A very profound copywriting of life insights

1. When you are alive, you don’t need to understand everything. If the water is extremely clear, there will be no fish; if the water is extremely clear, there will be no friends. Compete with your family, and if you lose, the family relationship is gone; compete with your lover, and if you lose, the relationship fades; compete with friends, and if you lose, the friendship is gone. What we fight is reason, what we lose is love, and what we hurt is ourselves.

2. Life is not easy, don’t laugh at others. Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and everyone has songs that are difficult to sing. No matter how beautiful a person is, there is still bitterness behind him; no matter how happy a person is, there is helplessness and difficulty in his heart. No one’s life is easy. Smiling at others means laughing at yourself. Respecting others means respecting yourself. The poorest people are just begging for food, and those who don't die will always come forward. Who's life is perfect, who's life is not miserable, who can guarantee that they will always be happy in life. No gold is pure, and no man is perfect.

3. Don’t force shoes that don’t fit, as they will only hurt your feet; if the other party doesn’t answer the phone, don’t redial again and again. Someone who values ??you will call you as soon as possible; Don’t go all the way to eat at a restaurant that has been moved. You can’t spend all your time following it. As long as you have a clear conscience about everyone and everything, don't force it if it's not yours. In fact, what leaves is the scenery, and what remains is life.

4. In this world, there is no one-and-done, perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. You can't have all the benefits yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can gain something. You have to learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of your life, and then be at peace. Because, this is life.

5. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings. A word of criticism or a trivial matter is all brooding in our hearts, allowing the outside world to control our mood. Most of the time, what others said or did may have been forgotten long ago, but we are still tormenting ourselves. Life is not easy, and it has been a bumpy journey, so there is no need to repeatedly jump into traps set by others unintentionally. Live a little longer and show yourself, many people and things have nothing to do with you.

6. Every person who appears in your life has a reason and a mission. People who like you give you warmth and courage; people you like teach you love and self-control; people you don't like teach you tolerance and respect; people who don't like you teach you introspection and growth. No one appears in your life for no reason. Everyone's appearance is fate, has a reason, and is worthy of gratitude.

7. Life is like a pencil that you keep using. It starts out very sharp, but slowly it becomes smoother. However, if it is too smooth, it almost needs to be chipped again.

8. The needs of life are like eating. You can only eat two bowls of food. If you eat two more bowls because you are greedy for the fragrance of the food, not only will you not be able to enjoy the benefits of eating more, but you will suffer from it because your stomach cannot bear it. Bring pain. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily enjoyment. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy, not to ask for extravagant things, be peaceful and quiet, and be content with what you have.

9. What you expect will be further away from you; whoever you cling to will be hurt the most. Meeting is the prelude to parting, and parting is the origin of encounter. Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, and let go of fruitless attachments. Be bearish. Look away. See through. Don’t worry or care; everything will slowly get better. Don't go back to the past, the last second has passed, only the joy and happiness of the moment can be found.

10. Unsatisfactory things in the world are common, and there are very few people who can be completely obedient to you and things that can make you get what you want. If you have to care about it, no one or one thing can satisfy you. As long as a person lives, he only seeks peace of mind, so why bother with yourself. The width of your heart is one inch, and the road is one foot wide.

11. When fate wants you to grow up, it will always arrange some unpleasant people or things to stimulate you. This is a rule.

12. The happiness and troubles in life are equal, it depends on how you feel. Just like finding a half-full bottle of water in the desert, if you say: "Great, there is still half a bottle of water." What you feel is happiness. If you say, "Oops, there's only half a bottle left." What you feel is trouble. God gives everyone the same amount of happiness, it depends on how much we can feel it. If you have a contented and tolerant heart, you will always be surrounded by happiness. ——The Living Buddha Gyatso

13. The more a person grows up, the more he realizes that many things do not need to be taken too seriously, such as the expectations of the outside world, and whether people like you or not is irrelevant. Taking it too seriously will make you lose yourself.

In order to please others, you tiptoe around and change things, and your life is kidnapped by others. Along the way, I realized that the real charm is not who you should become, but who you are. What is man's first calling? The answer is simple: be yourself.

14. For a long time, if you still can’t see hope, then change the direction; if you have thought about something for a long time, but you are still obsessed with it, then choose to let it go; for some people, make friends If you still don't feel sincerity after a long time, then choose to leave; if you persist in a way of life for a long time and still don't feel happy, then choose to change. Let go. Let go. Let go of the past and let your heart return to zero!

15. Temper, when it is sent out, it is temperament, and when it is withdrawn, it is skill. A master of life never lets his emotions control him.

16. Leave some space for others, and also leave room for yourself. "You cannot earn all the profits, you cannot enjoy all the blessings, and you cannot use all the power." This world is not one person's world, but everyone's world, so there must be room for everything. "The world is vast in our belly, and there are always boats to ferry people." The more tolerance you have, the more understanding you will have; the more kindness you will have, the more hope you will have. It is convenient for others and convenient for yourself. If others have a way out, you won't be in a desperate situation.

17. One thing, if you understand it, it’s heaven, if you don’t understand it, it’s hell. Since you are alive, you must live well. Sometimes we lose more than we gain because we are too narrow-minded and care too much about the trivial things around us. Whether something can cause trouble or annoyance depends entirely on how we view and deal with it. Don't get into trouble, don't be too concerned about face, don't be petty. Not caring is a kind of open-mindedness and a kind of free and easy.

18. Those who see clearly are full of vitality; those who cannot see clearly are faced with difficulties. Those who can afford it are always responsible; those who cannot afford it are always negligent. Those who can let go are always on the right path; those who cannot let go are always astray. For those who can think clearly, there is spring everywhere; for those who cannot think clearly, there is withering everywhere. ------The right to decide what kind of person you want to be is up to you; the right to decide what kind of life you have is also up to you.