IQ is mainly reflected in the way people think. How to improve children's independent thinking ability?

1, listen to the children. Sometimes children's behavior is likely to be unconstrained and unrealistic. As parents, they can listen to their children's needs and encourage them to express their views. Listening sometimes gives children an indoor thinking space, allowing them to release their mentality and find out where the problem belongs.

2, don't blame, be more patient. When the child tells you that your favorite toy is missing, parents don't have to blame the child more when the child doesn't know the difference. At this time, the child is likely to be depressed and a little flustered. Parents encouraged him to think for himself, did he forget to take the toy? When the child calmed down and recalled himself, he really remembered to find his own toy.

3, did not directly meet the requirements. If a child has a problem, he can't respond immediately. For example, if he doesn't know a word, parents can ask their children to look up the dictionary and ask how to arrange the cartons. They can also let the child find a way to solve it by himself and shape his independent thinking ability. He should be given a chance, starting with me.

4, not cold. Some parents like to play jokes on their children, although they think it's nothing, but it's much more ironic, and their children's psychological state will be frustrated, and they are unwilling to find a way to solve the difficulties or find another way. Maybe the answer is wrong, but it is true to pay attention to the correct guidance of how children think correctly.

Give children space to think independently.

Many parents regard their children's serious thinking as a joke, always laughing at their children as adults and not paying attention to their serious thinking. For example, when children play jigsaw puzzles, they feel that their gameplay is incorrect and they constantly interfere; For example, children watch cartoons and constantly ask questions or explain. Recognizing children's serious thinking not only attaches importance to children's performance, but also makes children's brains develop faster, which is a good way to cultivate children's independent thinking.

Encourage children to raise objections.

How to encourage children to doubt, we need to let children create a concept: authoritative and ready-made answers are not always correct, and we can create our own thinking according to active learning and independent thinking; It is necessary to create a more relaxed, harmonious and democratic learning atmosphere for children. Balzac once said: "To open all scientific and reasonable keys, there must be doubts." Build a "question" space for children, so that children can "ask questions" and positively evaluate all their doubts.