How to chase girls to hit the target?

The legendary five-step method of chasing women.

I believe many boys are worried about chasing girls, even if they are already very active, but the other party will be indifferent. In fact, chasing girls is not a difficult thing, but you need to learn the right method.

First of all, if you want to chase a girl, you must first get to know her through some ways.

If you don't have a specific goal, it is a good way to strike up a conversation on the street or on dating websites. If you strike up a conversation, you need purposeful study and practice. Dating sites are relatively simple.

If you have a specific goal, all you have to do is ask her for contact information. You can get to know her by participating in an offline activity that she also participates in, so that you can naturally get the contact information without being too abrupt and purposeful.

In short, the first step is to get to know her first and get the contact information so that the follow-up can be carried out.

In fact, the core issue of boys chasing girls is attractiveness. Many people will think that boys' pursuit of girls is to be kind to girls, buy gifts, send breakfast and be caring and attentive. In fact, these are not very useful. It is very likely that a good card will be dealt and then it will be gone.

Only when a boy is attractive enough will girls be interested in him and have the possibility of communication.

Therefore, when you have the contact information of girls, you should show your high-quality living condition, good mental outlook and positive attitude towards life through your circle of friends. Girls will only consider you if you are attractive enough.

And if your circle of friends is very poor, like a diaosi, and you eat a box lunch every day, I believe no girl will really want to fall in love with you. So if you want to chase girls, build your circle of friends first.

After building attraction through the circle of friends, you should chat with this girl. Chatting is a very important skill If you talk well, girls will smile at you. If the chat is not good, say goodbye.

Many girls will say that he is straight and has low emotional intelligence. To a large extent, it is said that boys have poor chat skills. And a boy who can chat often makes girls feel happy to chat with him and want to chat with him all the time.

With the deepening of the chat, we will get to know each other better and girls will become more and more involved. And if you invest too much, you will naturally feel it. At the same time, boys know how to provide emotional value to girls through chatting, and girls will also be very greedy for this emotional fluctuation, and find it interesting and happy to be with this boy.

When people are dating, many boys will choose to go to the movies, eat and go shopping. But this kind of dating can't make each other's feelings warm up quickly.

When we design a date, we should pay attention to interaction. When you choose a dating location, you should consider what kind of dating scene can make girls feel happy and interesting. For example, going karting together is an interactive and interesting dating activity. Watching movies is not a good dating activity, because watching movies will reduce a lot of interaction, which is not conducive to communication between the two sides.

In a word, a good dating design can make each other quickly enhance their feelings, actively interact and promote your relationship quickly. Learn more dating knowledge and methods to make both parties happier in dating.

Confession is also very skillful. Some people think that confession must be said with the mouth. However, my personal point of view is that in fact, confession is needless to say, and sometimes physical confession is just as good.

If two people can interact well in dating, and if the boy knows some physical contact skills, so that the girl can adapt to your physical contact in advance, then it is natural for you and her to end up together.

All you have to do is hold her hand gently and say, "It's good to be with you. I hope I can always be together. "

Girls all know what you mean when you say that. As long as she doesn't strongly refuse, then you have succeeded. And if she is a little evasive, you can also let go of her hand first and hold her again after ten minutes.

Well, if you can master the five-step method of pursuing girls, it can't be said that it is a hundred shots, at least it is close to ten.

You should remember that girls are never pursued, but attracted. Know how to make girls happy, be comfortable with you, and quickly break through the relationship at the right node, then your goddess will officially fall in love with you.

Boys must be bold and careful enough to chase girls. Courage is enough, that is, you should boldly pursue the girl you like. Don't be afraid of failure, and don't be afraid of girls rejecting you. Maybe she just likes you, so go after her boldly!

But we should also pursue it and pay attention to ways and means. You can't rampage like a savage, it will only scare away girls. Slowly win the hearts of girls step by step. We should grasp the rhythm of pursuit, not attack blindly, but know circuitous tactics.

Therefore, if you want to successfully catch up with girls, you must have both the courage of Xiong Xinbao and the mind as thin as hair. Only in this way can we win every battle. Invincible, invincible.

Girls are all weak and need the careful care of men. You should show up in time when she is in trouble. Just like timely rain Song Jiang, when she needed help, she immediately appeared in front of her. Don't use too many words, just help her directly.

