Watch "Golden Wedding" ten years later: Many people hate Wen Li, but in the end they end up living like her. Why?

When many people watched "Golden Wedding", they thought Wen Li, played by Jiang Wenli, was a disgusting woman. She cannot live, is narrow-minded, prefers sons to daughters, "works" and cannot educate her children. But ten years later, if we look at our lives, how many people are still alive with beautiful faces.

In "Golden Wedding", Jiang Wenli plays a primary school teacher, and Zhang Guoli plays a comrade who is a workshop technician. The two of them are together and have a lot of income, but they have been away for two days when they have no money every month. One month after another, and half a month later, I basically eat kimchi and white noodles, and sometimes I even have to borrow money from others to survive.

Dazhuang is the only one in the family who can make money, but the couple live a very good life. They have fish and meat to eat every day and do not need to borrow money from others.

Why is this?

Because Wen Li has stingy capital feelings! Once you get the money, you just want to go to the movie. You have to take the bus to the movies, and you have to buy soda. It's all money.

Or I use my salary to buy new clothes, perms and skin care products. In short, you will get rich when you squander, but lose money when you endure.

When we watch TV, the jokes are not played live. Now we live on our own. Are you having a good time?

For example, one question in the debate asked, would you like to be vulnerable and poor?

Earn 1,000 yuan a month and buy a piece of clothing worth 800 yuan. , the appearance is very glamorous, but the life is a mess.

Each of us desires wealth and freedom, how can we move towards wealth and freedom?

Free wealth says that frugality is the basis for wealth accumulation. The first lesson in financial management is to be frugal, because being frugal is the only way to spend less, save, and invest.

So next time you are faced with something you want to buy, ask yourself these three questions: Will I die if I don’t buy it? Will I die if I buy it later? Buy one Will being cheap kill you?

When you get your spending under control, you'll find that saving money is much more fun than spending it.

Wen Li and Tong Zhi have made a lot of money, but their lives are not good. Not living is one thing, and having too many children is another.

The cost of four children is a problem.

When we watch TV, we laugh at a primary school teacher who likes boys and wants a boy for the rest of her life. Let's see how she fares after giving birth to a boy. She showed off her son to everyone she met. She even left her three daughters for him.

Does Wen Li really prefer boys to girls?

Actually, I think this has more to do with her family than the New York Times.

Wen Li’s mother gave birth to three daughters and felt that life was not always smooth sailing. This view is deeply engraved in Wen Li's heart and has influenced her since she was a child. So Wen Li always wanted a son.

Unexpectedly, the first born was a girl. Then the desire for a son became more urgent. Then the second girl, the third girl, she was desperate.

She was suddenly given a son at this time. Whoever it was, she would probably go crazy with joy!

I don’t think this is because of beauty, but because of human nature. .

1 Corinthians 5 Just as we now have daughters who want to have another son, and we have sons who want to have another daughter.

We have been looking forward to having two children, but we have neglected their education. Just like Wenli's three daughters in "Golden Wedding", none of them made any promises in the end.

Yanni is not alone, but she regards love as child's play.

Nan Du and her family have deep resentment, but the son who has been doted on by Ji Qian in life has embarked on a journey of love. A road of no return.

Having children is our right, and educating them well is our responsibility. Don’t just give birth to a baby and forget about it. You are the one who ends up suffering.

In "Golden Wedding", Wen Li and her neighbor Zhuang Sao fell in love and killed each other.

When the relationship was good, the pregnant Wen Li asked the family to stew pig's trotters; 29. ??When the relationship was not good, the two people quarreled in front of everyone.

Wen Li is just the embodiment of a narrow-minded female image.

Have you ever noticed how similar she is to some of the people around us?

We don’t have any problems with our neighbors or friends, but sometimes we just don’t like each other. Or is this mainly a fault of jealousy?

Wen Li always feels that she is better than Mrs. Zhuang. After all, she was educated, had a job, and could earn money, which was much better than her illiterate rural parents.

But this is not the case. Although she is uneducated and doesn't look like much, she is definitely good at life. Life is flourishing, even when times are hard, make good food.

Wen Li’s heart is naturally unbalanced.

Not to mention, later, when others had the same hairstyle and wore the same clothes as her, she suddenly felt that all her advantages had been taken away, and she was not happy at all.

Then there is the division of the House of Representatives.

In real life, many women are just like their neighbors. On the surface, they are intimate, but they are secretly competing.

But why? If you are not looking for happiness, you are looking for yourself. Living a good life is the greatest happiness.