Don’t let your mobile phone cut off family ties

In the information age, science and technology have been prosperous for a century. Smartphones are prevalent and benefit our daily lives. Every coin has two sides, and mobile phones are both loved and hated. Many parents are obsessed with the glass wall of mobile phones, which blocks the communication channel between parents and children.

There is a saying circulating on the Internet: The farthest distance in the world is when I am in front of you and you are playing with your mobile phone. This applies not just to couples, but unfortunately to parenting in general. Falling in love is not that easy. Both parents have his cell phone, which reveals the hidden pain of many children.

There are many fathers in the head-down tribe. In their view, disciplining their children will only last a long time. Dads who are lazy for a moment will regret it for half their lives.

Because a child’s childhood is only once, a precious few years. The most effective guidance parents can give their children is during this period. If the time for children to grow up is missed, it will never be made up for. When the day comes when our children grow up and no longer like to communicate with us, we can only regret looking at our mobile phones.

There is a joke that goes like this: If you don’t care about your son when he is a child, you will want to cherish him when he is 18 years old. Please, I'm going to fall in love, and it won't work with an old man like you following me. Some fathers are happy to be invisible and pass the responsibility of educating their children to mothers. Father's love is like a mountain. It is ridiculed that it is like a mountain, and the pestle stays there motionless.

For example, an actress was revealed to have a monthly household income of 110,000 yuan, but her husband was nowhere to be seen. Mothers commented one after another: With so many months to use, what else do you need your husband to do? It’s so evil. Give me 50,000 yuan a month and my husband will give it to you for free. As a parent, if you don’t take care of your children every time you poop and pee, and if you don’t experience the hands-on care of making milk and putting them to sleep, how can you understand and educate your children?

My classmate Chuan still holds a grudge because he was left to be taken care of by his grandparents since he was a child. He feels that his parents abandoned him. His parents are teachers and have the conditions to raise his two siblings. He said that he would never be able to be as caring and affectionate with his parents as other children.

His relationship with his parents has always been tense. One day his father sent him a WeChat message saying: "Son, I love you." He showed it to me with a look of fear on his face, and I was also confused. I said, do you want to ask if it was sent by mistake? He said, I don't dare. This deadlock did not ease until he became a father and his parents helped him take care of his son.

How can we talk about education when there is emotional alienation? I watched a show called Music Masterclass, and one episode talked about the invisible dad. Hosted by Leo Ku, a ten-year-old boy named Wang Haocheng sang "Father" to his father. The boy chose this song because of one of its lyrics: I wish I could hold your warm hand just like before.

The host curiously asked him how many times he remembered his father holding his hand, and he replied: "Twice." Once when he was very young, his father took him to an amusement park, holding his hand and taking him to buy ice cream; another time, he took him to climb a mountain and walked with him. As for how many times I took him to the amusement park, the child replied that he had forgotten.

When asked what he thought when his father rejected him, the child suddenly lost control: "I was just thinking, why did my father reject me?" There was a cry in the audience. Wang Haocheng's father walked towards his son with tears in his eyes and said, "Can you forgive me?" You will supervise my changes from now on, okay? ’’

The boy nodded and said yes, and then sang for everyone with a passionate voice. His father held his hand and sang together with emotion. After singing, the boy said: "Dad, I want to hold your hand from now on." The father and son hugged affectionately. What a good child and what a belated father! Fortunately, they still had time to repair their indifferent affection due to their mobile phones.

Are some children of low-down mothers not so lucky? At the end of 2016, a two-year-old girl was hit by a car in a parking lot of a community in northern Hunan and died on the spot. The surveillance video showed that her mother was just a few steps behind her, but she was not paying attention and was looking at her cell phone while walking. The girl jumped to the driver's blind spot in front of the car. As soon as the driver started the car, the tragedy happened. If you don’t kill Boren, Boren will die because of you. I don’t know how long it will take for this mother to get over her regrets, but what is certain is that she will be frightened by seeing someone playing with a mobile phone for the rest of her life.

In recent years, there have been more than one shocking case of parents playing with mobile phones causing sudden accidents to their children. At a hot spring world in Xi'an, a 4-year-old son drowned in a swimming pool, and his mother was playing with her mobile phone close by without being noticed; a parent in Changzhou was driving while playing with his mobile phone, and his 5-year-old daughter was suffocated by a truck window and almost died. I feel very sad when I think about my children competing with their mobile phones at such a young age.

Playing with mobile phones neglects children, at least neglects their education, and makes children addicted to playing with mobile phones.

Or even worse, an accident may occur, causing regrets that will last a lifetime. Children's education is irreversible, and if it misses the validity period, it will be difficult to recover. Life is more fragile and precious, and accidental loss is a lifelong tragedy. What's more, our dear children, their desire for parental love is far beyond our imagination.

So parents who bow their heads, please look up at your children and stay with them. Don’t let rejection again and again break your children’s hearts. After all, they are the continuation of your life.

Finally, use a children’s song to appeal to the children:

?If you love me, hug me?

My mother always said to me, “Dad, Mom.” Love me the most

But I always don’t understand what love is

My father always tells me that my parents love me the most

But I always can’t figure it out Understand what love is

If you love me, stay with me. If you love me, kiss me

If you love me, praise me. If you love me, hug me

If you love me, stay with me. If you love me, kiss me.

If you love me, praise me. If you love me, hug me.

If you really love me Just stay with me, stay with me

If you really love me, just kiss, kiss, kiss me

If you really love me, just praise me, praise me, praise me

If you really love me, hug me

Stay with me, kiss me, praise me, hug me

Stay with me, kiss me, praise me, hug me Hug me