Therefore, if you want to catch up with girls successfully, you must have the consciousness of giving help in time. When a girl needs something, you can be there for her in time.

In short, it is not easy to successfully catch up with the girl you like. Although everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you are bold and cautious, plus you can give timely help. You are not far from the day of success!

There are no secrets to success.

But as long as you are sincere, most girls will agree.

I have a classmate who is not tall, ugly and a little fat. He has caught up with the class flowers in our class. Who do you think will object to this? It's getting sweeter every day now.

As soon as school started, he thought that girl was good-looking. After that, I told all the boys and classmates. Since they all said so, no one was embarrassed to harass that girl again.

So he started.

First, we chatted on QQ or WeChat, and there was one build and one build. Some words, we said, if not, we didn't insist, and the girls didn't care too much.

Later, he let several girls in our class know through some means.

Everyone knows the speed at which rumors spread among girls. It didn't take long for our class to basically know about it, including our head teacher.

Of course, the girl also heard about it, but she didn't take it to heart. After all, my classmates didn't show much at that time.

So I chatted like this. From time to time, some students say that she is too fat and wants to lose weight and be shorter. What do girls say when they hear boys say that? Encouragement, of course, was a few words of comfort from the girls, and he also smirked.

Later, with the class group activities, he also deliberately surrounded others, showing off his cooking skills at the party, and circled the girl powder.

There is nothing wrong with showing your strengths.

Later, he began to try to ask this girl out alone, deliberately creating a chance encounter and finding her roommate as a wingman.

Two or three months later, I succeeded in holding hands.

How much did it cost?

I asked him that the money he spent on the girl was only two or three hundred yuan, and it was basically a meal with few gifts.

I don't want you to do this.

What girls want is the love and care of boys. It is said that girls worship money, but few girls are really mercenary.

So hold on, young man, the goddess is waving to you.

First of all, I must make sure that I have enough money, a house and a car, because girls are very materialistic now, and so am I. The boy who pursues me must first be handsome and be a male god, and be older, because he will be mature, have enough money, have a house and a car, otherwise I will not agree.

How can chasing girls succeed? I just want to say that in fact, sometimes introverted boys have more ways to chase girls. Why do you say that? Let me share how this introverted boy around me managed to catch up with the beauty queen of our class.

When I was in college, the girls in our class were excellent. She is from our school radio station and student union, and her personality is lively and cheerful. Just because I was attracted by a shy and introverted boy in the student union, I made up my mind to chase her. I didn't know how to express it at first, so I started to buy breakfast every morning and fetch water at night. I was never absent in sunny and rainy days. Every breakfast and water were handed over by others, so I persisted for a month. Then I asked for our WeChat and phone number and started sending messages every day to care about greetings. Every important day or when there is any activity, the surprise never stops. Even when he has a cold, fever and illness, he is always caring and attentive. Finally, the girl was really moved by him, and then she has been together until now!

Therefore, sincerity is the most important thing for both introverted and extroverted boys. Show your sincerity and actions, and girls will feel it. Even if you are not good at expression, you will come naturally. On the contrary, gaudy expression may make people feel romantic, but it won't last long, because once the novelty of one party ends, all that remains is mutual boredom. If you want to last forever, you have to start with small things! ?

It is not easy to chase girls, but everyone yearns for a beautiful love and marriage. As long as you know what is appropriate to win all the "white rich beauty" and "cold beauty", first of all, you know that modern people are demanding more and more spiritual and material enjoyment in love.

Although it is difficult to be a good person, it is more difficult to be a good person and the pressure is getting heavier and heavier. Falling in love, getting married and having children are inseparable from financial support and methods of picking up girls. While trying to make money and have capital in hand, you should learn how to win the woman you like. Otherwise, you can only sigh every day that "good cabbage has been arched by pigs." In fact, it is not difficult to "win" a woman. I will teach you nine ways.

1. Sweet words, not stingy with your praise.

Everyone likes to listen to nice words, like being praised, praised. Do n't go by what she says She doesn't like rhetoric, she likes honest people. Then you are wrong. The more such a woman likes to be praised, the more she will be elated. You should find such an example around you. A poor man is just eloquent. Do you think he will be short of women? This compliment is the lowest cost for you. Why don't you use it? But you can find her merits and praise her. Everyone has advantages. If you put your heart into it, you will find them. Don't praise her shortcomings, so she will think you are hypocritical.

