How to treat the teacher's criticism correctly

I was very surprised. Because he is an excellent student, it is not a problem to be admitted to a key university according to his grades at that time. How can there be no books to read? After my repeated questioning, I realized that his grades plummeted after he entered the second year of high school, so that he failed in the college entrance examination in Sun Shan. The reason for his decline in grades is simple, just because he failed to treat the teacher's criticism correctly.

One night, he suddenly caught a cold and went to bed early without reciting the English he had learned that day as the teacher asked. The next day in English class, the teacher checked the text, recited it, and just drew it. Because of insufficient preparation, I just recited two sentences and couldn't recite it. Just as he was about to explain the reason, he heard the teacher sarcastically say, "Don't think that you can ignore the teacher's request just because you study well. You're so conceited, you won't get much better grades in the end. Don't believe you! " The teacher's words deeply hurt his self-esteem. Since then, he has been reading novels in English class, and his English grades have plummeted. On one occasion, the English teacher brought up the old story in front of the whole class: "I have long said that XXX's grades are not much better." No, my words have come true! " He was furious and immediately replied, "As long as you teach English, I won't study hard!" " "Since then, his relationship with the English teacher has become more and more rigid. English subjects have become his lame, and he even regrets the college entrance examination, but it is too late.

As a student like me, in real life, it often happens that I can't treat the teacher's criticism correctly or can't stand the teacher's misunderstanding, which will have adverse consequences and even affect my future. The teacher is not a saint, and his criticism is sometimes inappropriate or somewhat casual. As a student in school, only by properly handling the relationship between teachers and students, strengthening communication between teachers and students, and correctly treating teachers' criticism, misunderstanding and blame can we form a good psychological quality and promote our own development. Then, what should I do when I am criticized, accused or even misunderstood by my teacher? I think we should do the following:

First of all, keep a cool head.

When criticized, accused or even misunderstood by the teacher, you must keep a cool head and try to restrain yourself. If it is really your own fault, you should accept the criticism sincerely, take responsibility bravely and promise to correct it later. If the teacher is wrong about me because he doesn't know the situation, then he should make the necessary explanation according to the environment and atmosphere at that time. If it is not convenient to explain for the time being, you can put it down for the time being and explain it after class or at an appropriate time later. Only in this way can we prevent the situation from getting worse when both sides are not calm. I believe that "Ma Quan is far-sighted, and people will see it for a long time", and things will always be understood.

Second, be considerate of the teacher.

When a teacher criticizes, it is necessary to understand that the teacher's motivation is "hate iron and not produce steel", not malicious, not "deliberately playing tricks on us". In this way, we will psychologically eliminate our hostility towards teachers, and further imagine that if we were in the position of teachers, would we also deal with problems like teachers? In addition, teachers have to face dozens or even hundreds of faces every day, and each student's personality is very different, and they are in the process of development and change, and it is inevitable that there will be mistakes in observation and judgment for a while. If you can put yourself in the teacher's shoes like this, you won't contradict and resist the teacher.

Third, take the initiative to communicate with teachers.

In your study career, you will inevitably be misunderstood by teachers and unfairly criticized. Although teachers have strict professional norms and ethics, teachers are not perfect after all, and sometimes they say the wrong things and do wrong things. When the teacher makes a mistake, you can take different measures according to the situation. Sometimes it is better to be wronged temporarily and give the teacher a step down. This will not only show your weakness, but also show your calmness and reason. Sometimes it is necessary to find a suitable time. When the two sides were angry, they went head to head and made things worse. When everyone calms down and finds another chance to explain things clearly, the teacher will accept it easily. As long as you are willing to actively communicate with teachers, make more contacts and increase opportunities for communication, you will shorten the distance and close the relationship with teachers, which will not only promote academic progress, but also learn the truth of being a human being. Why not?

Fourth, seek help from others.

Some students have a particularly stubborn temper. They think that since teachers don't understand the situation and criticize mistakes, they should apologize first, instead of taking the initiative to go to the teacher to explain. If this deadlock continues, it will inevitably have a negative impact on learning, just like the students in my last article. In this case, you can actively seek the help of the class teacher, other teachers or class cadres, and ask them to mediate in time to eliminate barriers. As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon." Don't freeze the relationship with the teacher because of a misunderstanding. I believe that teachers will evaluate every student comprehensively, objectively and fairly, and that teachers can correct their mistakes and constantly improve their image, otherwise they will suffer and be injured.

Fifth, let time prove everything.

As the saying goes, silence is golden. Sometimes it is a good way to eliminate misunderstandings without giving any explanation and letting time make a fair evaluation. You predicted that I couldn't do it, and I used my actions to bankrupt the prediction and make the teacher have to look at you differently. The so-called "facts speak louder than words" is the truth. Of course, this doesn't mean waiting to see the teacher's jokes, but it is much more valuable than being angry with the teacher.