Why did you decide whether to be together or not the first time we met?

If the feeling at first sight makes you feel that it is not suitable for you, or that it is not what you want, it is difficult to get along with. Being in tune is more important than it looks. Because of this, I think this is a question of forcing yourself or forcing yourself to think. I wonder what we value most when we date. Some people value looks. He said that we fell in love at first sight, regardless of looks. What he said is right, but it's not all right. It is true that when we first met, we all looked at each other's looks, but there should be something else besides looks! Since you know that you are here on a blind date, you will definitely see if you have feelings, you will taste this person from between his lines, and you will pay attention to some details, so appearance should not be the main thing, but only part of your judgment. There are not so many beautiful women in the society now, but there are more and more beautiful women and wild animals, and they live happily.

Many men are not very attractive, but they are beautiful, which has not become a stumbling block in their pursuit of the goddess. On the contrary, such people are more worthy of respect, because they must have certain qualities, so they will win the favor of each other. So, looks really don't matter much, especially when two people live together. It has nothing to do with looks. The important thing is to feel comfortable with each other, not to change each other for anything, but to accept everything in his life. Since it is a blind date, we should pay more attention to the understanding of both sides, because the other side is the one who will accompany you through your life. After all, blind date, unlike love, is the most sought-after feeling of love at first sight. Love is a prelude to marriage, and many people who end up together are often not the first to make you feel excited. So the feeling at first sight is not the most important. Many times, we always show our perfect side in front of strangers to win goodwill. What we see is often not the truth, which is very blind. What is important is to discover it slowly and adapt to it gradually.

Don't guess the blind date with the worst malice. A good guess does not necessarily lead to a good result, and a bad guess will inevitably lead to a bad result. It's best to communicate and ask why without putting pressure on each other. When others don't know you, they usually judge you by your face first, then your quality, and then your behavior. How can we get each other's appreciation? Of course, the most important thing is that your moral character is good, and secondly, your appearance should be clean, so that the success rate of blind date will be greatly improved. At first glance, you can feel nothing, but you can't be disgusted and unhappy, otherwise you will see each other with bad emotions. Boys should know moderate humor. It is suggested to prepare a few jokes in advance to ease the embarrassing atmosphere of the first meeting. Remember to be funny. If it's not funny, it will only make the atmosphere more embarrassing. When a girl meets a seemingly unreasonable request from a boy, she should know how to refuse. Only by doing these places well can blind date be successful.