Second, use it.

Show up when she needs it most. Love skills winter cotton-padded clothes, summer wind. When her career is frustrated and unhappy, try to appear beside her and listen to her. If there is no good way to solve her problem, then don't talk nonsense and just listen. This will also make him feel released. Tell her to let you think about it, and you will come up with a good solution. Tell her another day. You can't find it online. There are many ways. Ask her to tell her these methods. Even if you don't help her solve the problem, she will feel that you care about her affairs, and she will feel your warmth and talent, and you will be half successful!

Third, be a responsible person,

When all women are looking for a partner, the first requirement is responsibility. They all know that as long as a person has a sense of responsibility, even if there is nothing now, it will happen sooner or later. At least you are a potential stock in her heart and can give her hope. No one wants to find a husband who can't see hope! If you are not responsible, at least you should be. Why use the word "appear" here? Because not all boys are responsible, you are not afraid of responsibility for the time being. You should pretend to be responsible and let the girls feel this, otherwise no one wants to associate with an irresponsible boy. If you pretend to be very similar, congratulations, you will get used to being a responsible boy in the near future. Because you will find that responsible boys will always be favored by girls!

Fourth, be sincere to the woman you like, and don't exaggerate.

There are fewer and fewer sincere people in this society, which is the basis of mutual communication. Now it has become a rare virtue. Since you like her, you have to think that this is not a day or two, maybe it will be a long time or a lifetime. There is no need to hide anything. What she can't accept now will not be accepted in the future. Maybe she can accept them, but there is another deception. Everyone likes to associate with sincere people, which is the beginning of your first good impression on her!

5. Be willing to spend money for the woman you like, and never be stingy.

No one in the world has a problem with money. Especially in this society with rapid economic development, once a person is short of money, he can only go to despair, which is unimaginable. Of course, money is also indispensable in love, otherwise the love between two people is just an armchair strategist, and will face difficulties at any time and cannot be carried out. Therefore, love needs economic input.

Because in love, men are stronger and more active, and women are more shy and passive, so men often take the initiative to face women's desire for love, which is followed by sweet words, but with the deepening of feelings, economic investment also follows, accompanying their girlfriends to go shopping, eat, go shopping, watch movies and so on. Men will take the initiative to pay the bill at the cashier. Even if gold and silver jewelry is expensive, men will give generously. As long as a woman likes it, as long as she needs it, she will be satisfied, making her smile and return home with a full load. Therefore, if you want to catch up with a woman, you must be willing to spend money on the woman you like. Don't be stingy. Most women like people who are willing to spend money for themselves, which is very realistic.

Remember women's birthdays and important festivals.

In life, women pay special attention to their birthdays and some important festivals. If the man who really loves her will never forget a woman's birthday and important festivals, otherwise you don't deserve to be her boyfriend. If a man really loves her, he will prepare gifts in advance, reserve roses for her birthday and important festivals, gather all relatives and friends, hold a particularly grand birthday or holiday party for her, and give her a gift prepared in advance, which will make her overjoyed. Women at this time must be very beautiful and touching. She will be very moved, grateful and easily emotional. Women tell more in silence than in voice. They are emotional. If you are so moved, she will take the initiative to hug a man.

Share your struggle experience and goals with her and give her a sense of security!

A person who has no goal in life is like a headless fly, hitting a wall and breaking his head everywhere. If a man loses his direction, is in a daze and has no goal, he will not be motivated, even be lazy, idle all day, get into the habit of gambling, and even rely on his parents to support himself. Such a man will make women feel that they can't see hope in you, look down on you, and make women hate you. Therefore, when a man takes care of a woman, he will share his goals and experiences with her, but he must be consistent with his words and deeds, and he can't talk big and have no practice. Listen patiently to women's reasonable suggestions and opinions. If there is any change, encourage them to further integrate women's hearts into their own careers and their own hearts, and walk hand in hand in their future lives. Maybe you still have nothing, at least let her see hope and feel safe with you!

Eight, at the critical moment, the man is by her side, and more companionship gives her warmth.

