the other person, how can you beg that it is love? Compared with moving, it is not love. Maybe you don't know what the reward of today's action will be, maybe you don't know whether today's lover will respond, but you should remember why you insist on going to today, and we should believe that what you do today is a gift for the future. In life, we will meet many people, some will hurt you to varying degrees, and some will love you to varying degrees. What we need to do is to find the person you love, who may hurt you, but you know that you can stand her hurt and would rather quarrel with her every day than love others. But if you miss love, you give it to someone else. Only when others miss love can you meet love. But what belongs to you will always belong to you. Please believe that you won't miss it. Text/Deer Emotional Ensemble 520

If the communication (phone, WeChat, QQ) is a fake breakup, the other party will not blacklist your phone, WeChat, QQ (even if it is deleted in a rage, it can be added back quickly). Don't be fooled by her attitude. As long as she is willing to talk to you, there is a great hope of recovery. But if you do break up, she will ignore you and you can hardly contact her. Therefore, whether the communication is normal or not is an important indicator to judge the fake breakup and the real breakup. 2. Emotional indicators (anger, blame, cursing) Sometimes the phone is not answered, and WeChat and QQ are deleted, which does not necessarily mean that they really broke up. If we break up, women are not sure about the weather. When they get angry, they delete each other's QQ or WeChat, but keep their mobile phones. When you call her, she shows anger and blames you, which shows that this is just a fake breakup, but it also shows that the contradiction in your relationship is more serious at this time. A woman will argue with you, indicating that even if she is angry, she still wants you to change. The real sexual breakup is that she is too lazy to get angry and will be cold. No matter what you do, she hates it, so you should think about the recovery strategy in a different way. Therefore, the emotional fluctuation of the other party is also one of the very important indicators in recovery. 3. Social circle (relatives, friends and colleagues) If she broke up with you without telling her relatives, friends, colleagues and classmates, it means that she is still giving you a chance for the time being. But if everyone in the social circle knows, it may be a real breakup. In reality, after many brothers heard the news of breaking up, they kept looking for the target's girlfriends to intercede, which only made the target more boring. Miss a good opportunity. The woman didn't tell others that you broke up. In fact, she was struggling because she still had a good impression on you. Besides, she's watching you. If we get back together in the future, she doesn't want to be laughed at by her friends. Of course, if a woman tells a friend that you broke up, it already shows that she is determined to break up with you. Then, at this time, we can't struggle, but try to make up for your contradiction. 4. Network status (confide, blog, circle of friends) When a fake breakup occurs, women are likely to post some status in their Weibo and WeChat circle of friends, say something or nothing, and pretend to be literary, such as being in love and single. . . There is also a foolish behavior. Some women will send messages about dating other men to stimulate you, hoping you will be jealous, or it may be a fake breakup. If it is a real breakup, she may not send anything from Weibo and WeChat, so she is silent. Therefore, observing each other's social network dynamics is also a reference indicator. 5. Invitation situation (dinner, party, play) Even if she blackmailed you, you contacted her through other channels to invite her, but she still promised to meet you. This situation may still be a fake breakup. But if she starts telling her friends these things,

A woman often breaks up with you because she is impulsive or wants to get your attention by breaking up, so if she breaks up with you,

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First of all, you have to judge whether the breakup is true or not. If it's a fake breakup, go to coax and buy some small gifts or something.

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