Why are there so many leftover women around?

Most elderly women are concentrated in cities. As for the leftover men, the largest number is probably the largest rural area in China.

In 20 17, Japan's NHK TV station produced a documentary "Singles", telling the story of three bachelors dating in Gansu. Compared with the happy ending in Leftover Women, the three men in Single Man were still unmarried at the end of the documentary.

A, who works as a chef in the city, hit a wall one after another because she is too short. I heard that there was a girl who was recently divorced and rushed there, but she was turned away again.

Yang Ruiqing, a 42-year-old car attendant, failed to make a blind date more than 20 times because of her baldness.

Few divorced women in their thirties are willing to contact him. On the first date, she asked for 200,000 yuan to help pay off her debts.

Ma Yunfei, a 42-year-old man who runs four physiotherapy shops, is a wealthy person in the township.

He is bent on pursuing a 27-year-old young and fashionable insurance salesman, but the other side is interested in young employees of state-owned oil companies.

We agreed? Rhapsody of July Flowers? I didn't expect that they were all embarrassed bachelors.

Interestingly, in the interview, they invariably attributed the reasons for being single to the supremacy of social money and women's money worship.

In fact, they didn't get married until they were 40 years old. One of the root causes is poverty. Because the local blind date market has become naked financial competition (bride price).

We will find a magical world: leftover women are mostly in cities, and bachelors are mostly in rural areas. Singles blame leftover women for worshipping money too much, and leftover women think that bachelors are not excellent. In fact, urban leftover women are more eager to find better than themselves, and naturally have higher material and spiritual requirements.

That's why it's left.

In addition, there are various prejudices against women in marriage. For many people, whether it's emotional engineers on dating websites or parents dating in parks, it's wrong not to get married when they are old, and they may even be labeled as demanding, too picky and unfilial.

Is this really the case in the real society? It seems that these two documentaries only show people a superficial phenomenon, and the deep-seated reason is expressed by the director in a subtle way: the tradition of China society.