There is no royal road to life, and it will not be smooth sailing. Women sometimes get into trouble because of trivial things in life. When they are depressed, many people cry in the corner and at night. At this time, if it is a man who really loves her, he will definitely rush to her side for the first time and listen to her. The man will comfort her, comfort her and enlighten her from time to time. Especially when she is ill, don't just say hello. It is best to accompany her to see a doctor, send the medicine to the bedside and take good care of it. At this time, she needs to rely on most, and when she is most vulnerable, your presence gives her the greatest warmth. Women are emotional, there are too many people who can talk, and everyone is watching the action. At this time, you will easily walk into her heart. There is no hurdle in life, give her a warm hug, let her get rid of confusion and pain as soon as possible, face you with a smile and face your beautiful life.

9. Don't be impatient in the process of pursuing, let her feel your sincerity and respect.

There is a saying that "you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient." If you chase others all day, everyone will get bored. Don't just want to establish a relationship with her when you meet her, let alone touch her. This will make him feel that you are casual, whether you treat all girls like this or not, and make her feel that you just want to sleep with her, not really get along with her. My good impression of you suddenly vanished, so remember my eight-character motto "Hot and cold, playing hard to get". Don't be too enthusiastic and impatient with girls, or she will think your love is too easy. So, if she disappears for two days, don't worry. If she has a good influence on you, she will become your person sooner or later.

In the vast sea of people, since we met, it was fate. Both men and women should know how to appreciate, cherish, respect, understand, trust, tolerate and care for each other, and the flower of love will bloom for you forever. Everything will be fine. All shall be well, jack shall have Jill.

This question reminds me of a joke I saw a few years ago. Someone advertised in Baidu that "I will teach you to catch up with any goddess you want in X days". The article is full of false chat records and exaggerated effect descriptions made by software.

The title means that chasing a girl is an instant hit, and it only takes X days, and she is still a goddess. God, this is no different from charlatans boasting that they can cure all diseases and the curative effect is 100% effective. But some people think that there are too many fools and IQ needs to be recharged.

How to chase girls to hit the target? Answer: In my dream (just kidding). There is no such thing as chasing girls in the world. Who said it was a fool? All methods of chasing girls can't be suitable for all girls, so they don't exist.

It's just that some people don't believe in evil and think they are chasing girls in every way. Mr. Wang is an example.

Mr. Wang is actually not the boss of the company, but the boss's son, a second generation. We all call him Mr. Wang because he always pays the bill. Wang Yongyuan is a standard second generation, and his pocket money reaches six figures every month. He once said that there is no girl he can't catch up with.

Judging from his previous record, it seems that he has really achieved the goal of hitting every shot, with millions of scissors doors and more than one million Vacheron Constantin watches. How many girls can resist Mr. Wang's offensive with this dress and this hand?

So Mr. Wang once said that there is no girl who can't catch up, but the truth hit him in the face. Once he took a fancy to a girl, but the old routine didn't work. He threw back the Hermes bag he gave to others, and the 9999 roses he gave to others were refused to sign for. People gave him a sentence: is it amazing to have money?

He chased people for two months and tried every day to stop them, but the girl was still unmoved. Teacher Wang was beaten, and we were very happy. Someone finally defeated him. He doesn't understand that he can handle another girl in two days, and that girl can't handle it in two months.

He asked me what to do and said that he was in love with her. I said, cold salad, not all girls only love money. You won't feel in love until you can handle it, but when you get it, you won't think so. He said no, and then chased the girl for two months, but she was still unmoved. He was completely humiliated and failed, and never chased the girl again.

No matter how handsome a man is, there will be girls who don't like handsome guys and are immune to them. No matter how rich a man is, there will be girls who are not greedy for money and are immune to the rich. No matter how fast you run, there will always be girls who will keep you from catching up with her. No matter how many skills you have, there will always be girls you can't use effectively. No matter how attractive you are, some girls will turn a blind eye to you.

You are so bad. Some women may like good men. Hello, some women say you are not bad enough. You are very gentle, and some women like to be overbearing. You are overbearing, some women say you are male chauvinist ... it is impossible for all women to suit their tastes.

A thousand people have a thousand hamlets in their eyes, and a thousand girls have a thousand scales in their hearts. No one can please all girls. Therefore, no one can catch up with girls.

In this world, there is no way to chase girls, and it is impossible to chase girls.

Every shot is a dream and can be realized in a dream.

How to chase girls to hit the target?

