Xu Meijing: I got rid of schizophrenia.

Recently, I always think of Xu Meijing's cold and quiet appearance when he sang Friends.

New love and old love, but friends.

The Cantonese version of Ripple is somewhat full of jokes and abuse. It seems to tell the world in the form of a cold joke that love can be seen as lightly as possible, and people's expectations can be seen as much as possible.

I remember the first time I listened to Xu Meijing. It was a more terrible day than being lovelorn.

Less than 24 hours after he stood in the cold wind mouth and kissed warmly, my mobile phone received a message that he regretted afterwards: I'm sorry, I think we need to talk. ...

Another ambiguity that didn't start and end before, much like the story in Friends. However, different experiences reveal similar sufferings.

In "A Friend", I believe that such a scene will always happen: two young people talking and laughing are walking on a cold road, originally planning to give each other a kiss in a sparsely populated corner, and one is the support for settling down in a big city. Helpless, there is another friend between husband and wife, and that friend seems to want to integrate into this relationship.

However, love is so particular about coming first, and those who are late are not reconciled to spare tires.

If you want to compare the spare tire in Friends to a girl on the wrong bus, what about me? Am I helping others?

It seems that every girl can unconditionally tolerate the recklessness of the other person after meeting the person she likes, even if he is married. ...

Xu Meijing is not such a person.

We don't know when she fell in love with Chen Jiaming, the lyricist and partner. However, every time she sings the words written by Chen Jiaming for her, she feels a little sad.

I met married Chen Jiaming.

Shanghai Record Company, which was all the rage at that time, praised this emaciated married genius as "the Singaporean version of Jonathan Lee". At that time, Xu Meijing was still a fledgling girl. She is cold and stubborn, likes singing and being alone.

Chen Jiaming likes this girl who likes humming very much.

"Singapore can never find a voice as beautiful as yours."

The story begins with pity. Perhaps Chen Jiaming took a fancy to the secluded and empty inspiration in Xu Meijing's voice, so she tried her best to compose so many songs for her to soothe the soul of the city, so no matter what she sang, she always unconsciously embedded in the depths of every lonely soul.

I think, count her in.

Loneliness is that I love you more than you forever.

Despair means that you have to love her forever.

Spend the night with her.

Where will anyone be so stupid again?

I have comforted so many lonely souls, but I can't comfort myself alone. Maybe what this man can do for her is to make her voice more and more red, and what Xu Meijing wants more is to wash his hands and cook soup for this man.

Unfortunately, Chen Jiaming is a man who refuses to divorce her.

If romance is really an apology, then love such a man who doesn't divorce Xu Meijing. Because it seems that it takes more courage to disappoint your wife than to reorganize. This skinny man, known as the "Singaporean version of Jonathan Lee", wandered between his first wife, Xiu-mei Peng, and Xu Meijing.

A threesome with a pleasant scene

It's pathetic to tolerate me.

How happy do you believe I am?

Life is still too long and cruel.

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Xu Meijing must think that meeting with Yuan Yaofa will start his second spring. After all, on this road of life, it is unwise to block yourself in one road.

But she never imagined that the climax of love came so quickly.

Yuan Yaofa is not a responsible person. After experiencing a career downturn and being concealed by the company, he became more and more perverse and violent.

At this time, Xu Meijing was pregnant with Yuan Yaofa's child. Like many spoony girls, she chose to be with Yuan Yaofa at the most difficult time. All I can wait for is one sentence: abort the child.

Sure enough, the story of dog blood is among the people.

Yuan Yaofa disappeared and Xu Meijing had a nervous breakdown. At this moment, Chen Jiaming suddenly made a phone call and suffered from insomnia all night.

"I miss you."

Xu Meijing, who was eager to fly back to Singapore to meet Chen Jiaming, thought that this would be the last time for Chen Jiaming to accept his signal. Chen Jiaming said, still can't start a family with you.

You see, in the game of love, the most important thing is the first sight.

When we all thought that the script of the story should be finished and Xu Meijing should be angry with Chen Jiaming forever, suddenly came the news that "Xu Meijing's personal assistant Huang Fengyi committed suicide after having an affair with Chen Jiaming in Singapore".

It has been said that spoony tears will make the whole city fall. Perhaps, no matter how strong the heart is, it can't stand the impermanence of the world. Love can make people.

Xu Meijing is between Chen Jiaming and Yuan Yaofa, just like a ball being kicked around.

You can call Yuan Yaofa irresponsible love rat, or you can defect. Chen Jiaming is a coward. He ran away after flirting with a girl, but Xu Meijing collapsed.

Later, after recording her last album "Static Electricity" in 2000, she retired from music.

Some people say that one day after six years, she was diagnosed with schizophrenia;

Others said they had seen Xu Meijing in the Italian Plaza.

She looked at the pigeons flying in the square with empty eyes and obviously didn't want to be disturbed.

September 20 16, I went to Nanjing Midou Music Festival because I heard that Xu Meijing would appear. It has been seventeen years since you returned to Nanjing, but it's a pity that you didn't come to your concert.

This woman, in her forties, when I saw her again, Xu Meijing, who was cold and quiet in Shang Hua's record era, had become a middle-aged fat woman; In those days, black hair floated into a long scroll, and you sang with an inscrutable smile. ...

But the dark blue eye shadow is exactly the same as that of that year, how rippling.

In front of the camera, although shy, I still greet people lightly:

Thank you. Take care.

She is the one who should take care of herself the most.

1996, "Night Return" swept the country. Twenty years later, she came to Nanjing with a whisper and returned to people's field of vision, but times have changed.

I wonder if she has any regrets. Jonathan Lee invited her to join Rolling Stone Records. In order to cooperate with Chen Jiaming, she euphemistically refused her eldest brother and the opportunity to let her go to a higher stage.

Maybe you're used to "People Who Return at Night", but I love its Cantonese version of "Knowingly Committing a Crime".

Cantonese lyrics are so direct to the depths of the soul, where there is only one kind of love in life, if there is, it must be a vegetarian; The rest were committed on purpose.

Everyone knows the inside story of her every night.

Willing to be your set.

Get your love

Find your waywardness again

There are many old songs that people can relish, but there should be very few people and things that people can relish now.

Xu Meijing, now.

Why are you crying?

Tears still have to be faced.

Unnecessary burden

How can I not bear to lose it?

Today's Xu Meijing is in absolute beauty as early as the years that made her beautiful.

In fact, many veteran love song singers fade out like this. Even if one day, we see them performing on the stage with wrinkles again, we may still cry. Every woman is a girl, and time and cruel reality have worn away the girl's heart.

Everything is predestined.

Because of you, I am willful.

I really hope that the person who is staying by your side to warm your bed now is the one you captured alive when you were young and ignorant.