First, chasing girls is in a passive position. Girls can selectively associate with you according to your value, face value, family property and so on.

Nowadays, there is a constant logistics, which is a very realistic society. It is very good to achieve a success rate of 40% by relying solely on true feelings and skills.

If you are a rich second-generation local tyrant and an official second-generation relocated household, then the success rate is definitely much higher than that of ordinary diaosi, because your worth is rich, giving beautiful women more choices. Most beautiful women love money. Although this sentence is hard to hear, it is very real.

Of course, there are some smart women who don't like money and local tyrants, because what she likes is character and potential. Through each other's hands, we can create our own little happiness.

This kind of girls are relatively independent, independent and controlling, which is difficult for ordinary men to control.

Goro tells you that if you are still learning the skills and stunts of hitting on girls and chasing girls, that era is out of date.

If you can use the word good attraction, I can say that the success rate is 80%.

Maybe many men actively pursue girls' habits, which may not be suitable for women to pursue you, and they don't know how to use them.

As for how to use it? Attraction and packaging, I won't describe them in detail here, because I don't want my friends to say that I am not good at teaching others. In fact, this is really called emotional intelligence.

If you often watch news and media channels, you can see a lot of information about love rat. Why do you always win?

Moreover, most of these great gods in love rat are diaosi reversal. In fact, I want to say that IQ determines success or failure. The targets are highly educated graduate students, masters, actors, models, rich women, beautiful women and so on. ...

Let many men envy and hate after seeing it. Why don't they have such smart brains?

It's not that you are not smart enough, but that you don't know how to think in reverse.

80% men take the initiative to chase women, and they are used to it. The oldest way is to say hello three times a day to please the beautiful woman and make her indifferent.

I believe more than n people have seen it. There is a poor village, but the transportation is convenient and it is close to the highway. Because the whole village is lazy, most people rely on the government to provide subsistence allowances and maintain their basic livelihood, which leads to being single and having too much surplus.

There is a bachelor who has worked in the south for 10 years. Seeing this scene, he tried to imitate the routines on the Internet.

Houses near the highway are written in red demolition letters.

It is said that before long, most of the bachelors in the village found their wives and got married. Whether the plot is true or not, at least let us know that our ideas have changed and we are getting closer and closer to success.

Hello, everyone, I am Goro's inner voice, and I speak for myself.

I am a love analysis class, focusing on solving emotional conflicts between men and women. Let me answer this question.

First, the problem itself is problematic. The problem is "one shot at a time", and the key is "one shot at a time". Chasing girls is not an experimental process in which you can try and make mistakes and then get results, but a practical process in which you must always put your mind, spirit and emotion into it. You can't go after girls with the mentality of "learning" or "trying", even if it's not one, let alone "hundred hairs"! The premise is wrong.

Second, are there any lovers who pursue success? Basically not, even the pursuit of the disparity between strength and value may not be 100% successful. Maybe you have good conditions, high academic qualifications, rich family and super handsome appearance, but you may not succeed in chasing girls, even girls with much worse conditions than you. Because the pursuit of girls mainly depends on feelings, on the fit of two people, not on "strength."

Third, how can we improve the success rate of pursuing girls? This can be studied and has certain rules. As long as it is not absolute, it can still be discussed. I think there are two main points: first, you really like it, treat it sincerely and persevere; Second, you should always have the idea of being a good person, an excellent person, someone who can create value and bring happiness to her, and really practice this idea. At this time, I believe that you can finally be with the person you love.

One of my buddies is handsome and charming.

After graduating from high school, I worked as a security guard in the local supermarket. Less than a week later, I fell asleep on duty one night. Since then, I have become out of control. Every once in a while, I will change my girlfriend. Students who work in summer vacation, young women who set up stalls in parks, and employees in supermarkets, some are beautiful, and some are ordinary. I was still at school at that time, and I was envious. At the craziest time, I was busy with four boats. After playing for several years, he took the initiative to get married. The object of marriage is not the most beautiful among many girls, but the figure and appearance are very average. We all say that he did too much evil and deserved it!

Actually, it looks like there are only a few points.

1. Really handsome boys are more likely to attract girls.

2. Gourmet Cai Lan said in a talk show about dating skills that this is the secret of dating, regardless of beauty or ugliness!

Love still needs to be practiced. If you talk more, you will be handy and hit the target!